1. Only fools turn around when they hit a nail; smart people learn to behave when they see others suffer.

Appreciation: The difference between fools and smart people is that smart people can learn to summarize from other people's experiences and stories, so that they can avoid detours and make wrong decisions, while fools do not have such understanding.

2. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just try to do your best and feel no regrets.

Appreciation: As the saying goes, people make plans and God makes things happen. This means that as long as we work hard and do our best to realize our dreams, no matter what the result is, we should not care too much and feel no regrets. That’s it.

3. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy.

Appreciation: Fu Lei and his wife told Fu Cong that people's minds are often related to experience. For example, sympathy is not deeply felt in the hearts of ordinary people, but for people who have experienced profound pain, You will feel the same way and become more compassionate.

4. Not getting carried away by victory is the best evidence of strength.

Appreciation: This sentence can be called a wise saying. After winning a victory, many people often relax their vigilance and make major mistakes, leading to irreparable results. The more successful the moment, The more we need to be vigilant and introspective.

5. The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that kind of intuitive emotion.

Appreciation: We often praise the greatness of maternal love, so why is maternal love so great? I believe that many people will say the word selfless. Although it is true, the really great thing is that maternal love is an intuition, not out of rational thinking, but out of an instinctive reaction.

6. My child, the terrible enemy does not necessarily have to be a ferocious-looking one. A friendly and passionate friendship can sometimes waste a lot of your precious time.

Appreciation: In Fu Lei’s book, this sentence gave me a deep understanding. In our lives, we will encounter many enemies. We often define enemies too narrowly, and some things cost too much. A lot of the time, these things are also our enemies, such as friendship. We have made many friends, but how many are truly of quality? Such enemies are not easy to arouse alertness, and we need to understand and identify them ourselves.

7. Since we live in a world of money, we must control money well so as not to be enslaved by money.

Appreciation: I very much agree with Fu Lei and his wife. Many people are labeled as misers, but in fact, in our lives, money is inseparable. This medium of exchange of goods is needed, and money can also make our lives better. Therefore, we need to learn to manage money and control it so that it can serve us but not be enslaved by it.

8. Don’t be arrogant when you are right, and be forgiving when you are right.

Appreciation: As the saying goes, be merciful to others. Our lives are full of setbacks and sufferings. Therefore, we should have a broad mind and a tolerant heart and be a responsible person. A big-hearted person.

9. As long as a person is sincere, he can always impress others; even if people don’t understand him at the moment, they will understand him in the future.

Appreciation: Fu Lei told his son that being a human being requires sincerity. This is the basis for interacting with others. I strongly agree. The same is true in our lives. If we want to make some real friends, we must be sincere to each other. , and the sincere heart will be understood and felt by people sooner or later.

10. Abandonment without fighting is hypocritical, detachment without suffering is frivolous, a wise man who escapes from reality is cowardly; moderation, contentment, and petty wisdom are our fatal wounds. .

Appreciation: I like this sentence in Fu Lei’s book very much. In our lives, many people think that they have high emotional intelligence, but in fact, they just inherited part of the golden mean. They are just thoughts, little wisdom and little wisdom. Their abandonment, detachment, and self-preservation are nothing but hypocrisy. They cannot stand the test of time and morality, and these are our fatal wounds.