If you want to achieve great things, you must know how to use people. The purpose of employing people is to concentrate the wisdom and strength of others for my use and help me succeed. People who don't know how to take advantage of others' strengths are doomed to be lonely. No matter how powerful an individual is, it will also lead to failure. The stories of Liu Bang and Xiang Yu illustrate this point. Xiang Yu can carry the tripod and win every battle, but he is stingy with raising his subordinates. It is said that Xiang Yu wore out the official seal that should have been awarded to his subordinates and was reluctant to give it to them. Moreover, Xiang Yu is illiterate. Han Xin listened to Xiang Yu's account for the first time, but did not find Han's talent. On the other hand, Liu Bang has nothing to be proud of. He is good at knowing people and employing people, supplemented by Sean, and strategizing and winning thousands of miles away; Wu has Han Xin as the general, and even millions of soldiers have won every battle. Finally, they forced the overlord of Chu to commit suicide, and a generation of heroes and young women died. Xiao He, a wise man, supported the troops and provided food, supplemented the troops and had strong logistical support. It can be seen that it is extremely important to know who to choose. However, we should also know that the core meaning of employing people is to use their strengths, not to seek perfection and blame. It is also an example of Liu Bang's employment. It is said that Chen Ping, Liu Bangyi's right-hand man and an important counselor, has lost his personal morality and is unwilling to do anything. In the history books, Zhou Bo and Guan Ying's slanderous remarks about Chen Ping are recorded. The contents are nothing more than the following: First, Chen Ping had an affair with his sister-in-law in his hometown; Secondly, Chen Ping was in Wei first, then in Chu army, and now he comes to our Han army, which is not loyal enough; Third, Chen Ping accepts money from others in private. Cao Cao mentioned him in the Order of Seeking Talents: "Those who are ambitious may not be able to enter, and those who are enterprising may not be able to do it. Are Chen Ping and Su Qin loyal? And Chen pingding hanye, Su Qin weak face. From this perspective, scholars are short and mediocre! If we have a clear understanding of this meaning, then the scholars will completely stagnate and the officials will not be ruined. " Therefore, when starting a business, people should use talents and be competent, but they should not be harsh or mean.
Many friends, many friends. Being good at making friends is an important feature of a successful person. Liu Guan and Zhang Taoyuan became sworn brothers, trusting each other in life and death, and finally became a three-point hegemony. This brotherhood has far-reaching influence so far. We should start a business and engage in scientific research. It's no longer time to go it alone. We all need to find like-minded partners to plan and work together. Making friends is so important, but how to make real friends is very particular. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, friends listen more, and friends are beneficial. When we make friends, we should make friends with people who are honest, knowledgeable and dare to speak out about our mistakes. Such people will be beneficial to our career development. The rule of making friends should be, let go of what you need and make more friends. We may make some fair-weather friends. The biggest feature of these fair-weather friends is that they are profitable and turn around you like flies. Once they are unprofitable, they will run away immediately, not to mention that if you are in trouble, these so-called friends dare not avoid it for fear that you will bring them trouble.
Whether you can keep the people around you and the good people with both ability and political integrity, your attitude and choice are very important. We should be kind to others. Only by being kind to others, people who have been loyal to you can continue to stay with you, work for you, and strive for our common cause. If we are unfriendly and ungrateful, we may end up without any friends and we will be abandoned. True friends are not quantity, but the real reliability of quality and personality, so you should choose your friends carefully. Let the sycophants go away and don't make friends. Making friends at random will only do more harm than good.