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Some are extroverted whites, which gain energy when socializing and consume energy when being alone. Some people are introverted, consuming energy when socializing and regaining energy when they are alone. I am an introverted person, and many people will feel cold and inaccessible. I like being alone. When you are alone, your thoughts wander and you can learn to think independently. Sometimes I like to be alone and enjoy the feeling of freedom. I just feel tired of dealing with people and seldom take the initiative to contact feelings. I'd rather kill time in books. When reading, you feel that you are the master. More and more people know each other, but they no longer have friends. I can't learn the pleasantries between adults. Introversion is often used as a derogatory term by adults. In their eyes, introverts are unpopular with society. They will say, "Look, this child is really introverted. He should learn to talk more in the future." To put it mildly, it is shy. This is shallow loneliness, of course, introverts are more likely to be lonely.
Recently, I saw the bookstore on the island, and there was a sentence in it: "We read books and know that we are not alone. We study because we are lonely. We study, and then we are not alone. We are not alone. " It's hard to read. We thought we were lonely and could find our own kind in books. Often immersed in their own small world. I used to think that people who like literature are lonely. Now I feel that the young people in Go to the Opera House are more lonely. I can only say that I will always be a minority in the crowd. The real loneliness is in my heart. The loneliest people are the strong, who occupy the high ground of human thought, and it is difficult for ordinary people to enter their world. They don't talk about their loneliness. Compared with them, I am not alone.
Don't be afraid of loneliness. When you are lonely, you can find yourself and talk to yourself. When you are alone, you can cultivate your thinking ability and experience the true meaning of loneliness.
Li Qingzhao, a poetess in Song Dynasty, is a representative figure of graceful and restrained ci school, known as "the first talented woman in the ages" and the first poetess in the ages.
In the Song Dynasty more than a thousand years ago, Zhu Cheng Neo-Confucianism, founded by Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi, gradually became the theoretical core of social morality. For women, they even advocate the moral standard that "a woman without talent is a virtue". Li Qingzhao's poets born in this environment should have been given to us by heaven as the most powerful counterattack against this ethical code that violates human nature.
With her unparalleled talent, Li Qingzhao lived a romantic life in that strict ethical society. Li Qingzhao's romantic life is not only reflected in her talent, but also in her wine.
Yes, Li Qingzhao, who was in the same era as Cheng Ersheng, was an alcoholic. You have your pedantic etiquette rules and I have my happy life. As long as I am good enough, I will swear to the world in my own way. All unreasonable rules are bullshit!
In Li Qingzhao's ci, we can always see her relationship with wine, her fate with wine, her fate with ci and her fate with life. This fate has been accompanied by three stages of her life.
The first stage is the freedom and liveliness of her girlhood.
"Always remember XiTing sunset, drunk don't know the way home. Always had a good time, but lost to the swimming pool deep in Zhu Feng. Fight for the ferry, fight for the ferry, and open a beach of gulls and herons. " After studying Li Qingzhao's life, some people have come to the conclusion that the life recalled in this poem should be when Li Qingzhao was fourteen or fifteen years old.
At this age, you should be trapped in the boudoir, but you see, Li Qingzhao, who is "drunk as mud and doesn't know her way home", obviously drank too much, so that she can't even find her way home. Stealing wine, playing and talking loudly are the nature of real girls. Even now, seeing such a picture, we will probably complain: these girls are really crazy!
Li Qingzhao was able to release her nature in such a strict ethical code, which really benefited from her enlightened and knowledgeable father. Li Qingzhao's father is Li, one of the "Four Bachelor of Sumen". He studied under Su Shi and was brilliant. He was a first-class professor in modern times. What is even more admirable is his education for his daughter. He never bound his daughter with the usual social concepts, but encouraged her to read more books. Tens of thousands of books at home have also become a paradise for Li Qingzhao from body to mind.
Li Qingzhao was a girl who didn't like red makeup and loved reading poetry books since she was a child. It is said that once, she changed a set of books on the stall with new clothes and went home with a set of clothes. I wonder what that great scholar Cheng would think if he saw a young woman running in the street wearing a dress and holding a poem.
Therefore, behind a wayward and free girl, there must be a great and tolerant father. Your family background may not be important, but your family education is very important!
The second stage is the romance and willfulness during her marriage with Zhao Mingcheng.
"Last night, the rain dispersed suddenly, a deep sleep without residual wine. Ask the shutter man, Haitang is still there. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? It should be green, fat and thin. "
You see, this is not a word. I drank too much again. After a night, there is no need to leave any wine. Some people say that this "shutter man" is her servant girl, but I prefer to regard this man as her husband Zhao Mingcheng.
It can be said that Li Qingzhao is the first woman with petty bourgeoisie feelings in history, and she can still maintain a romantic feeling after marriage, thanks to the fact that she met Zhao Mingcheng who is congenial to her at the age of marriage.
