Chapter 1: It’s better to enjoy it alone than to enjoy it together
If you understand the wind, you won’t blame it for being cold. If you understand the rain, you won’t blame it for being wet. If you understand the wind, you won’t blame it for being wet. Understand your shadow and you will not be manipulated by it.
You are light, but your shadow is dark, and it is also you. Sometimes you will be used by it. When you steal things, when you lose your temper, etc., you are already unconsciously You have transformed your own thoughts into shadows. It is better to be happy with others than to be happy alone. The thoughts of the two are "public" and their own thoughts are "single". Instead of occupying the same body, why not improve your own bright thoughts? It's one floor.
Get rid of? No, you have already survived, just like you can't lose your heart. The shadow is your own reflection, reflection, reflection means the opposite of you, something inverted.
When you are lazy, you don’t do your homework, but your shadow is not lazy. It will help you plagiarize your homework and deceive the teacher. When you want to do your homework, you will feel another kind of thinking shouting loudly, asking you to watch TV and eat snacks, as if you have two heads and inconsistent thinking. Instead of going to the river to catch fish, it is better to fish on the shore. Being controlled by it is not as good as controlling it. You cannot get rid of it, but you can also overcome it.
Philosophers, successful people, and people who have been admitted to prestigious universities, you can ask them how you overcame the shadow and embarked on the road to success, and why you can't do it yourself. In fact, the beginning of the road is the end of the trail. No one is born a successful person. Behind the flat road are often rugged mountain roads. Overcome the shadow? It’s not difficult, as long as you stick to your own thoughts and actions, as long as you ignore the negative self, as long as you...
Atlas is famous for insisting on holding up the sky, this ancient Greek legend. A tiny, unobtrusive little god. Its shadow told him to put down the sky, but he didn't.
Shadow is your worst enemy.
Conquer yourself—the shadow.
Chapter 2: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun together
Dear teachers and classmates:
Hello everyone!
Not long ago, I read a fairy tale, "The Giant's Garden" written by the British writer Oscar Wilde. The story tells of a giant who was very angry when he saw children playing in his garden. He built a high wall around the garden to keep the children out. From then on, the flowers in the garden did not bloom, the birds did not sing, and it was desolate. Spring, summer, and autumn refused to come, and only winter stayed here forever. One day, the children climbed in through the hole in the wall, and spring came with them, and the garden immediately became full of life. When he drove the children out of the garden again, the garden was covered with ice and snow again. Later, inspired by the little boy, the giant woke up and immediately demolished the wall. The garden became a paradise for children. The giant lived in the beautiful garden among the children and felt extremely happy...
Wilde's happy story made my heart unable to calm down for a long time. That giant's selfishness and cruelty brought ice and snow to the garden twice, making the children lose their joy. At the same time, he himself was also lonely and lonely, and he couldn't enjoy it even more. To the bright view of the garden! We often say: "Give someone a rose, and the fragrance will linger in your hand." In fact, the same goes for happiness. If you give happiness to others, you will also be happy.
I still remember these famous sayings: "Share your pain with others, and your pain will be reduced by half; share your happiness with others, and your happiness will be doubled." Yes. Ah, sharing happiness will not cost you anything, but it can make the world full of warmth. On the contrary, with happiness, a person who is happy alone will not be happy in the end.
Sharing happiness with others is a virtue because happiness is contagious. In fact, many times, sharing happiness with others not only gives others a chance, but also gives yourself an opportunity; it not only gives others a good mood, but also leaves you with a good mood.
In this case, please open your heart and share it with others sincerely - if you are a ball of fire, you must try to light up others; if you are a basin of water, you must find ways to light up others. Wash yourself; if you are a grain of rice, you must try to grow bigger ears of rice; if you are a crescent moon, you must find a way to send light to night travelers... Enjoy happiness with others, and you will be more hapiness!
Thank you everyone!
Chapter 3: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun with everyone. Composition
My cousin has always been my best friend. His name is Zhilin, and Zhilin is only older than me. One year old, he likes to play with me very much. Although he lives in Dongguan, which is far away from Shenzhen, we miss each other very much every day and hope to see each other more often.
Zhilin and I grew up together in my hometown. We have a very good relationship. We share our favorite toys or talk about our favorite games with each other. He used to be very generous. He would give me whatever I like, and I would also like it. Often give him your most beloved things. However, now he has become more and more selfish and stingy.
