Do you know whether you are suitable for each other? Fate is predestined, the world is so big, it is really not easy to meet a person who really loves each other, but I did it, but do you know that you are really suitable? Let me introduce you to the knowledge that lovers know whether they are suitable or not.

Do you know whether you are suitable for each other? 1 In today's appearance-oriented society, you can brush your face wherever you go. Good skin can make people accept your inner world more easily, especially in terms of feelings. When in love, men will think that a woman's appearance is very important, and they will choose whether to "fall in love at first sight" according to the other person's appearance. So many people will think that a beautiful appearance is the most important thing for a woman. Appearance is true, but it is not the most important. When years pass by a woman and take away all her collagen, is a woman nothing without a beautiful appearance? Don't you deserve love? No, then when a woman is old and has no age advantage, the most exciting thing at this time is her cultivation. An educated woman will make people feel like spring breeze, so how can we distinguish whether a woman is educated or not?

1, knowledge. Speaking of knowledge, I have to say that a contemporary female representative-Dong Qing. I believe everyone knows Dong Qing's The Reader. On this program, Dong Qing is eloquent, and the famous sayings of literary celebrities at home and abroad are at her fingertips, showing her ease. Everyone also described Dong Qing as "if there is a poem hidden in her heart, time will never overcome her beauty", because everyone admired her belly poems. What really makes people respect is not how beautiful this person is, but how talented this person is. This is an invisible charm. Therefore, whether a woman has enough accomplishment depends on her knowledge. Well-educated women have full hearts and charming souls. Such a woman deserves to fascinate thousands of men.

2, temperament. People often describe a woman as having temperament, so what is temperament? You can't describe it. It is a very abstract thing, which can't be touched or seen. It comes from a person's heart and soul and cannot be cultivated overnight. Unlike appearance, cosmetic beauty can be changed immediately. It takes a long time to cultivate your temperament, including the books you have read, the roads you have traveled and the people you have met. Therefore, whether a woman has self-cultivation depends on her overall temperament, because a person with poor temperament will never be much better. Temperament reflects the mental outlook of the whole person and naturally makes you want to be close to her.

3. Treat people and things. Women's self-cultivation can best be reflected in the way they treat people. The most basic thing is to have due respect and courtesy for people and things, and to be patient with some difficult problems. At a higher level, it is the embodiment of emotional intelligence. Treat people just right, and she will not feel uncomfortable, such as the feeling of soaking in the spring breeze. Like an old friend I haven't seen for years, such a woman has a high emotional intelligence, which shows that she has enough cultivation. An uneducated woman is not only vulgar at heart, but also rude to people.

Whether a woman has self-cultivation will be reflected in every detail of her behavior, which needs you to find out carefully.

If you have a conflict with your partner and it is irreparable, don't lose heart. You might as well add an assistant to your emotional teacher and ask her to help you arrange a counselor who is good at solving emotional problems. First analyze the emotional problems and give you professional advice.

Do you know whether you are suitable for each other? Many people think that life is too short and they only like one person, but there are also many people who think that it is good to love while walking. Many people think that meeting 1 suitable person is a low-level emotion, but I think "suitability" is the rule between lovers. It's hard to meet 1 the right person. I think it depends on the following four points to distinguish lovers.

If there is a problem between lovers, it depends on these four points!

1, looks should match.

I was also taught not to pretend to understand since I was a child, but I think the external brand image at that time was the ticket to feelings, and only two people with very good brand image had classic stories.

Yi Shu said: "A man never chooses a girl because of how beautiful she is in essence, but because the woman's external brand image brings him a feeling of happiness."

In the movie My Girlhood, Lin Zhenxin said: In this way, he will read more books, and my first time will be more and more beautiful.

She is an ordinary girl who doesn't care about her head shape or clothes. Her neck leans forward when she walks, and Cupid misses her. When she met Xu, she was willing to look stronger and stronger for the first time, lose weight, change her head shape, put on clothes and study hard.

Many people don't hate clown ducks, but prefer you who have been working hard to become a white swan.

Only in this way can I see the person I love without staring, just walk up to him diligently and summon up courage to say "I love you".

You can understand that no one wants to control your noble life according to unkempt appearance.

Some women refuse to improve their brand image and want to find the truth in the "worst case".

I want to say to you: when you define true feelings in the most harsh way, then true feelings will hone you with the least chance.

2. The door is wrong.

Marry yourself, not choose yourself, just choose a certain kind of food, clothing, housing and transportation.

I used to watch Family Dating in China, but there are two things that I will never forget.

The male guest is a student of God. He returned from studying in England and started his own business after returning home. He has looks and abdominal muscles. His father is a diplomat and his mother is a doctor. The female special guest who appeared on the stage is also a deity and an American student. After returning to China, she started her own business, so the situation in the field became more and more interesting.

Many male special guests present loved this girl very much, but in the end she succeeded with Shen Xue's ten fingers, not only because "two people stand together to match".

