Learning to be grateful is especially important for children nowadays. Because today's children are the center of the family, they only have themselves in their hearts and no one else. Let them learn to be grateful, in fact, let them learn to respect others. When children thank others for their good deeds, the first reaction is often to do the same in the future, which gives children a behavioral hint and lets them know how to love and help others from an early age. To learn to be grateful, we must first learn to be grateful and understand the kindness of parents, teachers and friends. Thanksgiving in the west is to educate people to be grateful. The key to let children learn to be grateful is to let children learn to be grateful through family and school education. Only in this way can children treat every life equally, respect every ordinary ordinary labor and respect themselves more. Only those who know how to be grateful will have less grievances in life.
First of all, gratitude education needs us to do it consciously. If we only know dedication, but don't know how to present our labor and dedication to our children, so as to educate them, children will not feel the love of society and people. Recently, there was news that Mr. Zhao Lao, 67, from Zhangjiakou, played the violin at the east gate of a university in Beijing to raise tuition for his daughter studying in Inner Mongolia. The old father has been performing in the street for three years, and his 2 1 year-old daughter has no idea. Mr. Zhao Lao's Silent Love is precious, but it is not worth taking. Let children know love, thus arousing their love and arousing their deeper gratitude from the heart.
Secondly, gratitude education should take activities as the carrier, so that teenagers can experience gratitude from activities, return to real life, start from scratch and practice gratitude in life. In the process of education, teachers are required to "convince people with reason, make people feel with emotion, and make people feel with reason", so that students can be educated unconsciously, so that they can realize self-improvement in the blend of knowledge, emotion, will, reason and emotion, and finally return to life. Due to various historical and practical reasons, some of our children and students have become more and more headaches for teachers and parents: weariness of learning, playfulness, internet addiction, puppy love, confrontation with parents and teachers, blind comparison, and violent tendencies ... If these "stubborn diseases" are not removed, children's studies, family life, school work and even the harmonious development of society will be directly troubled!
At the same time, many parents don't realize the importance of family education and think that education is a school matter. Many parents have a strong "parent" center, are not good at communication, and the family education atmosphere is not harmonious.
Furthermore, the reform of the national education system, the merger of universities and the two-way choice have broken the iron rice bowl, which has caused a series of problems in today's education circle: students are passive and decadent, teachers are anxious, and schools are difficult to manage. ...
The troubles of children, the expectations of parents and the needs of schools are our historical responsibilities to carry out a series of grateful and inspirational education activities. As the ancients said, the grace of dripping water will surely bring spring. Gratitude is a fine tradition of our nation, and it is also the minimum character of an upright person. In fact, we also need to be grateful, because our parents have the kindness to nurture us, our teachers have the kindness to educate us, our leaders have the kindness to meet in time, our colleagues have the kindness to help us, our society has the kindness to protect us, our army has the kindness to protect us, and our motherland has the kindness to care for us ..................................................................................... A person who is always grateful, open-minded, broad-minded, will actively and willingly help others. And those who are not grateful, their blood is cold, their hearts are cold, which can only bring indifference and cruelty to society. If there are more people like this, society will become a cold and hopeless desert.
As soon as I saw the word "gratitude", I remembered a story that many people had heard: On Thanksgiving Day, a young female teacher asked her students to draw what they wanted to be grateful for. Most of those students are from poor families, and the teacher thinks they are just drawing a big meal and so on. But to her surprise, a little boy (forgot his name) drew a hand. The teacher asked: Whose hand is this? The little boy replied, Teacher, this is your hand! The teacher understands that every day after school or after class, the teacher will hold his hand. These trivial actions were remembered by the boy.
Gratitude is indispensable in life, and there are many things and people that we need to be grateful for.
Learn to be grateful, and you can learn real life.
We want to thank all those who have cared and helped us!
