Parents influence their children's life

Children are the future of the motherland, and parents all regard them as treasures in their hands and flesh and blood in their hearts. Let us

look at the following article from the perspective of a parent:

If you often criticize your children, they will think that they are worthless and will pick on others.

If you praise and encourage your children, they will understand that they can accomplish something if they try.

If you scare your children or make them afraid of you, they will become timid, afraid and worried about being hurt by others.

If you let your children see you get angry and fight, they will learn to fight too. If your child sees you arguing, let him or her see you reconcile.

If your children know that you need and love them, they will learn to love others.

But sometimes we have no choice but to feel helpless. When we hate that iron cannot become steel, we can’t help but want to criticize them.

If parents can take a little responsibility and give them good behavioral examples from an early age, they will not be decadent, and their childhood should be beautiful and blue.

This reminds me of a conversation a friend’s mother once had as a joke about a conversation she had with her son. The friend said: "Son, you are always playing game consoles these days, can't you control yourself and put your energy into studying?" The son replied: "You are still talking about me. My grandfather often tells you not to Why do you keep playing mahjong all day long outside?" My friend was speechless and didn't know what to say.

I remember seeing a parent walking with his baby some time ago. The baby threw the banana skins on the ground after eating. I quickly picked them up and threw them into the trash can on the roadside, telling the baby : "Throw the finished banana skins into the blue trash can, so that our living environment will be more beautiful and comfortable. Remember, baby, no matter at home or outside, you must throw the garbage into the trash can. ", the baby looked at me and nodded. After a period of time, I paid close attention to whether the baby remembered that I taught her to throw away the garbage. Sure enough, every time she finished eating bananas, she would say, "Mom, I'll throw the skins into the trash can." Or sometimes if there were some unused things on the floor at home, the baby would pick them up and throw them into the trash can. This shows that words and deeds play an important role.

When children are growing up, their mental and brain development is at a tender stage, and they cannot distinguish right from wrong. They will imitate any behavior from the outside world, especially parents who get along with each other every day. If during this period, we cannot guide them well and set an example for them, on the contrary, many "bad habits" and "bad behaviors" will affect them, and they will think in their hearts: "This is what mom and dad do", and they will I always think that what my parents do is right, and then they will imitate it.

It can be seen that children often compare their behavior with that of their parents, and even some bad behaviors in their parents' behavior often become "reasons" for some children to excuse their mistakes. Children can learn from their parents You can learn from your strengths and weaknesses.

In daily life, both husband and wife should pay attention to their own words and deeds. When there is a crying baby around us, we will be a family of three. In the eyes of the child, we are Teachers, we are also their role models. We not only want our children to grow up healthily, but their bodies and minds also need our care and attention. Although our actions cannot be perfect, our words and deeds will definitely have a beneficial impact on our children.

Some parents often feel confused about educating their children. In fact, I think that while educating our children, our parents should also improve their own quality and cultivation. Parents' outlook on life has a subtle influence on their children. As the saying goes: "As the children grow up, so do we."

Tolstoy has a famous saying: "All education, or nine hundred and ninety-nine percent of education, comes down to role models and the correctness and perfection of parents' own lives." This is what tells us that educating people comes first. To educate yourself.

I hope that all children in the world can grow up healthily and happily.

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