Mr. Hong Yingming in Ming Dynasty, after seeing this sentence, was deeply touched and forgot the meaning of vegetable root. He wrote a classic quotation "Caigen Tan" with the idea of "vegetable root is at ease, stable and fragrant", which has been passed down to this day and lasted for a long time. This book combines the essence of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, and explains in simple terms why we should talk about the wisdom and philosophy of treating people. This is a rare book. Let's share ten of them and learn with you:
Being a person who never forgets his conscience and sticks to the moral bottom line will often be left out in the society, but loneliness is only temporary; And those who flatter and cling to power, although seemingly infinite scenery for a while, are despised by people after all, not what the people want, and will sooner or later fall into a desolate and lonely situation.
In the silent forest, you can get peace of mind, which is not real peace. If you can calm down in a crowded and noisy urban environment, that is the real skill, the real peace.
The happiness brought by food, singing and dancing is not real happiness, but temporary happiness brought by sensory stimulation, which will not last long. The happiness that can only be experienced in a difficult environment is the real happiness.
The extremes of things must be reversed, and the extremes of things must be reversed. There are signs of decline in its heyday; When you learn from the painful experience after failure, chances of success often appear. Therefore, a gentleman must be prepared for danger in times of peace. The more proud he is, the more cautious he is. The more chaotic and turbulent your life is, the more you have to grit your teeth, work hard and strengthen your belief that you will succeed one day.
Put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha. As the saying goes, impulse is the devil. When people are angry, they know there is a problem, but they often can't control themselves. If they can change their minds in time at the critical moment, then the devil will become God.
People's mentality is very important, and maintaining a normal and calm mentality is the greatest wealth in life. Whether it is success or failure, it is only fame and fortune. Don't care too much, don't care too much, just laugh it off as a game Only in this way can life be extraordinary and happy.
Those who are not satisfied are rich and poor; A contented person is rich even if he is poor.
If you give him gold, he wants Baoyu. You made him mayor, and he wanted to be governor. Contented people, even if they eat chaff and swallow vegetables and wear coarse clothes, are ordinary people, but they live a more leisurely life than princes and nobles.
It is better to be flattered by a villain than to be suspected and slandered by a villain; I would rather be accused by a gentleman than tolerated by a gentleman.
To please the villain is to go along with the villain, and it is better to be slandered by them; Mr. Wang blames us, which shows that we still have hope for improvement and progress. If we just want to get the tolerance and forgiveness of a gentleman, of course, it is easy, but how can life progress?
Slander and frame our villains like dark clouds covering the sun. Before long, as long as the wind blows away, the sun will naturally be seen, and a gentleman need not care about such a villain. He can hide and let him say whatever he likes. Those who are good at flattery, like wind evil invading our bodies, are hard to detect and even feel comfortable, but their bodies have been hurt by it. Therefore, this kind of rhetoric is the most terrible and difficult to guard against, so we must pay attention to it.
As the saying goes, health is the capital of revolution. No matter how busy you are at work, you must take time out to relax yourself. No matter how noisy the environment is, we should keep a cool head and not be influenced by the environment. This, of course, requires more practice on weekdays in order to be calm and fearless in times of crisis. Otherwise, you will be turned by the environment, and you will be in a hurry and make a mess.
The so-called extremes meet, and the greater a person's official performance, the greater the danger. Many founding heroes in history were killed because of Gao Zhen's work;
People's talents can't be brought into play, so we must leave some room for ourselves, otherwise it will be the beginning of decline to the extreme;
Keep a low profile and don't flaunt your behavior too much, otherwise you will be vilified by others or even be devastated.