This is a common saying, the whole sentence is: "A teenager doesn't know his parents' wishes, but a woman who raises a child knows her parents' kindness."
I didn't know my parents' good intentions when I was a child. Only when you have children can you know that it is not easy to raise children, and that it is not easy for your parents to understand their kindness.
There is also a saying that "only when you are in charge, do you feel that food is expensive, and when you raise children, do you know the kindness of your parents." "
It means: Only when you have a family and a career can you know the hardships of life. With children, I know that it is not easy to raise children, and I realize the hardships of my parents.
Cixi also wrote a poem to her mother: "The love of parents is the truest in the world, and tears and blood are dissolved in children's bodies. Hard work will eventually become a child, poor Chengfeng! " Nowadays, many people know the phrase "poverty leads to change", but they don't know its origin. In fact, this sentence comes from a poem by Cixi. "
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There are the following famous sayings about understanding parents' hardships and filial piety:
Mother is the only force that can make death yield. Gorky
The cultivation of dutiful sons is also fun and does not go against his will. -Book of Rites
Who can say that a filial child like the weak can repay his mother's love like the sunshine in spring? -Meng Jiao
The year of parents is indispensable. One is joy and the other is fear. -The Analects of Confucius
I am old, and people are old; Young people, young people, young people. -Mencius
Parents are the foundation of people. -Sima Qian