It is indeed more difficult to find a girlfriend if you are too honest, because many girls don’t like people who are too honest. They think that

1. Honest people are easy to compromise

In In relationships, honest people often have no independent opinions and do not make their own subjective judgments about anything. They like to seek other people's opinions. This is a good thing in life, but in love, it is completely the opposite. For example: When an honest man goes out with a girl, he always likes to let the girl make the decision. Where should we go to eat? What movie are we watching? Where we go to play and so on, we have to ask women, and women prefer to be led in front of men. Women are born with difficulty in making choices. They like men to arrange everything, not little boys who have to ask her for advice on everything.

2. Honest people have a dull personality and do not understand romance

In real life, honest people have a dull personality, love to stay at home, and do not like to interact with others. When they are in love, they often Put the initiative in the hands of the other party and learn to let the other party decide everything. They themselves are often a moving robot without thought. It's okay at the beginning, but if it always happens like this, it will become very embarrassing over time, and you will feel that life is so boring and lacks passion and romance. On the contrary, those scumbags and bad men can easily satisfy the romantic needs of women, so they constantly create small romances and bring surprises to people, and they can often win their hearts in the end.

3. Can’t make women happy

The more sweet-talking and glib men are, the more women like them. Although such men may not be reliable, women just eat them. But honest people are dumb, chatting is like boiled water, without any fun. When a woman is angry, she only knows how to reason, but she doesn't know how to coax her, or even just use a cold war, which will only make her more disappointed in you.

4. Honest people have no spirit of adventure

Most honest people have no spirit of adventure and are content with the status quo. When a woman chooses a marriage partner, she first considers a capable man who can bring her a sense of security; secondly, she considers a man with potential who can give her hope. The remaining men who have no ability or potential are the honest men in their eyes. After most women come into contact with an honest man, they feel that this man is down-to-earth and stable, with a good temperament, but he just doesn't call and feels nothing because he has no spirit of adventure. What is adventurous spirit? It's not that you really take risks and get along with girls. When it's time to hold hands, you hesitate. When it's time to hug, you're worried about the other person's resistance. When it's time to kiss, you feel that it's not the right time yet. You miss it again and again, and you dare not. You are a coward, if a woman has been with you a few times, she will find it boring to be with you.

5. Honest people are easily bullied

Honest people always accept things. This is the most intuitive impression women have of honest people. They think honest people are good in life, work and even in life. They are always on the weak side emotionally. Because they are honest, they are more likely to be considered bullied. Therefore, finding an honest man as a love couple or marriage partner is something a woman is not willing to do.