Last time, I went back to Dongguan, and he had just returned to Dongguan from Hong Kong. We both returned home at the same time. I saw a lot of his newly bought toys on the table at home. I was very curious, so I walked over, picked up the toys and started playing with them. Zhilin saw it and said angrily to his mother: "He touched my beloved toys!" After saying that, he stamped his feet. I was shocked and thought: Wasn’t Zhilin like this before? I said: "I'm just playing." He said angrily: "Why do you play with my toys without my consent?" I was also angry, and felt resentful: We used to get along very well, let's share Everything, now, you bought so many toys but didn't lend them to me to play with, how stingy you are! While thinking about it, he returned to his room depressedly.
Since that quarrel, I have never seen Zhilin again, and I have not communicated with him. I really want to say to him: As the saying goes, "It is better to enjoy alone than to enjoy together." If If you tell a friend about your happiness, you will get two happiness, and if you tell your sorrow to a friend, you will get half of the sorrow. Although you have many fun toys, you can only get one pleasure from playing by yourself. If you play with your toys with others, you will get two pleasures. Suppose that when we quarreled, everyone thought about which is more important, friendship or toys? Let us continue to be the same as before, and we will continue to be best friends! I have already decided that I will try my best to let you go every time in the future. Can you also promise not to quarrel in the future?
Chapter 4: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun with others.
Which one is happy alone or with others? ——Inscription
Emotions are contagious. If you are happy, the people around you will be happy too. When we have something happy, we must never forget to share it with the people around us. Bacon once said: "If you tell a friend your happiness, you will get two happiness, and if you tell a friend your sorrow, you will share half of the sorrow." I think this sentence is very reasonable, Share happy things with your friends, and your friends will be happy too. Then, you will feel the joy of sharing happiness with your friends.
At a certain moment, I finally realized the true meaning of this sentence.
One late night, a night of burning the midnight oil, as a sophomore in junior high school, of course I couldn’t avoid staying up late to do my homework. My grade in physics in the second grade of junior high school was simply disastrous, and the price I paid was a life-and-death effort. I found a lot of information books and flipped through them left and right, but I couldn't read them at all. No matter how many books were lying on the table, I could only sigh. Maybe hearing my sigh, my mother opened my bedroom door and asked me what was wrong. I said without raising my head: "It's okay." My tone was like a person recovering from a serious illness. My mother also noticed my troubles, came over and sat beside my bed and asked me softly: "Are you having difficulty studying? Are you unable to do it?" I still answered sickly: "Yes." Mom. No words were spoken. A long time passed, and I didn’t know if my mother was gone. When I heard there was no movement, I got up and prepared to wash up and go to sleep.
What surprised me was that my mother had been sitting next to me and never left. I looked up and could vaguely see the expectation in my mother's eyes. I don't think anyone in this world can stand my mother's warmth and warmth. Looks of anticipation, I feel the same way. We looked at each other, and I had lived in this woman's eyes for fourteen years. My mother's eyes were so frightening that I was touched. I packed up the books that had been scattered on the table again, cheered up and continued to work hard. In a hazy state, I saw the corners of my mother's mouth raised to a perfect angle. So, I became more serious. My mother is happy, so I am happy. I am happy, so my mother is happy.
At a certain moment, I finally realized the true meaning of this sentence.
During an exam, many people died, including my friends and I. However, I am a thick-skinned person. I was barely sad as soon as the test papers were handed out, but I still had a playful smile as soon as I put them down. , but my friend was not so "open-minded". I accidentally saw my friend lowering his head during class, obviously not paying attention. The entire morning was wasted by my friend's gloomy mood. As a good friend, I couldn't bear to see my friend sink. After class, I ran to my friend's seat and tried various methods to comfort him, but to no avail. Finally, I took out my trump card - singing. Being tone-deaf, I was really terrible at singing, but at this critical moment, I couldn't care so much. A wolf howled and ghosts screamed. Maybe my singing was too funny, or maybe my friend was moved by me. , my friend burst into tears and laughed. It turns out that emotions are really contagious. I am very proud that I have the contagious disease of happiness. My friends are happy, so I am happy. I am happy, so my friends are happy.
Smiling in the mirror, that kind of happiness is very direct. The happiness that is shared or shared with others is the real happiness. Sharing happiness with parents is very happy, and sharing happiness with friends is very happy.
One person is not as happy as a group of people.
Happy alone, happy everyone, happy everyone.
