1. The thorn in life is right here. The thing that lingers on you and refuses to leave quickly is the thing you don’t linger on.
2. Eating is sometimes like getting married. The most important thing in name is often an accessory. Eating fine food is actually just eating vegetables. Just like a lady who wants to be courted by a rich man, the purpose is not to be a woman.
3. Giving food to someone who has something to eat is a treat; eating someone else’s meal when you have something to eat is a way of giving face. The subtlety of communication is nothing more than this. On the other hand, giving food to those who have nothing to eat is charity; if you have nothing to eat and eat other people's food, the reward of face turns into shame.
4. Looking at the entire history, ancient times is equivalent to the childhood period of human beings. It was childish before, but after thousands of years of development, it has slowly reached modern times. The older the era, the earlier it is, the shorter its history; the further the era is, the deeper the experience and the more years it has accumulated. Therefore, we are the elders of our grandfathers, and the three ancient generations are not as long and ancient as the modern ones. In this way, our attitude of trusting and loving the past takes on new meaning. When we yearn for the ancient times, we may not necessarily respect our ancestors, but we may just like children. It may not be to respect the elderly, but it may be to show off the elderly.
5. There is a kind of person whose financial management is nothing more than borrowing debt and not repaying it, so there is a kind of person whose morality is just to teach others, but not to have any morals himself.
6. Life is said to be a big book. If life is really like this, then most of us authors can only be regarded as book critics. They have the skills of a book reviewer. They don’t need to read a few pages of a book. They have already published a lot of comments and submitted a book review after writing it.
7. After archeology advocated excavation of tombs, many bones and relics of ancient dead people were exposed; after modern literature became a specialized study, many immortal or decayed works of living writers were exposed. exposed through excavation. The joy of being discovered makes those of us ignore the danger of being exposed, and we don't realize that the burial of works often preserves the author's reputation. If the author himself takes the lead in the excavation work, it is likely that the gains outweigh the losses, and "dig one's own grave" will become a contradictory pun: digging the grave of one's own works is also digging the author's own grave.
8. Such good stories as "devoting oneself to the country" and "returning power to the people" are just empty illusions created by language. When the words are delivered, they are actually just like the throwing knives played by a magician. Letting go without letting go.
9. The viciousness of a loyal and honest person, like the gravel in the rice or the thorns in the fish fillet, will give people an unexpected pain.
10. It sounds a bit funny for people who study Chinese to go abroad for "further studies". In fact, only those who study Chinese literature must study abroad. Because of all other subjects like mathematics, physics, philosophy. psychology. The economy, law, etc. are all imported from foreign ports, and they have already become foreign-style; only the Chinese language is a domestic product, and it needs to be a national brand to maintain its status. Just like Chinese officials and businessmen, the money they exploited in their own country must be exchanged for foreign exchange. , in order to maintain the original value of the national currency.
11. A diploma, like the leaf on Adam and Eve's lower body, can cover up shame and ugliness; a small square of paper can cover up a person's emptiness, ignorance, and stupidity.
12. Fang Hongjian also thought of the Chinese restaurant for lunch last night. Miss Bao would definitely have Western food. She said she did not want to meet acquaintances on the same boat, so she found a Western restaurant with a decent appearance. Who knew that from cold cuts to coffee, nothing was delicious: the soup was served cold, but the ice cream was hot; fish looked like marines, having been ashore for several days; meat looked like submarine soldiers, lying in the water for a long time ;Except for vinegar, bread, beef, and red wine are all sour.
13. In front of the man she loves, every woman has the unique skill of rejuvenating herself.
14. Mr. Zhang is used to interacting with foreigners, and he has a characteristic in his speech - perhaps this is not unusual in circles such as foreign banks, YMCAs, Rotary Clubs, etc. - he likes to use Chinese words. Meaningless English words. He has no new ideas that are difficult to express in Chinese and needs to express them in English. Therefore, the English words embedded in his speech are not as good as the gold teeth embedded in his mouth, because the gold teeth are not only decorative, but also functional, and can only be compared to the teeth between the teeth. The embedded meat crumbs mean that the food is well eaten, but nothing else?
15. It seems that big things in the world can be dealt with casually, but small things cannot be faked at all. For example, a corrupt official will pay tens of millions in bribes, but he will never steal someone else's purse.
16. My surname has been "money" all my life, am I still superstitious about money?
17. Some so-called seminars actually just invite some unreasonable people. Eat some dirty food, spend some obscure money, say some innocuous words, and hold a nondescript meeting!
18. Not only can we treat the grapes that cannot be picked, Think of it as sour, and probably imagine it as extraordinarily sweet.