May everyone in the world have a grateful heart! Let "thank you" become a lifelong lesson. "The wild flowers on the roadside are really beautiful!" This is the heartfelt words written by an American boy in a thank-you letter. He is thanking the beautiful gift of nature, and he is thanking the intoxicating fragrance of wild flowers. When I read this, my eyes were slightly moist. This is a true story. Three children in the suburb of Los Angeles, USA, are doing a homework seriously every day: writing a thank-you letter. The content of the thank-you note is actually very simple, which is nothing more than "the pizza I ate yesterday was delicious", "My mother told me a very interesting story yesterday" and "the wild flowers on the roadside are really beautiful", thanking life, nature, parents, teachers, classmates and passers-by. Although sometimes it's just a few words, all three children sincerely write it down on paper and keep it in their hearts, because this is the happiness in growth and life. How lucky these three children are and how wise their parents are! There is no parent who doesn't want his children to be high-end and be a person who is beneficial to society and the country. Of course, we can educate them to develop good hygiene habits, learn to be polite, respect teachers and respect the elderly ... It can be said that there are many cornerstones for building a children's moral building, and each one is indispensable. But don't forget to say "thank you" in the dusty corner. Teach children to be grateful, and let them discover and feel the truth, goodness and beauty in life and the beautiful things worthy of gratitude with their eyes and hearts, perhaps sometimes just trivial bits and pieces; This will make them love life more, because only those whose hearts are always full of sunshine will overcome the haze in life. Teach children to be grateful. Let them take responsibility for society, family and country while thanking others and nature, learn to "feed back" this gratitude, sincerely help those in need, and learn to cherish the nature on which we live. A person who can learn to be grateful is really a person with infinite strength and knows how to cherish. I think gratitude should be not only a child's daily homework, but also their lifelong homework, so do it with your heart! Learn to be grateful. There is a Thanksgiving Day in the west. On that day, we will eat turkey, pumpkin pie and cranberry jam. On that day, no matter how far away the children are, they must hurry home. There is always a pity that there are many festivals in our country, except for a Thanksgiving Day. We can eat turkey, pumpkin pie, cranberry jam, or go all the way home from Wan Li, but that's not for gratitude. The excitement of reunion is always more than gratitude. No sunshine, no warm days; Without rain and dew, there would be no bumper harvest; Without water, there is no life; Without parents, there would be no ourselves; Without affection, friendship and love, the world would be lonely and dark. These are simple truths that no one will understand. However, we often lack dying thoughts and grateful psychology. "Only an inch of long grass is a little sentimental, and it is rewarded with three spring rays"; "Who knows that every grain of Chinese food is hard?" The poem we recited when we were young was about gratitude. The grace of dripping water, spring comes to report; China's ancient idioms, which have lasted for many years, tell us to be grateful. However, such an old saying has not penetrated into our blood. Sometimes, we often forget that we need to be grateful for life and life. After bees collect honey from flowers, they know how to hum their thanks. The breeze blew the coolness of the leaves, and I knew I was whispering my thanks. However, we are not as good as bees and leaves. Sometimes, we often forget to be grateful. Yes, the enemy of gratitude is ingratitude. However, there are only a few people who are truly ungrateful. Most people often give their help and affection, kindness and virtue to others, taking it for granted, and it is easy to ignore or forget. On the opposite side of gratitude, consciously or unconsciously. Isn't it? The love our parents give us is often trivial but meticulous. Not only do we often feel that this should be the case, but we also feel that they are tired of saying too many old sayings. As for ourselves, even if it is the birthday of classmates or lovers, we won't miss their party, so it's not surprising that we can't remember our parents' birthdays. People who know how to be grateful are often modest and awe-inspiring. Treating people who are weaker than themselves, knowing that they should bow their heads, belongs to the former; I feel that God knows how to look up, which is the latter. Therefore, people who are weaker than themselves, even if they give themselves even a little help, dare not despise them and cannot forget them. Those who bow in the church look up at the sunshine in the stained glass window of the church with gratitude. Even if I don't believe in the existence of God, I am always moved by that look. People who hate more than love often lack gratitude. People full of resentment and resentment are likely to be like fields flooded by rain, and it is difficult to absorb new water and grow grateful flowers or seedlings. People who don't know how to repent are generally prone to lack gratitude. There is a simple reason. This kind of person is always self-centered. Everything is his right. He has never missed it. How can he care about the help others give him, especially the help to point out his mistakes and make up for them? Not only do you not care, but you may also feel that such help is unnecessary, or you can't let him down in person. Such a person's heart is like a frozen concrete floor. The water can't get wet, and it's hard to get out of the insects, and even the faint voice of gratitude can't be sung. People who are too rich and can't get away from money, people who are too powerful and addicted to power are generally more likely to lack gratitude. Because such people will think that they are masters who are kind to others, how can others be kind to themselves and need to return? Such a person, with a big belly, is used to walking with his head held high and his chest held high, and it is already very difficult to bend over and squat down, let alone bow or kowtow to others. Although you won't say thank you for your kindness, you should be grateful not only from your heart but also from your mouth. For those who need gratitude, you must express your gratitude and express your gratitude. There was once a legend in the United States that in a village, the family sat around the table to eat, but the mother brought a pot of straw. The whole family is very strange. I don't know what's going on. My mother said, "I have cooked for you all my life." You have never said a word of thanks or praised