Feng Zikai himself said: "In such a grown-up, hypocritical, cold, and materialistic China, it may be difficult for anyone to pay attention to my article."

Just read After finishing the book "We Adults", there is this sentence on the cover of the book: In China, I feel that there are too few children. Most adults are keen on fame and fortune, and are preoccupied with social, political, economic and industrial issues. ...There is no spare time and energy to savor the taste of life. As for children, most of them have been made like robots by competitions, exams, scores... and have lost the original beauty and fun of children. In the long run, China will probably be full of adults and no children, and even babies will be sophisticated. An old man who knows how to communicate.

My first feeling after reading this book is that it would be very happy to be Feng Zikai’s child. Because he is not only a writer and painter, but also an educator. He loves, understands and respects children. The educational philosophy he advocates is absolutely correct and worth learning even in today's society.

In his eyes, the world of children is extremely vast and free, and their innocence should not be restricted by adults like us. He writes articles about things that parents find trivial in daily life, and draws comics about things that parents find annoying. He is an adult who truly sees children from their perspective, and he is also an adult who truly has a childlike heart.

The whole book is divided into three chapters: "My Childhood", "Children's Childhood", and "Childhood Stories". Among them, children account for the largest proportion. There are not many words in the whole book, but every short article is full of warmth. Mr. Feng Zikai can write about the inconspicuous things in life in a simple and yet warm way. Each story reveals a father's love and a parent's principles in educating children.

There is a passage in the article: "The world of adults is very narrow and depressing because it is limited by actual life and time habits. The world of children is not subject to such restrictions, so it is very broad and free. "The smaller the grade, the bigger the world." So he envied the innocence of children's lives and the vastness of their world.

For children, the world is full of infinite imagination and possibilities. Their wild imagination is beyond the reach of adults. As adults, we should not use realistic restrictions to affect children's imagination, and use what we think is inherent thinking to limit children's space for development. For children, everything in the world is possible. They don't have much knowledge, but the world in their hearts is very big. For adults, the more we know, the more limited everything becomes. We adults are not as capable as children of imagination and creativity, and we should not limit children's imagination and creativity. Why must we let children do what we adults want? Why can't the children do it according to their own ideas?

We should reflect on this, just like Mr. Feng Zikai reflected on himself in the article. He arranged everything on the table in order, but the child climbed on his desk and disrupted all the order. Ink spilled all over the table and the lid of the pot broke on the floor. Such a situation may make any adult angry or irritable, but Mr. Feng Zikai suddenly realized after a moment: "I ask the children to behave like me, how perverse it is!" Children are naturally active and should not be manipulated by adults. However, we keep restraining our children, setting various rules for them, and asking them to follow the rules like adults. This is killing their nature.

There is a passage describing how his eldest daughter, Abao, one day took her sister's new shoes and the shoes she had taken off her own feet and put them on the feet of a stool. She stepped on the ground with only her socks on. He shouted proudly, "A Bao has two legs, and the stool has four legs." In an ordinary family, the average mother would think this is very dirty, just like Abao's mother. If the socks and shoes are dirty, the children will act up. But in Feng Zikai's view, this is the nature of children, how innocent and cute they are. Therefore, all ideas and practices of children should be respected.

We should not only respect our children, but we should also learn from them. Because the world of children is pure, beautiful and uncontaminated. Although as adults we have learned more knowledge than children and understand more principles than children, our hearts are not as pure as children, and what we see cannot be as beautiful as children. Although Feng Lao is a celebrity, he can get inspiration from his children.

One day he asked the child what his favorite thing was? The child answered bluntly, "Escape." It was Shanghai during the National Revolution. Suddenly one day gunfire rang out. Everyone panicked and ran to the relief society to seek refuge, and then took a bus to Hujiang University to seek refuge. The children didn't understand what it meant to take refuge at all, they were just as happy as if they had entered a new world. This kind of experience is scary for adults, but for children, they only remember cars, ships, small pavilions, chalk drawings on the walls, and other beautiful and joyful things. They can remove the net of cause and effect of things in the world and see the true nature of things. Children are the creators who give life to everything.

Only children can ignore the troubles of the adult world, and only children can always have a beautiful heart.

There are four stories in the chapter of childhood stories. One of these four stories is about enlightenment, one is about suffering, one is about courage, and the other is about persistence. He tells children the great principles of life through simple stories. Among them, the one that impressed me the most was "The Kingdom of Mingxin". The story tells that during the Anti-Japanese War, everyone hid in air-raid shelters to avoid Japanese fighter planes. A music teacher got lost in an air-raid shelter and came to a new world. The heart of a wild man in this place is transparent. What he thinks and feels in his heart can be seen by others. There are no secrets in their world, everyone is honest and forthright. The music teacher suddenly felt that the society we live in is unpredictable and it is really scary and dangerous.

In fact, the people in Mingxin Country are the world of children. They say whatever they think and never care. And music teachers are in the world of adults. We are trapped by everything in the world, including scruples, suspicions, concealments, hypocrisy, deception... What we think in our hearts may not necessarily be what we say, and conversely, what we say may not necessarily be what we think in our hearts. Thought. We are really tired in such a society, and our hearts are very tired. We are not as transparent as children, nor as honest as children.

When Feng Zikai was teaching his children, he couldn't bear to tell them, "Don't say yes to what you see, and don't say yes to what you want." Because in the eyes of such an innocent child, how could How can I tolerate a father who educates his children in such a way.

So should we reflect on what we should and should not say when educating children? Do we really think about problems from the perspective of children? Do we use our mentality that is polluted by the world? Went to educate the children.

"We Adults" uses a eloquent tone to criticize the abnormal education of us adults, and uses simple and unpretentious words to inform us adults about the conscience we should have when dealing with children.