This world is really amazing. When you are weak and have not yet succeeded, people and ghosts like to talk about you. Some people talk about you, and some people talk behind your back.
All in all, it feels strange. When I met some people talking about me before, I had my own opinions, but at that time, I did not read Gorky’s quotations.
But I personally feel that my views are still helpful to everyone. I have been angry because of other people's comments before. Why? There are some "people" who you don't know where they come from. They have no grievances and will always give you a blow.
At first glance, you made "him" seem like a relative of yours, and you talked a lot. It seemed reasonable, but in fact it was nonsense. You thought it would make you angry at first, but later I learned to ignore, block, delete, and block them as quickly as possible. This is the best place for "them".
With some people, you can tell what kind of person "he" is throughout his life just by looking at his words without ever meeting him. To argue with such "people" is like what Nietzsche said: "Fight with the dragon for too long, and you will become a dragon yourself." I don't want to become a dragon, after all, I have my own way to go.
As Churchill famously said, "If you stopped and threw a stone at every dog ??that barked at you, you would never reach your destination." Seriously, want me To fight back, or to have a dispute with me, it really depends on whether you have enough capital.
For a busy person like me, writing a sentimental quote for "you" feels like a waste of time. What a sin! I won’t write again from now on, because I have my own destination that I haven’t reached yet, so forgive me for not being able to accompany you!
So I won’t argue with others now. I won’t listen or pay attention to what others are saying about me, saying that I am not what I am, and saying that I am right and wrong.
Because I have read a lot of quotations, not just those by Nietzsche and Churchill above. I also think what Gorky said is very reasonable and tells the true meaning of life. Anyone who understands this quotation from Gorky will probably live a better life. Got it, the text is as follows:
After reading this quotation from Gorky, it reminds me of Yang Jiang’s words when he was one hundred years old. Yang Jiang once said, “We once wanted so much Through the twists and turns of fate, we discover in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner calmness and calmness. We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realize that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others. ”
In fact, Yang Jiang’s quotations have some similarities with Gorky’s quotations. One is the desire to be discussed by others, which is of course a good aspect. The desire to be noticed by others is of course also a good aspect. But later, people who lived to Yang Jiang's age understood that life is just about living your own life, and it really has nothing to do with others.
Today I am honored to read a quotation like Gorky's with you. We might as well use this quotation from Gorky to analyze, discuss and reflect in more depth.
Because we don’t want to live our lives with those who talk about us. There are very few people who can live our lives with us. Except for our significant other and family, who can always be with us? We don’t have to face them every day. We may get along with them now and be colleagues with them.
But we will not always be colleagues or work together. It is possible that we will change jobs soon. It may be that after changing jobs in a few years, you will find that we used to do things because of other people’s opinions. After many years of arguing with them, you will find that they really have nothing to do with us, or even have no contact.
As long as we understand this, we will know that there is no eternal discussion, and it is not long-lasting. Maybe they are talking about us behind our back today. After we leave him, he will talk about others again. This is how he is. Why do you need to know the same person as him? What's more, after we leave, we almost delete all their contact information.
Because for some people, it is better not to contact them. Contacting them will only affect your life and mood. Of course, his influence is only temporary and not long-lasting. Because they also had a tiring day, not to mention that we didn't pay attention to him. He couldn't influence us, so he would find it boring.
Everything still depends on yourself. If the heart does not move, the wind will do nothing. As long as we are not moved by other people's opinions, we will not be affected by others. We should not let some temporary bad things in front of us hinder the direction of progress and affect our own lives. This is a debt to our own lives.
If we knew that our loved ones would leave us and pass away tomorrow, we would find that everything about others is not as important as holding the person in front of us tightly. But why don’t we understand these principles earlier, hold on tight to the present, and live our lives well earlier? You have to wait until your later years to realize that you are just living your own life.
You can no longer find those who have made things difficult for us and commented on us. It feels like they have disappeared from the world. You have forgotten what they look like and what their names are.
Only the loved ones in front of you are still there, and they are still around you, so what we should cherish is the people in front of us, instead of being entangled in some temporary unfavorable scenes and stopping our progress. The pace, stopped trying to live a good life.
So don’t worry about what others say about you, as long as you remember Gorky’s quotations, you will understand!