There is an old saying in China that "going too far is not as good as going too far", and there is an idiom called "extremes meet", which warns us that everything should be moderate and excessive is useless. This paper will explore the appropriate methods of educating children to help parents better educate their children.

Children's interests

Children's interests are varied. If they are forced to do something, they may lose their original interests. Therefore, parents should respect their children's interests and let them play their specialties in their favorite fields.

Children's physical and mental health

An overly tense environment will only make children feel stressed, which is not conducive to their physical and mental health. Therefore, parents should create a relaxed and happy family atmosphere and let their children grow up in a relaxed environment.

The fun of the game

If we turn something into a task or requirement, even the activities that once made us enjoy it will become stressful and lose all the fun. Therefore, parents should let their children have fun in the game, instead of turning the game into a task or requirement.

Family education

As parents, we should find more reasonable and effective ways to educate our children. Family education is an indispensable part of children's growth, and parents should pay attention to cultivating their moral, emotional and intellectual qualities.