Many family conflicts, it is said that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite, but to sum up, they are basically caused by not doing things according to reason and according to emotions, which has led to many branches, weeds and a smoky atmosphere.

According to emotion, it must be vulgar and muddy. Ordinary people are all selfish. Everyone stands in their own position and safeguards their own interests. There is a Buddhist wise man, Teacher Xiaoyuan, who has a classic saying: There is no real harmony among ordinary people. The harmony of ordinary people is a polite harmony, a temporary harmony when interests are consistent. ——This article applies to all interpersonal relationships such as husband and wife, parents, children, girlfriends, colleagues, and classmates.

And if you do things according to the rules, you will definitely be refreshing and pure.

But in this world, there are too few people who take reason as the criterion. Many people even think that how can the home be a place for reasoning, so they can only live a muddy life.