19. If a person is not crazy at the age of 20, he has no future; if he is still crazy at the age of 30, he has no future.
20. There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if a bunch of grapes are given, one kind of person will pick the best ones and eat them, while the other kind of person will save the best ones for last. As usual, the first kind of person should be an optimist, because every time he eats a grape, he is eating the best of the leftover grapes; while the second kind of person should be a pessimist, because every time he eats a grape, he is eating the worst of the leftover grapes. But the reality is just the opposite. The reason is that the second type of people still have hope, while the first type of people only have memories.
21. If you eat an egg and think it tastes good, why bother to see the hen that laid the egg?
22. Love is as greedy as fire. The same will spread, the same cruelty, destroying the strong raw materials of the prison, exchanging the ashes for light and warmth... The erosion of friendship by time is like water flowing through a stone, but it washes it smooth.
23. We call the scantily clad Miss S "partial truth" because the truth is naked.
24. Falling in love among the elderly is like an old house on fire. There is no way to save it.
25. If you love a woman, you should love her dog. If you sincerely make friends, you should forget your friends' faults.
26. People who are surrounded by the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage, career, or games, most of their wishes in life are like this.
27. Prejudice can be said to be a holiday of thought. It is the daily use of the unthinking, but the Sunday entertainment of the thinking. If we cannot harbor prejudices and must be objective, fair, and serious at all times, it would be like building a house with only a living room but no bedrooms, or like looking in the mirror in the bathroom and having to pose in front of a camera.
28. Although mistresses need new ones to be interesting, friends still let the old ones be the best.
29. The humor produced by promotion must be artificial humor.
30. When we are young, we always misunderstand our creative impulse as creative talent.
31. There is no woman in the world who thinks she is lovable, and there is no man who thinks he is inferior.
32. With doors, we can go out; with windows, we don’t have to go out.
33. Queen Elizabeth II wanted to meet him when she visited China. He said, "I am not from the same place as her. I have nothing to say when we meet!"
34. Uneducated People who are educated are deceived by others because they are illiterate; educated people are deceived by printed matter because they are literate.
35. Unexpectedly, your knowledge is mediocre enough to make an editorial.
36. You won’t know me, even though you have been fooled by me. When you were seduced by me, you only knew that I was a lovely woman, a trustworthy friend, and even an ideal to aspire to. You did not recognize that it was me. Only those who reject my temptations, like Jesus Christ, know who I am.
37. It is said that everyone needs a mirror so that he can often look at himself and know what he is. However, people who are self-aware do not need to look in the mirror; for those who are not self-aware, looking in the mirror is of no use.
38. There are no accidents in the world, they are just inevitable with makeup and mask. 106 classic quotations from Qian Zhongshu
106 classic quotations from Qian Zhongshu
1. If you look far ahead, everything will be sad.
2. May your love be with you forever, and your relationship become deeper and deeper.
3. The prosperity outside the door is not my prosperity.
4. Theories are always formulated by people who do not practice.
5. It is cruel to look closely at ugly people.
6. Wherever people live, there is politics.
7. If you want to get married, go on a trip first.
8. There is no need to choose any good music when playing the piano to a cow.
9. Unexpectedly, your knowledge is mediocre enough to be used as an editorial.
10. From now on, we can only say goodbye in death, not in life.
11. I don’t have much ambition, but I hope to devote my whole life to learning.
12. You don’t need to remember good things, they will leave a deep impression.
13. In front of the man she loves, every woman has the unique skill of rejuvenating herself.
14. Thinking about this difficult long night, I feel the fear of a solitary person in the wilderness at midnight.
15. Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to get in, and people in the city want to get out.
16. A really smart woman will never work hard to become a talented woman, she will only be cleverly lazy.
17. There is no dream, no feeling. The most primitive sleep in life is also a sample of death.
18. Having windows in a house is like having a soul in the human body. Windows can be opened and closed, and so can people's hearts.
19. Initially, making an appointment to meet can make the days before and after the meeting shine and become a good day.
20. Self-examination can help you observe others, and observing others also helps you to know yourself. The two wings of a bird and the two blades of a scissor are both indispensable.
21. The thorn in life is right here. The thing you linger on and refuse to leave quickly is the thing you don’t linger on.
22. All happy enjoyments are spiritual, although the cause of happiness is physical material stimulation.
23. For grapes that cannot be picked, we not only imagine them to be sour, but also probably imagine them to be exceptionally sweet.
24. Turning endurance into enjoyment is the greatest victory of spirit over matter. The soul can be independent or self-deceptive.
