First, from the text, it shows that you are open-minded and generous.
Open-minded: "Heart" was originally a human organ, which mainly refers to people's mind, directly refers to people's volume, and even extends to people's aspirations. For example, the poem says: when we have a glass of wine, we will talk about our hearts again. "Open" is relative to narrow, mainly means wide.
Open-minded and generous: the original meaning of "gap" is to crack, such as gap. Extension means giving up, such as giving one's life; The original meaning of "Da" is communication, such as extending in all directions. Let's take familiarity here: for example, knowledgeable; "Big" is size, needless to say; "Degree" is originally a unit of measurement, such as scale and scale; What I'm talking about here is the realm of things, such as degree, height and demeanor. Generosity usually means generosity, tolerance and self-sacrifice. For example: gold? 6? 1 Pan Yue's Ode to the Western Expedition: "Smart SHEN WOO, but also magnanimous."
Second, how to be open-minded and generous. Being open-minded and generous is not only an attitude towards life, but also a reflection of the depth of thought and the degree of understanding. So there is no uniform standard in itself. Everyone has different understanding angles and needs, and different understanding and requirements for openness. Personally, I think that as a person, especially a man, no matter what job he is engaged in, he should at least have the following characteristics in order to be open-minded:
1, you must be responsible. Whether for work or family;
2. Be modest. As the ancients said, those who are empty-minded are gentlemen. Without modesty and self-righteousness, how can you show great tolerance?
3. aim high. People are ambitious, naturally pay attention to big problems, and have no time to take care of small details, so they will not haggle over every ounce.
4, with the spirit of sacrifice. Taoism says that one gains and one loses, and heaven circulates. In reality, there is no spirit of saving the small and saving the big, and people have no sacrifice. Of course not open-minded, let alone generous?
5. He is from A Duo. If you think that everyone is bad and stupid except yourself, you will naturally step by step and be tit for tat. What appears must be cunning and narrow. The starting point of looking at people is wrong, and even the best reasoning can only lead to wrong conclusions.
Third, how to make people open-minded. It is not easy to change a person, because life experiences determine his thoughts and behaviors, and the more experiences he has, the more ingrained he becomes. It is also unrealistic to think that problems can be solved by some methods and activities. However, people are advanced animals, not monolithic, and change is possible, but it cannot be achieved overnight and needs comprehensive management. Based on my own experience of "refining myself", I think we should exercise from the following aspects to sublimate it.
1, learn to respect people. We should realize that people are the most precious in the world, and everyone's life is equal and priceless, and there is no distinction between high and low. Only based on this understanding can we fundamentally understand the meaning of fairness and respect and understand and help others. You know, it is impossible for a person who can't correctly understand the meaning of people and thinks himself to divide people into three, six and nine classes.
2. Adhere to lofty life goals. Everyone has their own goals in life, but some people just talk about it, even think about it, and don't really put it into action, so it's still obscene and petty to encounter anything. With a big goal in mind, we can strive for the upper reaches and not compete for trivial things. This is why people who do great things don't stick to details. The way to stick to the lofty goal of life is: "I save myself three times a day", which is actually awakening.
3. Improve the sense of responsibility. When a person comes into this world, he has certain responsibilities. Only by living with a serious and responsible attitude can we get the reward from life. Doing a good job with a responsible attitude is not only the performance of one's own ability, but also the respect of others, the success of his career and the achievement of higher life goals. If you treat your family with a responsible attitude, do your duty and do your best, it is not difficult to improve the quality of life of your family. The way to improve the sense of responsibility is to do things well and never give up if you don't do them well; Do what you can't do temporarily, but you must never do it.
4, don't care about the immediate gains and losses. The ancients said that "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise". You should know that the immediate loss may be the future return. What's more, the situation of any individual is always worse than the last one and more than the next one. It is not enough to make progress, but it is a pleasure to help others. Therefore, when something happens, we should not always proceed from personal interests, but should consider it from the standpoint of others. I figured it out. I relax. Everybody relax. Therefore, there is a sense of gratitude and a sense of helping others.
5. Learn materialist dialectics well and improve the ability to understand things. Only by truly understanding the grandeur of the universe, the importance of others, the smallness of individuals and the meager face. Only in this way can we be truly generous.
6. Learn logic well and improve your ability of induction, analysis and reasoning. People will inevitably encounter many trivial things in their lives, which is unavoidable for anyone. But the key is whether we can distinguish right from wrong, prioritize, grasp the main points and not get entangled in trivial matters.