“The glory of life begins with the change of ideas.” This is a wise saying from the successful scientist Mr. Napoleon Hill. This sentence is very classic! Whether a person is poor or rich, successful or failed, happy or painful, happy or unhappy all depends on his own concept. This is true for career, life, and relationships. ** is constantly moving forward, and society is developing rapidly. Scientific and technological progress is changing with each passing day. Everything is changing. If we want to change our current situation we must change our mindset. We should also have a new understanding of love. Many friends are too persistent in their feelings. When we fell in love, we naively thought that we would grow old together. But somehow everything was divided in the blink of an eye. So there was pain, suffering, sadness, worry, resentment and hatred... I endured all the torments brought about by a broken love, which made me exhausted and exhausted. To be honest, I personally think it doesn't have to be this way. Because there is no love in this world that lasts forever, will last forever, and will last forever. Eternal love is just a beautiful myth, a romantic legend, empty and ethereal. That kind of beautiful love that doesn't eat the fireworks of the world can only be found in novels and TV. But life is not a novel or television. We are just mortals in the mortal world and have too many mundane things to deal with, so we inevitably sometimes neglect love; and we live in a very realistic society, there are too many uncertain factors that will hurt our love, and there are too many Unfortunately, there are too many fetters across the journey of love, which we cannot change. Especially in this era of fast food, it is even more difficult to have eternity. It is true that many couples end up together, but how many of them truly love each other? There are too many people who have to compromise for many reasons. Buddha said: You can have love, but don't be too persistent, because separation is inevitable. Separation is inevitable! Indeed! Love is the most unreliable thing in the world. There is no need for a reason to love someone, and there is no reason for not loving someone. Everything is due to one word. When the conditions are met, they gather; when the conditions are exhausted, they disperse. When fate comes, you can't hide away even if you want to. When fate disappears, people who love each other will break up. Even if there are lovers who will remain faithful to each other until death, they will eventually have to experience the separation of life and death, and they will be separated forever. Who will accompany whom to the end? Some love is destined to be lost, and some fate will never bear fruit. Therefore, we should change our concepts and treat love with a normal attitude. If you have it, cherish it and manage it carefully; if you break up, don't be too sentimental. As long as you have truly loved it and truly owned it, there will be nothing to regret.