The most popular TV series right now should be "Do you know whether you should be green, fat, red and thin". Regarding the matter of "marriage", Sheng Minglan said this: "Staying with someone ultimately relies on the lowest point, the lowest point of character. After decades of staying with someone, you still have to look at it. See if you can bear it at the lowest point." This sentence is really perfect.

In "Qi Pa Shuo", Xue Zhaofeng also said a similar point of view: "Whether you can marry a person or whether you are willing to marry a person depends not on the highest point in life, but on the lowest point." . It’s not about how good a person is when he’s at his best, but whether you can accept him when he’s at his lowest. In other words, whether a person is worth trusting for life doesn’t depend on how good he is when he treats you. See how bad he treats you at his worst.

When a friend is in a relationship with her boyfriend, many of us have objections because this friend comes from a better family. , and her boyfriend was from a poor family. At that time, he was worried that she would have a hard life after she got married, so he intervened to stop her. However, her friend said: "I am not afraid of a hard life, as long as he loves me, it will be fine. He is very good to me." After that, she and her boyfriend got married despite the opposition. But in recent years, they have been divorcing. Her friend often cried in front of us, saying that her husband was violent, and she couldn't stand it. It happened, but at the time I thought it was just a one-time act of impulsiveness by my boyfriend. But this time of domestic violence before marriage can actually show the man's character. There are only 0 and N times for a man to hit a woman. It's a pity that simple friends don't realize it.

I advise young people to keep their eyes open and see the lowest point of each other's character, not the highest point, because what determines a happy marriage is whether they can tolerate it. Each other's lowest.