Zhao Mingcheng, the son of the prime minister of the dynasty, is also a handsome and knowledgeable person. Not only did he spoil Li Qingzhao's waywardness like his father, but he was also unconditionally impressed by her talent. What is more commendable is that he and Li Qingzhao have the same career pursuit. They devoted their lives to the study of epigraphy and wrote down the records of epigraphy.
Their marriage often reminds me of Lin and Liang Sicheng, talented women in the Republic of China. When the passion of love is slowly extinguished in daily necessities, common pursuit and hobbies are often the best adhesive for marriage to last forever. According to records, Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng were childless all their lives. At that time, under the background of public opinion that "unfilial having three sons is great", no matter who the reason is, women can divorce unconditionally. Not only did Li Qingzhao not get divorced, but she also drank and wrote lyrics in her husband's family, which shows how much Zhao Mingcheng loved her.
"Searching, empty, miserable. It's the hardest to stop breathing when it's warm and cold. Three cups and two glasses of wine, how can you beat him? The evening breeze is nasty ... "
This song "Slow Voice" can be said to be the masterpiece of Li Qingzhao's later works. At this time, the Northern Song Dynasty perished and all the homes were destroyed. Her husband, Zhao Mingcheng, died on the way to escape, and their life-long book The Record of the Stone was also lost in the war. In order to save some of the remaining manuscripts and survive in troubled times, Li Qingzhao made a compromise and remarried Zhang Ruzhou.
I didn't expect Zhang Ruzhou to covet the families of Li and Zhao, thinking that Li Qingzhao must have many precious collections. When he found his hopes dashed, he showed his true colors, not only swearing at Li Qingzhao, but even punching each other. It was also at this time that Li Qingzhao discovered Zhang Ruzhou's crime of defrauding the official position and went to the government to take refuge.
According to the Song Law at that time, a wife who informs on her husband will be imprisoned for three years. Li Qingzhao knows this well, but in order to get rid of this love rat completely, she would rather accept this jail. Later, thanks to the efforts of imperial academy bachelors, Li Qingzhao was finally rescued after being detained for nine days. Zhang Ruzhou got the punishment she deserved, and their marriage was finally released.
A beautiful woman is dying. In her later years, Li Qingzhao's wine has long lost her innocence and freedom, and her romantic affectation has disappeared in thousands of loves, and even her capacity for drinking is not as good as before. "Three cups and two lamps" is already a variety of melancholy. It turns out that the most difficult thing in life is national hatred, family hatred and the separation of yin and yang. Yellow flowers piled up all over the ground, withered and damaged. This time, what a sad sentence …
When you are alone, clean up your room and give yourself a comfortable home and a happy heart; Reading a good book, even if it can't help you settle the hardships of life, it can always convey the thoughts of the wise, give you the ability to think and give you the courage to face all kinds of challenges.
Sunlight passes through the gap and kisses the earth; The breeze blew through the treetops and tapped on the lintel; Birds are singing outside the window. I opened the window, greeted the sun, played with the wind, and greeted this beautiful day with a slight smile.
A person can always do whatever he wants on weekends, without having to keep appointments or get up early, and sleep until he wakes up naturally; You don't have to do anything. You can kill time by flipping left and right. I can be crazy, but I can be calm and low-key. When I am alone, I am so pure and broken.
The volume of high jump, playing your favorite songs, cycles over and over again. Change your sleeves, put on your gloves and start cleaning. Wipe the kitchen, wardrobe and desk, and then mop the floor carefully. This seemingly simple job, I can hum a song and chatter for a long time. Look at the clock, it's past noon 12, and I just remember that I haven't cooked for a long time. Indulge in cleaning, I can also forget to eat and sleep, as I did in the past and now. Maybe I don't tidy up at ordinary times, but since I started, I want to make a "upside down" change and give myself a brand-new feeling. I have always felt that there are not many things in this world that can see immediate results, and cleanliness is one of them. After a little tidying up, you will see the result. Sometimes, I need this effect to please myself.
After a nap in the afternoon, lean back on the bed, pick up a favorite book and savor it. Recently, I was watching Liu Tong's Who's Youth Is Not Confused. In fact, I have put this book on the shelf for a long time. I remember the first time I picked it up because I was confused when I was looking for a job after graduation. Now, I am still very confused about my future work plan. He said: "You are right to feel confused, and whose youth is not confused." I thought confusion was temporary, but I didn't expect it to run through my whole youth. I am told from time to time to stop and think before I start. I thought that through such a book, I could solve the confusion at this time, but it is not. The author just taught me an idea and some of his own past experiences. But I am not him after all. I should have my own thinking and go my own way. Just ask yourself not to "give up because of suffering, but grow because of carrying."
