1. I don’t know since when, I have smoothed my edges and corners. No longer sad or angry over trivial things, nor angry about some villains. I faced it with a moderate mentality, not seeking merit, but seeking no faults. Maybe this is very unambitious, but I just want to live a plain life, be at ease, simple, do something that makes me happy, and be indifferent in this life.
2. Growth is an experience, and maturity is an experience. Everyone can grow, but not everyone can mature. Mature people do not rejoice over gains and do not grieve over losses. They just accept it calmly after trying their best. Mature people do not become arrogant because of their success and fame, nor do they grovel because of their unknown status. They have a plain heart. Heart, live a life neither humble nor arrogant. Mature people can take responsibility, know how to be grateful, be calm and calm
3. The path of a newborn is to follow his parents; the path of a student is to follow the teacher; the path of society is to follow the celebrity; this It has become a pattern for some people to grow up. The only thing missing on the road of life is myself. In fact, to follow is to learn to be independent, not to follow, not to imitate. Let your own flowers bloom in your soul and bear unique fruits. Although you may have to pay a price and go through ups and downs, it will also make you proud and make others envious.
4. People who live a confused life are likely to be happy; people who live a sober life are likely to be troubled. ------ This is because sober people see too clearly, and when they are serious, their lives will be full of troubles; while confused people care less, and although they live a simple and rough life, they find the great taste of life. .
5. Rely on yourself to be happy, no one can sympathize with and share your sorrow; rely on yourself to be strong, no one will pity your cowardice; rely on yourself to work hard, no one will stay where you are; cherish it, rely on You and others are not willing to squander their youth; if you rely on yourself persistently, no one will advance or retreat with you; if you go all the way by yourself, no one can always accompany you to the end.
6. Friends are not made of glass. Many people always regard their friends as glass and are cautious for fear of breaking them. Sometimes, we are obviously very dissatisfied with our friends, but we dare not express it. We are afraid that once we express dissatisfaction, there will be a conflict; once a conflict occurs, our feelings will be hurt; once our feelings are hurt, we will lose this friend. Real friends are not made of glass. If a friend is really like glass and you are not allowed to touch it, then if such a friend is broken, just break it.
7. Never show your weakness to others; never tell others your embarrassment; because no one will think you are pitiful, only that you are very miserable. Incompetence is useless. You have to learn to do everything by yourself, because no one will help you. You have to learn to be strong on your own in everything, because you have to rely on yourself for everything!
8. Being lively is nothing more than looking at others, being anxious is nothing more than waiting for others, being uncomfortable nothing more than missing others, being warm nothing more than helping others, being touched nothing more than caring for others, being cruel but nothing more than harming others, and being sinister nothing more than people counting others. , Depressedness cannot be achieved by being popular, humiliation cannot be achieved by playing tricks on others, embarrassment cannot be achieved by begging for help, anger cannot be achieved by competing with others, success cannot be achieved by being superior to others, wealth cannot be achieved by deceiving others, and comfort cannot be achieved by playing tricks on others. Life is about people!
9. Life is a process of constant giving up. Give up the carefree childhood to fulfill the expectations of growing up; give up the beauty of youth in exchange for mature wisdom; give up the sweetness of love in exchange for the stability of the family; give up the sound of applause in exchange for peace of mind. ——Accept it or not, sometimes we have no choice. Love is profound because it cannot be possessed, and dreams are beautiful because they cannot be rounded. Life always carries incomplete beauty, and is sad and beautiful because of its shortcomings.
10. Life is like a car, long distance or short distance; life is like a play, happy or sad. Many things, once they pass, are destined to become stories; many people, once they leave, are destined to become old friends. The old friends in life and the stories accumulated are all experiences. People slowly mature through experience. Some things, whether happy or painful, break into life, and time will eventually wear them away and fade away. The more you experience, the stronger your heart will become and the road will become more solid.
11. Life requires four kinds of cultivation: First, be able to endure. To endure a moment of anger can eliminate a hundred days of disaster; being able to tolerate it does not necessarily mean being cowardly. The second is to see through. The greatest calmness is not to see through the world of mortals, but to still love life after seeing through life. Third, it is affordable. You must be responsible, don't shirk and avoid, and face the bleak life head on. The fourth is to let go. Let go of your paranoia, let go of your memories, let go of your unwillingness, let go of your desires, be plain and simple.
12. If the years are quiet, then take care of your body and mind; if the years are dark, then practice more. The most confusing thing in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don’t understand yourself. If you don't give up, how can you have it; if you don't stay lonely, how can you see prosperity. No matter how beautiful the past was, it was nothing but empty talk; even though it was difficult underfoot, it pointed directly to tomorrow. Whatever fate gives you, no matter how good or bad it is, you need to face it seriously and deal with it calmly. Life is called life when it is full of regrets, and it is real when flaws appear occasionally.
13. Appreciating others is a state of mind; being kind to others is a kind of mind; caring for others is a quality; caring about others is a kind of cultivation! People who deceive me increase my knowledge; people who trip me up strengthen my ability; people who slander me sharpen my personality; people who despise me awaken my self-esteem; people who rebuke me increase my wisdom. ;Those who abandoned me taught me independence; those who hurt me tempered my will.
14. There is no emotion in the world that does not hurt people's hearts. More or less, big or small, it will leave scars on your soul. You must exchange for the joy of love at the expense of scars. Emotional joy as reciprocation of scars. In this world, there are no feelings that can go back. Even if you do go back, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing that can go back is the memory in my heart. Yes, we can't go back, so we can only keep moving forward.
15. How much is a bowl of rice worth? If a housewife steams a bowl of rice, it is worth one yuan, which is the most primitive value; if a businessman makes a few rice dumplings, he can sell them for about two or three yuan; if an entrepreneur makes them after fermentation, Brewed into a bottle of wine, it's worth ten or twenty yuan. Life is like a bowl of rice. Everyone has their own value. The key is how to find, develop, improve and amplify it.