The two families are evenly matched and have similar personal experience of studying abroad. In the end, the diplomat father of the male special guest spoke every idiomatic English to win votes for his children.

To put it bluntly, "the door is not right" is almost not only the money and influence of two families, but also a similar natural environment for success, because it directly hurts your life concept and the core mentality of married life.

Just as variety shows have just begun, diplomats' norms for their daughters-in-law are: understanding, open-minded and cultured;

The other family present did say, "Don't talk too much, don't be cold with your hands. Because cold hands are very easy to catch a cold, if there is a problem with marriage, the child's body and mind will be even more unhealthy. "

After all, the law of attraction in nature is that birds of a feather flock together.

3. Same outlook on life

I like listening to rock music best, and he likes listening to folk songs. I don't think it's appropriate to call it three views;

She likes listening to rock music best. She said that rock and roll are inferior, which is called three views.

I like breakfast best, and he likes to stay in bed. I don't think it's appropriate to call it three views;

I like breakfast best. She said you were idle and delicate. This is called three views.

Different hobbies, different hobbies, completely understandable. But the three views are different, just like two twisted trees, which feel twisted when playing.

My friend Haruko just got divorced last year. The two met on a blind date and looked very good. Both of them reached marriageable age, and they got married properly after getting along for more than half a year.

It's just a collision between falling in love and personal hobbies, and a collision between life and outlook on life.

Chunzi thinks it is enough to spend money to live, but her husband wants to make a fortune and start a company with debt, which makes the family heavily in debt. It was useless to persuade him several times, and he complained that Haruko didn't help him.

These two people have different ways of educating their children. As soon as the child cries, the husband will immediately point at the child and say "don't cry", so that the child can hold back the tears. However, Haruko thinks that crying is such a normal emotional vent. Her husband not only refuses to listen, but also blames Haruko for being spoiled.

Haruko said that being with people with different personal hobbies is just boring; Being with people with different outlook on life really means suffering.

4, temperament is suitable

In the early days of love, you were emotionally unstable, careless and arrogant. It doesn't matter, because I love you and I can spoil you.

But every long-term relationship is not used to going out by the other side. Looks and outlook on life can determine whether two people can get together, but temperament determines whether two people can continue.

Child Chu Xin, because her boyfriend is emotionally unstable, has been breaking up in recent days.

At first, I went to watch the football match with him. If his favorite football team loses, he will be very angry and throw things. Some old sayings of others were so ugly that he immediately flew into a rage and cursed. Throwing things at first has a warm heart effect, and so does the scolded basin friends, but after a long time, everyone is tired.

He said that because he loves her, he can tolerate three views; However, due to the disagreement between the three views, she was not ready to fall in love in advance.

People think that the three views can be mutually inclusive and run-in with each other, but they are not.

I saw a news the other day: women can't stand the fact that both men and women are not good at words and explicitly ask for a divorce. Both men and women are desperately entangled, asking the woman to turn around and being rejected. The lost men and women just started to go crazy, stabbing the woman several times with a sharp knife prepared in advance, causing her to die.

Therefore, it is better to escape before it is too late.

There are thousands of unmarried men and women, and it is easy to meet people you like when walking on the street.

Just like Han Geng and Celina Jade, who just announced their relationship a few days ago, they met for the first time. That is to say, at the Golden Rooster Awards Ceremony last September, Han Geng helped Celina Jade, who was wearing an evening dress and high heels, down the stairs. Later, Celina Jade Weibo wrote an article thanking Han Geng for his gentlemanly behavior, and Han Geng responded "I hope there will be opportunities for cooperation". Half a year later, the first cooperation between two people was "open love".

I met you inexplicably. At first, it was so simple that I didn't need to deliberately produce and make fate. However, the communication after meeting is much more valuable. It is difficult to consider the standards of very good looks, inappropriate family background, consistent three views and appropriate temperament. The higher the matching value, the longer the emotion.

Han Geng is 34 years old and Celina Jade is 33 years old. One is a male star with a cumulative box office of 5 billion, and the other is an actress with a cumulative box office of 5.6 billion. In the future, this complicated entertainment circle will choose and announce every relationship and how calm each other needs, so that everyone can safely witness their happiness at this time.

There is a passage in the book "Soft" that says very well: "It is not uncommon to meet love and sex in a person's life, but it is rare to meet mastery."

People are always willing to talk about this unbreakable love. Unfortunately, at that time, it was difficult for people to decide whether they could meet us at the right address and at the right time.

There is no way to meet a suitable person, but it is not too difficult to talk about 1 suitable person. But many people don't want to talk about 1 suitable person in essence, just expect a suitable person to appear out of thin air.

You can understand that the right person is hardly the time when you meet him. He meets all levels, but he has a "suitable" personality.

The real fit is not that marriage is predestined after all, but that after mastering each other, the fields that co-star can enjoy together, and the fields that do not co-star can gradually fit in. I am your soft helper and you are the armor in my heart.