25. God will regret not adding a wagging dog's tail to people, thus reducing the effect of countless expressions.
26. Whether a wife fulfills her small obligation to her husband or not, whether she gets married or not all depends on whether she likes it or not, and whether others can force it or not.
27. Most of the time, love is unsuccessful. It either suffers from the boredom of finally getting married, or suffers from the sadness of not finally getting married.
28. Science is very different from scientists. Scientists are like wine, which become more valuable as they get older. Science is like women, which become less valuable when they get older.
29. Uneducated people are fooled by others because they are illiterate; educated people are fooled by printed matter because they are literate.
30. Most of the great evils and cruelties in the world are committed by people with true moral ideals.
31. I want to be able to occupy the person I love throughout his life. Before he met me, he had no past and left a blank space waiting for me.
32. When you put your mouth together, I say it to you, and the words will penetrate into your heart, saving you from having to go a long way and go through your ears in a roundabout way.
33. Imagination is a mental function. It is like a pure and polished crystal, reflecting the image of specific things obtained by feeling.
34. Prejudice can be said to be a holiday of thought. It is the daily routine of the unthinking, and the Sunday entertainment of the thoughtful.
35. Some people will suffer from insomnia if they think about it just before going to bed; other people will fall asleep if they think randomly when they are awake.
36. Many people talk about marriage as if they are talking about homosexual love. They are not interested in the girl herself, but they are envious of her father or her brother.
37. Therefore, each of our shortcomings has a compensation. Stinginess is called economy, stupidity is called honesty, meanness is called flexibility, and lack of talent is called virtue.
38. It is the vanity of human nature to want people to know that you have a secret, but not to let them know what the secret is. Wait until they ask and ask them to guess.
39. Do the opposite. If you look at the world from a different angle, you will gain different things, and the world will appear in front of you in another way.
40. Marriage is like a gold-painted birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so the marriage ends and the separation comes, and there is no end.
Qian Zhongshu's classic quotations
1. The thorn in life is here, lingering on things that refuse to leave quickly are the things you don't linger on.
2. Eating is sometimes like getting married. The most important thing in name is often an accessory. Eating fine food is actually just eating vegetables. Just like a lady who wants to be courted by a rich man, the purpose is not to be a woman.
3. Giving food to someone who has something to eat is a treat; eating someone else’s meal when you have something to eat is a way of giving face. The subtlety of communication is nothing more than this. On the other hand, giving food to those who have nothing to eat is charity; if you have nothing to eat and eat other people's food, the reward of face turns into shame.
4. Looking at the entire history, ancient times is equivalent to the childhood period of human beings. It was childish before, but after thousands of years of development, it has slowly reached modern times. The older the era, the earlier it is, the shorter its history; the further the era is, the deeper the experience and the more years it has accumulated. Therefore, we are the elders of our grandfathers, and the three ancient generations are not as long and ancient as the modern ones. In this way, our attitude of trusting and loving the past takes on new meaning. When we yearn for the ancient times, we may not necessarily respect our ancestors, but we may just like children. It may not be to respect the elderly, but it may be to show off the elderly.
5. There is a kind of person whose financial management is nothing more than borrowing debt and not repaying it; so there is a kind of person whose morality is just to teach others, but not to have any moral character himself.
6. Life is said to be a big book. If life is really like this, then most of us authors can only be regarded as book critics. They have the skills of a book reviewer. They don’t need to read a few pages of a book. They have already published a lot of comments and submitted a book review after writing it.
7. After archeology advocated excavation of tombs, many bones and relics of ancient dead people were exposed; after modern literature became a specialized study, many immortal or decayed works of living writers were exposed. Exposed by excavation. The joy of being discovered makes those of us ignore the danger of being exposed, and we don't realize that the burial of works often preserves the author's reputation. If the author himself takes the lead in the excavation work, it is likely that the gain will outweigh the loss, and digging his own grave will become a contradictory pun: digging the grave of his own work is exactly the same as digging the author's own grave.
8. The good stories of serving the country and returning the government to the people are just empty illusions created by language. The words are handed over, but in fact they are just like the throwing knives played by a magician. Let go and there is no Get rid of it.
9. The viciousness of a loyal and honest person, like gravel in rice or unclean thorns in sashimi, will give people an unexpected pain.
10. It sounds a bit funny for people who study Chinese to study abroad. In fact, only those who study Chinese literature must study abroad. Because all other subjects such as mathematics, physics, philosophy, psychology, economics, law, etc. were instilled from foreign ports and have already become foreign-style; only Chinese language is a domestic product and needs foreign brands to maintain its status, just like China The money exploited by officials and businessmen in their own countries must be exchanged for foreign exchange in order to maintain the original value of the national currency.
