A few days ago, a good friend gave birth to a baby, and it was another life-and-death struggle. How many women's lives were really costed by a forward-looking autopsy! Therefore, every woman is a superwoman, and every woman must be good to herself. This article is about babies’ baby language, or baby language for short. Yes, not the English one! The article was written a month after I gave birth to little Brin, in September last year. I still feel the need to share it. No matter how many people see it, it will be a help. Unless you find it useless after reading it. Little Blin was born more than a month ago. By chance, I went to take a day-long baby talk class. As a new mother, I hope this course can be spread to more friends.

Here I will share my feelings in the form of Q&A~

1.Q: What is Dunstan’s baby language? Is it reliable?

? A: Baby language: The baby's "language" (Baby Language), mainly for newborn babies 0-3 months old. The baby tells the parents or caregivers the corresponding physiological needs through crying. Priscilla Dunstan discovered this baby's "universal language" through eight years of research. She identified five unique "words" that babies use when they cry to convey a special message to their parents. Priscilla's research was inspired by her response to her son Tom's incessant crying. "My goal is to help parents have a productive and enjoyable experience raising their babies, and to raise more satisfied babies who sleep more and cry less," she said.

2 .Q: Why do you want to learn this baby talk course?

A: Every time little Brynn cries, it bothers me, not because I am afraid of her making a noise, but because as a mother, I don’t know why she is crying. Every time she cries, everyone in the family will have different opinions. I think over time, it will destroy the previous harmonious relationship.

3.Q: Is baby talk suitable for all babies?

A: Babies 0-3 months old

4.Q: What is the language of babies?

A: Newborns have five main cries, and each cry represents different needs.

The first type: Neh (milk) - there is an N sound when hungry

The second type: Owh (ouch) - the throat opens when you are sleepy

The third type: Heh (Hi) - uncomfortable skin reflex

The fourth type: Eh (Alas) - a series of short burps

The fifth type: Eairh (Ai'er) - intestinal colic The pain will be accompanied by kicking the feet. This is the most serious and must be brought to the attention of your family.

5.Q: Is it really effective after learning it?

A: Now every time the baby cries, I can understand her needs, and it is easier to carry her than before. The most important thing is that other members of the family will not have different opinions. Family harmony is really important.

Don’t think that the baby only cries, that’s when she expresses her mood; don’t think that every time she cries it’s because of hunger, sometimes your blind feeding will only harm her; don’t think that the baby can be raised casually Just raise her, and many details that adults don't care about will affect her life.

? When the baby comes into this world, she slowly begins to learn to grow. As a mother, you must also know how to correctly accompany her to grow. Being a parent is a practice about love and separation. Finally, let me end with Dunstan’s famous saying: The baby’s crying does not mean harm, the harm comes because her cry is not responded to. If you ignore your baby's signals for help, you are not teaching her to be independent. What you are teaching her is that no one will care about and care for her needs.