? A younger sister, who works far away from me, talked to me about her career, saying that she has a strong woman in the company, always showing off her contribution everywhere, and often saying to others, "If I hadn't helped her, she wouldn't be a manager at all." The younger sister said that this colleague spoke arrogantly, as if he could do everything, and all his colleagues hated this strong woman. I think, not to mention this strong woman, will the manager be comfortable? Maybe the manager will think that a strong woman wants something!
? In fact, in life, if you live with your head held high, you will feel arrogant and people will avoid you. This kind of arrogant arrogance will not be recognized. Some people are stubborn, like tit-for-tat, aggressive, and may protect their face for a while, but they may put themselves at a disadvantage.
? In the real society, the more mature you are, the more you know how to converge. Many times, bowing is not incompetence, and tolerance is not weakness. Bowing your head with a smile is not only a kind of accomplishment, but also a model.
When the rice is ripe, it lowers its head. When the sunflower is ripe, it also lowers its head. Raise your head to absorb positive energy and lower your head to avoid dangerous collisions. Just one sentence: "The ears of rice bow their heads, and the chaff heads up." So is life. Bowing your head is a kind of tolerance, but also a kind of calmness, an avoidance and a kind of wisdom. The wise will be modest, and the good will be tolerant.
Therefore, life should be inclusive, open-minded, mature and wise; Do things with your head down, and be a man with your head held high.