First, she experienced the war in southern society. She was such a proud young lady, but she wore unfashionable clothes every day, but she did not give up. She worked hard all the time. She also took care of her under the same roof with her favorite Wei Xili's wife, Xiaojiabiyu's Melanie, but she never really complained.

Secondly, at the age of sixteen, Scarlett married Melanie's brother Charlie out of frustration in love. At the age of seventeen, she became a widow with a son, but she survived it with strength. .

Thirdly, she braved the bullets and dragged Melanie and her son who had just given birth. She wanted to take them back to Tara Manor because there was a mother she trusted, Qian Xin. After returning home after all the hardships, he found that his mother had died the day before, and his father had become stupid because of his mother's death. There were more than a dozen people in the family waiting to eat. She took on the burden firmly and vowed to make Tara survive.

At the end of the novel, Rhett Butler, who truly loved Scarlett, finally decided to leave Scarlett in disappointment. Only now did Scarlett realize that she loved not Ashley but Rhett Butler. She did not ask Rhett Butler to stay, but It means: "I'll think about it again tomorrow. I'll think about it in Tara. Then I can bear it. Tomorrow, I'll think of a way to get him again. After all, tomorrow is another day." This is Scarlett's magic weapon.