Chapter 5: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun together
When the news came that China won all the gold medals at the World Table Tennis Championships, an inexplicable and powerful feeling immediately surged in my heart. Pride, a great nation is rising. However, when the enthusiasm and passion calmed down, I couldn't help but doubt this achievement: Is it enough for China to be invincible in table tennis? Is it enough just for a country to develop and become strong? The answer will be no, as the ancients said: "It is better to be happy alone than to be happy together." The happiness of just one person is not as profound as the happiness of everyone. Similarly, the development of just one country will not last long. Only when the world progresses together can a country continue to develop and grow.
I can’t help but think of football and basketball, two sports that developed rapidly in the 20th century, became popular all over the world, and are still in the ascendant today. Almost every child has the experience of staying up late with his father to watch football. When the Premier League, Serie A, World Cup, and NBA start blowing the horn in those countries, the sound has the magic power to travel through thousands of mountains and rivers, touching our heartstrings. . Newspapers, the Internet, boys’ dormitory talks...many people are paying attention to these movements. At this point, football and basketball are no longer just sports. They have been sublimated into a kind of culture and art, and are transmitted to all parts of the world with the national spirit of powerful countries such as the United States, Britain, Brazil, and Spain. Their powerful influence and vitality make the whole world have to respect them. Indeed, table tennis is now thriving in China. However, instead of being a solitary and self-admiring sport, why not let table tennis go global like football and basketball, become a business card of China, and infect the world with Chinese culture?
This is true for table tennis, and even more so for the rise of a country and the rejuvenation of a nation. Being happy alone is not as good as being happy together. When the People's Republic of China was founded, didn't the Soviet Union's strong support for China reflect this truth? What's more, in today's era of globalization, it is not only impossible for one person to be dominant, but it will also hinder one's own development. Only when other countries are strong enough can they find partners that match theirs and achieve win-win mutual assistance.
When the spirit of the American Dream Team is imprinted in the memories of people all over the world along with its assistance to developing countries, its power is not only about sports, but also about culture and spirit.
Nowadays, China’s economy is taking off rapidly and has become the world’s second largest economy. However, China’s rise still has a long way to go. Fortunately, China has already started to work hard, such as China’s assistance to African countries and the cooperation among the BRICS countries. Cooperation... We look forward to China, a powerful and ancient nation, once again standing tall in the east of the world.
As early as thousands of years ago, the ancients told us that "pleasure alone is not as good as happiness among all". Standing alone is only beautiful, while colorful flowers are magnificent. "If you enter, you will be helpless, and if you leave, you will be invincible against foreign patients, and the country will be permanently destroyed." Mencius's remarks about being born of sorrow have their own reasons. Therefore, whether it is the growth of a person, the development of a sport or even the growth of a country, you must not only focus on your own progress, but let the world around you move towards beauty with you, so that you can become even better. Otherwise, maybe the moment you seek defeat alone is the moment of decline.
Chapter 6: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun with everyone
I am an only daughter born in the "only child" era, but I have always longed to have brothers and sisters.
When I was the youngest, I didn’t think so. At that time, I thought that if I had any brothers or sisters, my parents would not love me and they would give half of my good things to him or her. So whenever I disobey, my parents will scare me with words like "If you don't disobey again, we will give you a younger brother or sister", which is very useful. At that time, I especially cherished my "only child" years.
Later, when I grew up, I played in the yard with my friends all day long, and we didn’t even go home when it was time to eat. It’s not that the family is not good, but children can also be lonely. When I was alone at home, I always talked to my dolls and stuffed bears, which even scared my dad. Their threats against me no longer apply. Once, after I was threatened by my parents again, I looked at them expectantly and seriously and said, "Can I just bring back the girl from our class? I promise to be obedient in the future!" At that time, I began to hate "only child" "Era.
When I was in elementary school, there were a pair of twins in my class. I always envied them. They go to and from school together every day, wear the same clothes, carry the same schoolbags, and are always the best when quarreling with others. There are many plots on TV where relatives recognize each other when they grow up. I began to imagine that I also have a long-lost sister? That was the peak of my hatred of being an "only child."
What then? I grew up a little bit more and discovered some of the benefits of being an only child. For example, learning requires independent thinking. No one can accompany you through the whole process of life, including brothers and sisters. That’s when I began to convince myself to accept the “only child” age.
Now, as you might guess, the ending of the story is that I adapted to being alone and became an independent person. But the ending is this: I found my brothers and sisters, who are my classmates and friends. We have shared happiness and sorrow, and have spent hundreds of days and nights together. We are not better than family members. Being an "only child" may sound like a privilege, but people cannot live alone in the world. It doesn't matter if you don't have blood-related brothers and sisters, as long as you are sincere, you will have relatives everywhere. Some people say that people in our "one-child" era are selfish and domineering, but in fact we understand unity and great love.
