It is a kind of education not to spread baseless rumors and not to talk about other people’s rights and wrongs behind their backs.

As the saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth, keep your mouth shut, guard your heart, gossip less, talk less and do more.

Just listen to what others are saying, don’t interrupt, and don’t use it as conversation material to gossip with others.

This is not only a requirement for one's own quality, but also a respect for others.

Talking about people's rights and wrongs is a temporary pleasure, but the result is hurtful to others and ourselves.

It is difficult for a person who always talks about others behind their back to make true friends, because you don’t know when she will talk about you behind your back.

At any time, do not reveal other people's secrets at will, and do not become someone else's gossip.

"Isn't it just a joke, do you take it seriously?"

"Why are you so angry just for such a trivial matter?"

" You can’t even make a joke, you’re stingy.”?

Some people always base their happiness on the pain of others and hurt others under the guise of joking.

When others show displeasure, they do not reflect on their own faults, but instead blame others for being small-minded. Such people are either cheerful and fun-loving, or they are selfish and evil-minded.

Everyone does not want others to know about their flaws and unpleasant past events. When these things become the talk of others, it is no less than tearing open a scarred wound. Only you know the pain.

Any words that start with "Let me tell the truth..." "Don't mind what I say is ugly" and "I have a straightforward temper and I don't have any bad intentions" are not good words.

I don’t feel it when I’m honest, but I mean it’s real.

A truly cultivated person speaks in a reserved manner. Even if you point out your shortcomings, you can still make people feel like you are in the spring breeze and be convinced.

? And those who pretend to be straight-tempered often say unpleasant things casually, regardless of the time, place, and other people's moods, and just say what they want.

She felt comfortable, but the person being talked about was so embarrassed that she wanted to find a hole in the ground to crawl into. She also felt that she was of high moral character and others should thank her.

Being honest does not mean being mean, and not having bad intentions is not a reason for you to hurt others.

If you want to do things well, you must first learn to be a good person and behave well. The most important thing is to be merciful. This not only makes others feel comfortable, but also accumulates blessings for yourself.