I think there is a point. In the past, family ties were family ties, and when one family was in trouble, they helped each other from all sides. Your family was short of oil and salt ingredients, and my children didn't have food to eat at your house today. In the past, family ties were very United, but now many family ties have become much weaker, and they began to think of bad guys in the name of family ties. The most vivid example is a person who is getting along well in another city. After his family and friends come to this city, they need you to help him realize his life dream. Or, he needs you to share it without making any help or contribution to your business. And it must be shared. Selfish people never care about the feelings of others in order to achieve their own goals. They will think that you deserve it. You have so much property that I should share it, but I don't want to. Relatives and friends have made such achievements by their own efforts. Those who ask for it under the guise of affection never take into account the feelings of others, thinking that it is deserved, while those who ask for it by affection have no gratitude, thinking that it is taken for granted. He only sees your success, but doesn't see the hard work among you. He thinks you should give it to him. Once satisfied, there will be a second time. People are very strange things. The so-called fighting rice to support kindness and bearing rice to support hatred. When you can't satisfy him once in ten times, he thinks you are inhuman and ungrateful. Say no to those who enjoy the success, because of the kidnapping of family, you have to do something against your will, and sometimes you will have frequent marriage wars. To avoid such unpleasant things, the first time the other party asks for them, you should explicitly refuse them. Everyone should have their own bottom line and life rules. If you give up your bottom line and principles easily, you will find that you will be quite passive. Only by refusing can we awaken the life of such a requester.