11. A diploma, like the leaf on Adam and Eve's lower body, can cover up shame and ugliness; a small square of paper can cover up a person's emptiness, ignorance, and stupidity.
12. Turning endurance into enjoyment is the greatest victory of spirit over matter. The soul can be independent or self-deceptive.
13. In front of the man she loves, every woman has the unique skill of rejuvenating herself.
14. The phrase "eternal happiness" is not only too unrealizable, but also too absurd to be established. What passes quickly is never permanent; when we speak of eternal happiness, it is as contradictory as when we speak of a square circle, a stationary movement.
15. It seems that big things in the world can be dealt with casually, but small things cannot be faked at all. For example, a corrupt official will pay tens of millions in bribes, but he will never steal someone else's purse.
16. I have had money all my life, am I still superstitious about money?
17. Some so-called seminars are actually just inviting some unscrupulous people and eating some Dirty meals, spending some obscure money, saying some innocuous words, and holding a nondescript meeting!
18. Not only can we imagine the grapes that cannot be picked, Sour, it's possible to imagine it being extraordinarily sweet.
19. If a person is not crazy at the age of 20, he has no future; if he is still crazy at the age of 30, he has no future.
20. There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if a bunch of grapes are given, one kind of person will pick the best ones and eat them, while the other kind of person will save the best ones for last. As usual, the first kind of person should be an optimist, because every time he eats a grape, he is eating the best of the leftover grapes; while the second kind of person should be a pessimist, because every time he eats a grape, he is eating the worst of the leftover grapes. But the reality is just the opposite. The reason is that the second type of people still have hope, while the first type of people only have memories. Qian Zhongshu's classic love quotes
Qian Zhongshu's classic love quotes
1. In front of the beloved man, every woman has the unique skill of rejuvenating herself.
2. Love is as greedy as fire, the same will spread, the same cruelty, destroying the strong material of the prison, exchanging the ashes for light and warmth... The erosion of time on friendship is like The water flows through the stones, making them smooth and clean.
3. Falling in love among the elderly is like an old house on fire. There is no way to save it.
4. Describe the woman’s “character”: Some people call her “delicatessen shop” because only delicatessens will openly display the meat of many colors; others call her “truth” because it is said that truth is naked of. Ms. Bao was not naked, so they revised it to "partial truth"
5. Many women will smile so sweetly, but their smiles are just soft exercises on their facial muscles, as if a coach is shouting Password: "One!" Suddenly the face is full of smiles, "Two!" Suddenly the smile disappears, leaving only an empty face.
6. The eyes are slit diagonally, and the eyebrows are high up. They are so far apart from the eyes that they are seriously lovesick.
7. The woman usually has a self-admiring and helpless look - a look often seen by unattended guests at a big banquet or an out-of-date, unmarried girl at a wedding banquet.
8. At that time, Miss Su regarded her love as too precious and refused to give it away casually. Now, it's like making good clothes, reluctant to wear them, and locking them in a box. After a year or two, you suddenly find that the style and color of the clothes are no longer fashionable, and you feel a little regretful.
9. The thorn in life is right here. The thing that lingers on you and refuses to leave quickly is the thing you don’t linger on.
10. Eating is sometimes like getting married. The most important thing in name is often an accessory. Eating fine food is actually just eating vegetables. Just like a lady who wants to be courted by a rich man, the purpose is not to be a woman.
11. If you love a woman, you should love her dog. If you sincerely make friends, you should forget your friends' faults.
12. Qian Zhongshu on marriage: People who are surrounded by the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage, career, (game), most of the wishes in life are like this. .
13. Although mistresses need new ones to be interesting, friends still let the old ones be the best.
14. There is no woman in the world who thinks she is lovable, and there is no man who thinks he is inferior.
15. You won’t know me, even though you have been fooled by me. When you were seduced by me, you only knew that I was a lovely woman, a trustworthy friend, and even an ideal to aspire to. You did not recognize that it was me. Only those who reject my temptations, like Jesus Christ, know who I am.
16. A husband is a woman’s occupation. Without a husband, she is unemployed.
17. Where there are chickens and ducks: there is a lot of feces; where there are young women: there is a lot of talking.
18. Milk is food for children, so it should be eaten in the canteen, which proves that this hotel is managed scientifically.
19. Why does love reduce a person's spiritual resistance and make people weak and manipulated?
20. When two people are together, they will spread rumors. Just as two branches are close together, the spider will hang its web.