When you are alone, clean up your room and give yourself a comfortable home and a happy heart; Reading a good book, even if it can't help you settle the hardships of life, it can always convey the thoughts of the wise, give you the ability to think and give you the courage to face all kinds of challenges. Perhaps this is the beauty of life, the meaning of reading, and a person can have a good time.
Before I went to the mountain city of Chongqing, I imagined that it was surrounded by mountains and the city was built on the mountain. It's foggy, hot, bustling, lively and huge here. In it, what you feel is the majestic mountain, the gentle water, the tall buildings standing on the graceful body of the mountain, and the quaint skirts decorated by the diaojiao building. Light rail runs through water fields and between mountains, which is the clearest vein of the city. Here, the mystery of the horizon and the helplessness of Baidu map make people feel confused and mysterious, and there is no time to explore. We rushed to his fame in a limited time.
Get off the bus, drag a tired face, walk through the business center, see the elegant demeanour of Jie Fangbei, then rush to the hot pot, and follow Zhuang into a shop with ordinary and old decoration and full customers. The waiter is a local elder sister, in her forties, short stature, ordinary appearance, capable movements, concise speech and neat dishes, and gives everyone a bottle of sesame oil to eat. Ah ~ ~, this hot pot is really rude. When eating, my facial features are numb and my face is red. You look at the people next to you, refreshed, but we squint and sweat, thinking that it would be daunting to see hot pot later. I didn't expect to go out and feel unfinished and unforgettable. The second time was to eat hot pot in an antique yard, which was more atmospheric this time. It's raining cats and dogs outside, and we don't have any reserves to eat hot pot once. It's so spicy, we still insist on sending it to our mouth with chopsticks, and it's still hearty and spicy in the end. Most people in Chongqing eat the bottom of a spicy pot. Probably, they think the three fresh pots are not delicious enough, but we think they are mellow and delicious. In the Yuanyang pot, the red soup is boiling hot, and the clear soup is elegant. Praise it. Eating hot pot three times is to entertain local friends of colleagues, and the location is chosen in the hot pot street that has been heard for a long time. The whole street looks ordinary, and the decoration structure is a long time ago, even a little shabby, with no sense of ostentation and extravagance. But outside the store, the diners are full and lively. This time, the hot pot lost its wildness, and it tasted soft and spicy. We finally tasted each one. Make up for the first two regrets and look at the local people. There are many tables, two cauldrons standing side by side, carrying a pot of homemade white wine, eating and drinking heartily. Compared with the grandeur and elegance, Chongqing people here eat really and enjoy themselves.
The lights are on, the night falls, the heat wave gradually recedes, and the life of Chongqing people has just begun. Eating and drinking, fighting, very lively. Walking along the river, watching the red cliff drop green, watching the sunset glow reflected on the river until it sinks, the banks of the river are sparkling with silver flowers, the market is like the sky, strolling among the buildings, visiting the old streets in the mountain city, enjoying the Bayu culture, feeling the enthusiasm and passion of Chongqing people and experiencing the city.
The warm night in Chongqing above the two rivers is brightly lit and colorful, which is different from others. Neon lights of various shapes and colors make this three-dimensional city full of enchanting. Looking at the brightly lit holy land on the cruise ship "Generation Tianjiao", imagine that if someone pushes a cup for a change at this moment, they will not get drunk. Although the lights here are blazing, gorgeous and radiant, people are full of enthusiasm, but there is no feeling of luxury and depression. Looking at Tianmen on both sides, Chongqing is like a phoenix spreading its wings, standing on the banks of the two rivers. It is the most beautiful and moving, which makes people linger. The clear water swings and the mountains rise and fall, just like a bride dressed up for marriage, dazzling, dressing up beside the clear water. Dressed cruise ships, coming and going, seem to be busy with the grand celebration of the festival. We went home in the heyday of prosperity, but we never saw the prosperity fade away, leaving a little bright, quiet and elegant Chongqing. Just think, when Dai Mo appears gradually and everything falls silent, the city should also be tired, tired and sleepy.
When you visit the Three Gorges, you have to say that the Three Gorges Project is full of surprises and regrets, lamenting the great contribution of the Three Gorges Dam to the people, and regretting that the beautiful scenery that has never been sung before is very rare. When the bus arrived at Kuimen, after all, we didn't have the courage to board Bai Di City to appreciate the magnificent charm of Kuimen in the world. Imagine, even if the morning glow is still like brocade and colorful clouds are lingering, after all, three-quarters of the body is missing, how much charm can there be. However, northerners are eager for water, and the most desirable thing about the Three Gorges is the interdependence of mountains and rivers. After overlooking the scene of Kuimen today at the dock, I boarded the boat to have a rest. The ship set sail at two o'clock in the middle of the night, rippling, and Daishan ink slowly passed by, which was different from previous trips. Qutang Gorge passed through in his sleep in the middle of the night, and woke up to Wuxia Gorge. Panorama is the beautiful scenery of Goddess Creek, clear as silk water and lush trees.