The film Xibao, which was released last week, was adapted from Yi Shu's novel of the same name.
This novel tells the story of a poor woman, Jiang Xibao, who happened to meet an extremely rich man, an elderly man who has been single for many years.
10 carat diamonds, pink luxury cars and Hungarian castles ... make Xibao a quiet woman.
Xibao said to herself: without love, it is good to have money.
However, human nature is greedy. With the treasure of money and the desire for love, people fall into pain, neglect their studies and become more and more decadent.
Until Xu Cunzi died, he left her a fifth of Xu's property.
Yi Shu, the author, wants to warn readers through this story that the only way out for women is to have the ability to protect themselves, independent personality and the ability to make a living, and to be invincible and enjoy life freely without relying on others.
But there are always some people who will misunderstand. They think "Xibao" is to tell you:
"Sister and sister don't have to worry, you can't find love and you can't find an old man."
02
Xibao's story was invented by the author Yi Shu.
Here is a story about a miss Xu, which really happened this year and was published in the newspaper.
Miss Xu, as young and beautiful as Xibao, met an old rich man and was madly pursued.
Mr. Yu, an old and ugly rich man, threw money at Miss Xu crazily and bought her a 400,000 BMW. Sometimes he transfers hundreds of thousands at a time, and spends more than 100 in a few years.
Miss Xu originally disdained him, but seeing that he was so generous, she later became his girlfriend.
Xu Cunzi is sincere to Jiang Xibao. He has done a lot, just hoping that Xibao can love him more.
However, Mr. Yu is not sincere to Miss Xu. After living together for several years, Mr. Yu proposed to break up.
Xu Cunzi left a legacy to Jiang Xibao, but Mr. Yu took Miss Xu to court and demanded to return the money spent on her during her love.
Yi Shu said: In any case, a man's greatest respect for a woman is to propose marriage. No matter what kind of man he is, he is still sincere.
Mr. Yu not only refused to propose marriage, but also recovered his investment after enjoying a woman's youth, not to mention sincerity, and even had no moral bottom line.
"My sisters are worried. The rich old man is too glib."
03
As far as we know, Mr. Yu's money was given to Miss Xu voluntarily, which is a gift. How can you get back what you gave to others?
Miss Xu certainly doesn't have to pay back the money.
However, the opposite is true.
The court held that the money that Mr. Yu spent on Miss Xu was a special gift with conditions, that is, Miss Xu and Mr. Yu fell in love under the premise of marriage. Since the two broke up, Miss Xu should return it.
After investigation and evaluation, the court ruled that Miss Xu returned 860,000 yuan to Mr. Yu.
Miss Xu feels very wronged. There is a huge gap between Mr. Yu and her appearance. She won't like him if he is not generous. Moreover, she thinks that she has lived with Mr. Yu for several years, and she has also given her feelings and youth.
But the law does not support Miss Xu.
Many netizens don't support Miss Xu from the moral level. They think Miss Xu deserves to be played because she is a gold digger.
Sister and sister, hooking up with women now is risky and morally and legally untenable.
04
Xu Cunzi, a pure rich man, basically does not exist in the real world.
In the real world, more and more old and ugly men seduce the opposite sex with money and live with them. Even playing with the opposite sex is only condemned by morality, but it can be protected by law.
The money exchanged for beauty, sex and youth is not protected by law, and the payer can recover the money cost he paid at any time after enjoying it.
Zhang Ailing said: "If you use other people's money, even if it is your parents' inheritance, it is better to use your own money to be free and have a happy conscience. "
Study, think, work hard, persist, earn your own fame and fortune, and don't be stingy with your sweat, so there will be no tears of regret.
The above suggestions apply to sisters and brothers and old ugly girls, which are equally terrible.