1. If you have more patience, you will have fewer regrets. Fewer falling outs will lead to more steps. The more times you can't hear it, the less times you'll be bothered. The less harsh words you say, the more leeway you can have, so that you can keep a straight line in your life so that we can meet each other in the future.

2. You don’t have to say everything to know someone, otherwise you will have no friends. There is no need to be harsh on those who are responsible, as if they are harsh enough, they will be far away from others. There is no need to be humble enough to respect others, as being humble enough will lead to a loss of bones.

3. Don’t sell a friend’s privacy to please others. Only when your friends trust you will you show a side that you don't want others to know. As a friend, you should cherish this kind of trust and not use it as a topic of conversation one day.

Four. A person should know his position, just like a person knows his face. This is the most sober consciousness. It is always more beautiful to wash away all the brilliance than to apply makeup and powder casually. So do what you can and do it the best. This is the most important thing in being a human being.

5. Anyone can be calm when they are not involved, but who can be calm and calm when they are in it? So please don't comment on anyone because you are not among them.

6. For everything, you must first find the reason for yourself, and don’t always ask for help from others. Your shoes are dirty because the path you walk on is not clean.

7. If you speak less, you will naturally have fewer disasters; if you eat less in your belly, you will naturally have fewer diseases; if you have fewer desires in your heart, you will naturally have fewer worries; if you have fewer things on your body, you will naturally have less suffering; if you have great sorrow, you will have no tears; if you have great enlightenment, you will have no words. Cherish fate when it comes, let it go when fate is gone, follow the square and make it round, and be at ease everywhere.

8. To achieve real happiness, a person must be neither too smart nor too stupid. People call this state between wisdom and stupidity the wisdom of life.

9. It took us two years to learn to speak, but it takes us sixty years to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we talk, the further we distance ourselves from each other and the more conflicts we have. In communication, most people are always eager to express themselves and speak quickly without understanding the other person at all. Two years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to shut up. Whether you understand or not, don’t say much. Speak slowly when your mind is disturbed and your mind is calm. If you really have nothing to say, don't say it.

10. Not disturbing others’ peace is compassion; not hurting others’ self-esteem is kindness. When people are alive, just shine their own light, and don't blow out other people's lamps.

11. You don’t have to be smart, but you must have a sense of proportion. Everyone has to find their own place. It should be yours, it is yours; it shouldn't be yours, and you don't even want to talk to it. It's better to hide your clumsiness than show your cowardice. The more you talk, the shallower you will appear. Therefore, people should be truthful and hide their words. Use the results of your actions to conquer people instead of convincing them.

12. When you buy, buy it, don’t compare prices; eat it, eat it, don’t regret it; love it, love it, don’t doubt it; let it go, let it go, don’t slander it.