Mencius said: "Which one is happy if you are happy alone or with others?"
King Xuan of Qi said to him: "It is not as good as being with others."
Chapter 7: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun together
In the days leading up to the World Expo, the houses have become more beautiful, the roads have become cleaner, and the traffic has become more orderly. Because of the World Expo, the Shanghai we live in is quietly changing. But what I saw was that the Expo changed not only these things, but also the progress of people's civilization and the slightest warmth that seeped out from those little things.
That day, when it was close to dinner time, my mother asked me to go to the vegetable market to buy some green peppers for her because there were no green peppers for the stir-fry. Although he agreed wholeheartedly, he began to murmur in his heart.
The most I can do is go to the market with my mother and watch her buy groceries. But if I really want to do the shopping, I'm afraid that's not possible. Besides, I used to go to the vegetable market with my mother. If I had to look for a place to buy green peppers on my own, I might not be able to find one. I have no choice but to bite the bullet and go for it. As soon as I arrived at the market, my head felt dizzy. After asking around a few times, I found a place to buy green peppers. But with so many green peppers, how can I be so selective? I had the courage to ask the aunt who bought green peppers: "What kind of green peppers are used for stir-fried meat?" I don't know if the aunt was too busy collecting money and doing business to pay attention to me, a little kid, or she really didn't hear her and didn't answer me at all. ,have no choice. But a grandma next to me patted me on the shoulder and said, "Little girl, what you want is the fried meat kind, right?" Huh? Who is this old lady? Although I was a little confused at this time, I still nodded in urgent need of help. "Come on, let me tell you. Usually when we fry meat, we need this kind of green pepper. It's not very spicy, but it's quite flavorful..." Grandma told me patiently, and I nodded. "Let me help you choose a few. This one is good, eh. This one is also good. From now on, when you buy green peppers, you must buy this kind..." The old lady told me about her experience while helping me choose. After a while, the bag was full. Looking at the bag full of green peppers, my heart is filled with emotion and love. After paying the money, the old lady was leaving. I said, "Thank you so much." The old lady waved her hand and said, "It's okay." Looking at the old lady's leaving figure, I felt indescribably moved in my heart. That old lady whom I had never met gave me as much care as a grandmother. Although it only taught me how to buy groceries, it taught me more about how to do my best to help others.
This is indeed a small thing, but it makes me deeply feel that in these seemingly ordinary days, but become unusual because of the World Expo, people have become less Selfishly, he treats everyone as a family and will share his thoughts and experiences with everyone.
My heart gradually opened and I remembered something. "Garden viewing?" I muttered softly. As soon as I moved to a new community, I was full of curiosity about this "appreciation garden". There are many public green spaces in the community, and the flowers dotted in the green spaces are also very beautiful. Why do we need to open another "appreciation garden"? Is it really unnecessary or does it have ulterior motives? But don’t mention it, there are really a lot of flowers in this “appreciation garden”. It happens to be spring, and all the flowers are in bloom, but who has so much energy to serve so many flowers that need careful care? When it opens, it looks like a small flower show. Not only are the flowers colorful, but they are also of different shades and styles. There are so many different kinds of flowers just in red! Warm red, delicate pink, gorgeous bright red, elegant light pink... Even if there are similar colors, the posture of the flowers is different. Or they stretch out layer by layer, fully blooming, with large petals overlapping each other; or they curl slightly, with curled petals like the skirt of a beautiful princess; or they curl up tightly, which is not unwilling to bloom, but just a posture. Suddenly, I found something faintly under the flower branches. When I got closer, I saw a small sign: Room 1101, No. 28, Li Moumou, the owner of the flower. Hey, these seem to be flowers that everyone moved out themselves. Out of curiosity, go to the property management office and ask. Sure enough, these flowers were brought out by the owners in the community for everyone to enjoy together, in order to welcome the World Expo, beautify the community, and also enhance the relationship between the owners. That's it. No wonder every pot of flowers is carefully watered. "Aren't you afraid that someone will steal it?" I asked again. "Haha, how could it be? Because everyone trusts each other and has the same wish - to make a contribution to the World Expo, who would steal it? Besides, appreciating it together with everyone is better than appreciating it alone at home How much more fun?" the sister from the management office explained to me with a smile. Several consecutive rhetorical questions left me speechless, and I felt extremely ashamed for asking that question just now. Yes, in the days leading up to the World Expo, who would tarnish the city for personal gain? At the same time, a warm feeling filled my heart, and the distance between people was very, very close.
