I saw an angry video the other day.

On a street in Hengshui, a teenager in school uniform had an argument with his mother and then began to beat her.

Mom has been avoiding, but she has been knocked down many times.

Finally, I broke free and ran to the community, and I was caught up and pulled by the teenagers in exchange for more intense fists.

The passers-by next to him couldn't help but come forward to dissuade him, but he was scolded by the teenager and meddled.

Finally, a man couldn't help it, grabbed his hair, forced him to kneel down and apologize to his mother, and roared:

"How can you be filial when you are so big? ! "

Finally, under the pressure of everyone, the teenager had to apologize to his mother and help her go home.

The result seems satisfactory, but do boys really know that they are wrong? Not necessarily.

What is even more embarrassing is that the mother who was beaten didn't fight back or blame the child except to avoid it.

Therefore, some netizens' comments are particularly heartfelt:

In fact, in recent years, children have talked back to their parents, lost their temper and fought from time to time.

Parents give everything for their children, but they turn themselves into the most annoying people.

It can be said that the biggest sorrow of parents is not poverty, not quarreling, but the inability to raise a grateful child.

Mourn for my parents and give birth to me.

However, more and more children turn against their parents and become "baiwenhang" in human skin.

A 15-year-old girl from Heilongjiang killed her mother after a dispute with her mother years ago.

Then calmly wipe the blood with a towel, put the mother's body into a woven bag and transport it to the freezer to hide.

In the following time, she lied that her mother had left with a stranger, went to school by herself and lived as if nothing had happened.

Until March of this year, the girl's father came back from work and found his wife's body and called the police. The incident was exposed.

15 years old, the combination of the words killing mother and hiding corpse is really shocking.

The mother broke her heart for the child, but until the last moment of her life, she probably didn't know why she died tragically by the child's knife.

There is such a video, a tall and strong man, reaching out for money from his mother, picking up his thin mother and throwing it into the air crazily.

Mother can't sit on the ground without backhand. The man still felt Japanese and dragged his mother by the collar on the ground.

In this way, the mother also explained that she was fine and did not pursue the child's responsibility.

Sheep still have the kindness to kneel and milk, and crows still have the intention to feed back, but what have our children done in their hands?

/kloc-Wu Mou, a 0/2-year-old Hunan native, killed his mother with a knife after a quarrel.

The policeman asked him, "Why did you kill your mother?"

Wu Mou without any guilt, airy:

"I didn't kill anyone, I killed my mother."

It's chilling to be so ruthless.

Children should be grateful for the kindness raised by their parents, in exchange for a painful human tragedy.

I don't know how grateful I am to treat my parents as enemies and do it at will.

More sadly, most of the children's deviant behaviors are caused by their parents.

Many parents mistake blind compromise and bottomless line for respect and love for their children when disciplining them.

Children are not sensible when they are young, but they will know filial piety when they grow up.

But our ancestors will remind us:

"I loved it when I was a child, and I developed arrogance and laziness. It took a little longer, and I calmed down. Even if I am biased, I have been used to it since I was a child. How can I change it? "

Parents' boundless indulgence will only make children feel that everything is taken for granted, and all the beautiful things in the world are their own.

Ignoring parents' efforts, even when parents can't meet the requirements, they are still indignant.

Once I saw a child with my own eyes, because my parents didn't take him to the playground and punched and kicked my parents in front of everyone.

For an instant, like an enemy with a deep hatred.

Parents didn't even avoid and resist, as if they were afraid that their children would be more angry if they couldn't fight with their fists, and they politely comforted and persuaded them.

It looks pathetic and hateful.

Obviously, this is also a common problem in many families. They usually love children very much and are reluctant to take care of them.

In this way, I made humble concessions again and again and let my children "override" themselves.

Over time, parents lose their prestige in front of their children, and children become fearless and more selfish and overbearing.

Do you really dare to expect such a child to suddenly repent when he grows up and be good to his parents?

Shakespeare famously said, "An ungrateful child is more painful than the sharp teeth of a poisonous snake."

A child can extend his fist to you at the age of three, and dare to extend a knife to you at the age of thirty.

Everything happens for a reason, and parents have an unshirkable responsibility for all this.

Every child's personality habits as a child have laid the foundation for growing up.

Billy Graham, a famous American priest, said, "A child who is allowed to disrespect his parents will never know how to truly respect anyone."

Children who don't know how to respect their parents not only lack a sense of responsibility for their families, but also lack a sense of rules and awe when they grow up in society.

Sun Xing, hated by everyone in the recent hit drama Sweeping the Black Storm, is the prototype of Yunnan bully Sun.

From 1994 to 20 18, Sun committed countless brutal crimes:

With the support of his mother, Sun continued to do evil after he was released from prison, organized triads, opened casinos and illegally detained him. ...

In 20 19, the central supervision team for eliminating pornography and illegal publications was stationed in Yunnan, and the Sun case was listed as a key case.

This time, it is impossible for her mother, Sun, to be the emperor. A few months later, Sun was sentenced to death and his mother was to be punished.

Sun's mother Sun

The excessive doting of parents is actually a catalyst to accelerate the tragic life of children.

I used to think that raising children to prevent old age, but in reality, not only does it not support the elderly, but it also pits the old.

Once he is out of the encirclement of his parents' doting, no one will tolerate him any more, and no one will forgive him easily.

This world will not only make your spoiled children suffer, but also make you suffer the consequences.

There is a saying that parents are the biggest fate of children.

Parents play a decisive role in what kind of character children eventually develop and what kind of life they lead.

Parents really don't hold the idea of paying nothing in return, and their children will have no dependence when they are old.

How many people, before their children grow up, have already come to a miserable end.

Therefore, when you find that children begin to disrespect adults, you need to start to reflect on whether there is a problem with your education.

1, love for children should be principled.

Nowadays, many families are four old people and two parents. As long as children want it, they are infinitely satisfied.

But what you should actually teach your children is, "Mom and Dad love you and are willing to give you all the good things, but this is not taken for granted."

Let children know how to appreciate the hard work of others and learn to be polite and humble.

2. Restrict children's behavior from an early age.

Many parents attach too much importance to grades and neglect moral education. But don't forget, if you want to raise an excellent child, you must be an adult before you can become a talent.

The child is three years old and seven years old. Children's behavior should be restrained and wrong behavior punished from an early age.

Only when you grow up can you respect and love your parents and make a difference outside the society.

Parents should set an example and be responsible.

There is a saying that everyone has heard of:

Third-rate parents dote on their children, second-rate parents indulge their children, and first-rate parents set an example.

Parents who can truly win the respect of their children must be strict with themselves and drive their children to grow together through their own growth.

So don't complain that children don't love you, because you haven't taught them how to love.

The kindness of nurturing is greater than the sky, and the virtues are the first to be filial.

Filial piety and kindness to parents are the virtues that every child should do and must possess.

An ungrateful child, no matter how excellent in other aspects, is useless and does no good to a family.

A child who doesn't know filial piety can't stand the test of human nature, so this society is really dangerous.

If you don't want No Country for Old Men and have no dutiful son before bed, your parents must be cruel and farsighted, and take the responsibility of discipline from an early age.

Children learn to respect and be grateful, and the hard work of parents will not be in vain.

This is not selfish, but the biggest responsibility of parents!

Author | Xiao Sa