the food. What is the difference between this and eating straw! " Even the most unrequited mother in the world is eager to hear even a little grateful echo, so we need to express our gratitude to others for their help and kindness. It is not only an expression of gratitude, but also an inner communication. In this kind of communication, we will feel that the world is particularly beautiful because of this close connection. I read in the newspaper that two sisters in Hunan once fell into the water when they were young. They were rescued by a kind-hearted person and left without leaving their names. The two sisters and their parents felt that their lives had been saved by others, but they didn't even say a word of thanks to others, vowing to find this benefactor. They searched for 20 years, and their father died. They and their mother tried their best to find benefactors in order to be grateful. When the two sisters knelt on the ground to thank the benefactor, they, the benefactor and passers-by could not help but shed tears. I can't forget it. The two sisters' long 20-year action told me never to forget to thank those who have been kind to you. At that grateful moment, how warm and beautiful the world has become. I will never forget an incident a few years ago. That day, I waited for the subway at Chongwenmen subway station. A little boy of four or five years old came running from the other side of the platform. Because it's winter. Down jacket makes the little boy plump up and toss and turn like a ball. He asked me which was the nearest subway to the Lama Temple, and I told him it was over there. He ran back happily. I saw his mother waiting for him over there. After waiting for a long time, the subway didn't come. I left, ready to go up and say "OK". Just as I was approaching the exit at the top of the stairs, I heard a little boy calling me "Uncle, Uncle" behind me. I didn't know what he was going to do, so I just stood there waiting for him and watched him running towards me with sweat on his forehead. I asked him what was wrong, and he panted, "I forgot to say thank you just now." Mom asked me if I said thank you. I said I forgot. My mother asked me to chase you. "I will never forget the child and the mother. They told me never to forget to learn to be grateful, and never to forget to thank anyone in the world for their insignificant help and concern. 14 From February 27th, the fourth grade organized the activity of "honoring parents, starting with details". This activity was warmly welcomed by students and strongly supported by parents. Students send warm greetings every day: some ask, "Mom, are you tired today?" Some said, "Dad, it's snowing today. Drive slowly!" " "Some send blessings:" Happy New Year's Day and smooth work! " ..... every sentence warms people's hearts! Students actively communicate with their parents every day: there are interesting stories about snowball fights and snowmen, school activities to celebrate New Year's Day, and news of the Indian Ocean tsunami … interesting jokes! Students actively do things for their families every day: there are meals and tea, washing dishes and wiping tables, washing floors and mopping floors, hanging clothes and folding quilts, massaging their backs, and taking vegetables out of the garbage ... They all take action! ; The following are excerpts from some students' feelings and parents' comments. My Feeling: As a member of the family, I want to share my worries for my elders and do my best to do housework. Usually, we should do well not only at school, but also at home. As long as we pay attention to observation, we can help our elders do many things. -Four (1) Lou Zhongheng did these things, and I was praised by adults. I am really happy, but I want to keep it up. -4 (2) Lu; I used to know how to honor my parents, but now I don't know how to honor them. Through this activity, I learned that there are many ways to honor my parents. I can start with details and small things, such as a warm greeting, a positive communication and a concrete action. All these can show that I am a good boy who respects my parents. -4 (3) Zhang Wei; I think it's right to do these things. After a day's work, my parents will help us wash clothes, cook, take out the garbage and fold clothes. We should say hello and help mom and dad do something. Take time to communicate with your parents in the evening and communicate with them more. -four (4) kings; The form of "filial piety to parents begins with details" makes me know my parents better and care more about them. In these eight days, I not only did this thing, but also did many other things to honor my parents. I also hope that teachers can send more such forms, so that I can record my filial piety to my parents. -four (5) Han; "Parents' Testimonies": He Siheng is very filial to his parents at ordinary times, and will cover you with a quilt when he falls asleep; The icy road will remind you not to wrestle; There is no light in the corridor, you will walk with your nearsighted mother; Say good night to your mother every day. Although he still has many shortcomings, especially his lack of self-awareness in learning, his actions still make his mother feel gratified in filial piety. -4 (1) He Siheng's parents; Children are in poor health at home, and adults can take the initiative to care and behave more sensibly than usual. If only it were like this at ordinary times. -4 (2) The theme of "filial piety starts with details" by Lu's parents is very good. These days, children start from every small aspect, which makes us feel that children are grown up, sensible, considerate of their parents' hard work and concerned about their elders. Children also communicate with us from the heart, rushing to do housework, and we are happy from the heart. At the same time, we are also very grateful to the teachers for their hard education. -4 (3) Dong You's parents "details make great things". To educate children to become talents, we must first learn to be human and learn to be grateful. Such a child is what our parents expect. This activity in the school is well done, so that children can learn to honor their parents and inherit and carry forward the traditional virtues of our country. -4 (4) Wang's parents; The second activity in school is very helpful to children's education. It promotes children's active and timely communication at home, so that parents can better understand their school situation and ideological trends; Children can also be encouraged to take the initiative to do something within their power to honor their elders. Hope to persevere. -4 (5) Xiao Yu's parents hope that students will always respect their parents from the bottom of their hearts, honor their parents from the details, and inherit and carry forward the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation. (We have sent out the second form and submitted the feedback on February 3rd. )