In the past, it was taken for granted that the city was a "paradise of independence" made of steel and concrete. Now, because of the World Expo, it has become a more humane and warm "paradise of all".
In the days leading up to the World Expo, not only were the houses beautiful, the roads clean, and the traffic orderly, but the distance between people became closer. People learned that "it is better to enjoy alone than to enjoy together." , Shanghai is more full of warmth. The little things that are engraved in our hearts all illustrate the warmth that spreads quietly and the progress of civilization.
Let us convey a bit of warmth in the days leading up to the World Expo and continue the spirit of "it is better to have fun alone than to have fun together". I also hope that these will continue not only in the days leading up to the World Expo, but also in the not-too-distant future. So, let's do it together.
Chapter 8: Having fun alone is not as good as having fun together
I didn’t write this, but I want everyone to have fun together.
Today is National Day. Because the achievements of the wise and great government in building the country and caring for the people are countless, so we have a day off. My parents took us to the zoo to play.
As usual, we like to eat sweet potato porridge for breakfast. Because the sweet potatoes were sold out today, my mother had no choice but to peel some taro to make up for the loss. Unexpectedly, the taro grown on the balcony was very delicious, and the whole family ate it greedily.
Before going out, my senile mother dressed up in a fancy way, and she was so exquisite that she could not tell that she was a bad wife at all. The father, who was still young, also quickly changed his mind and became a crown prince. After putting on a two-pronged suit, he looked so handsome that people shunned him. Dong Shixiao's pretty sister even put on adjustable underwear, dressed like a tiger and a dog, and looked gorgeous, and proudly put on her newly bought high-heeled shoes.
We, a raccoon dog, rode in a simple carriage and white horses, and quickly arrived at the zoo. Unexpectedly, there were so many people visiting that the jackals and wolves invaded the jungle, causing our family to be separated from each other. My father, who was separated from his wife and children, worked hard to broadcast everywhere, and finally found me and my sister, who almost recognized a thief as his father. During the battle between trapped beasts, we fought against all odds and pushed our way to the monkey fence, and took pictures of Zhang Qiangyan. Laughing family portrait. Composition
Then we went to the bird garden where cocks and dogs croaked, and we enjoyed the beautiful music of nature with the roar of the wind, the roar of cranes, and the mourning of birds everywhere. Later, when Dad was frothing at the mouth and referring to deer as horses for us, a gust of cool wind blew, and the smell of dry spit made people shudder. Mom quickly put on Dad's yellow robe and told us to shave off his fur.
In the evening, because of the holiday, the magpies and doves’ nests were busy in every restaurant, so my mother took us, Meng Mu, three times, and finally decided to have hot pot. There is a restaurant that has just changed its wallpaper. The walls are very beautiful. The lights are dim and surrounded by enemies. It is very atmospheric. The waitresses who are lying in ambush from all sides are busy attracting bees and butterflies for the guests, and they are busy encircling Wei and rescuing Zhao for the guests. They are so sweet and secretive that people mistakenly think that they are in the Western Paradise. Composition
We were hungry and ordered the mixed hot pot. My father, who was still pregnant, gave me a warning and asked the waitress who was working around the house with a knife to quickly cook the cunning rabbit and dead lackey, because our family was a vegetarian. I had already added oil and vinegar, and was waiting for the hot pot to sink quickly so that I could win the Central Plains title. Unfortunately, the lid of the pot was too small, and it was a little overshadowed.
After the soup boiled, we were so happy that we quickly undressed and pushed the food out, so that we could catch everything in one go and get to the bottom of it.
After the hot pot was devoured by us, it soon became only a drop in the ocean and a few fish that slipped through the net. When my mother, who still had her mother's example, wanted to throw away the winter noodles, she found that the flames were already in danger, so she had to throw a trap. Fortunately, the arrogant father Hulu Heji called the store clerk to put out the fire with salary, and the fire finally came back to life, and we, who were sitting on pins and needles, were able to line our own pockets. After the birds were gone and their bows were gone, our family was colluding with each other, and my sister and I were even more self-satisfied with our success.
Unexpectedly, when paying the bill, the boss showed his true colors and demanded a fortune. My father was so angry that he was so angry that his mother was so aggrieved that she cried in her clothes.
Ah! On this National Day, which I have been blessed with for three lifetimes, just after my father felt ashamed of himself in front of his wallet and killed his family out of righteousness, our family's talents were exhausted and we were completely defeated.
But I have to admit, I like this composition. The person who wrote this composition must have a rich vocabulary. Although it is not used correctly.