Good eloquence helps us succeed. Successful people must have good eloquence. There are innate factors in the formation of good eloquence, but the most important thing is nurture. Here are some tips for improving eloquence that I would like to share with you based on my own experience:

The key to social eloquence is: being proficient in at least one foreign language

Those who are proficient in foreign languages ??need not be eloquent in Chinese. Not bad. Listen to English tapes every morning and create a foreign language environment for yourself at work and in life. Being proficient in a foreign language expands your horizons and social circle, and also marks the improvement of your eloquence.

Social Eloquence Eight Characters: Basic Exercises to Correct Speech Disorders

1. Re-learn Chinese Pinyin. I can generally understand Shanxi Mandarin, so I I actively improved my pronunciation and learned the difficult-to-speak Chinese pronunciation from my daughter, which made great progress.

2. Use a recording device to record and play it to yourself. The more you listen to it, the less nonsense, catchphrases and stammering will occur. Listening to your own recordings can correct speech problems and lack of confidence.

3. Frequently give impromptu speeches in front of the mirror, find topics to speak on your own, or imitate the leader’s speech, pay attention to mouth shape and body language, and remove unnecessary gestures and facial expressions. Just say what you are asked, dare to say it under any circumstances, and say it very well.

4. Read celebrity works and poems aloud, and practice tongue twisters.

The second secret of social eloquence: learn to be frank and express your feelings

1. Learn to praise, look for the other person’s strengths, and adopt “warm” language so that good medicine does not taste “bitter”. Amplify or use the other party's strengths to help them change their shortcomings. For example, when educating playful children to do their homework calmly, "If you are so engaged when playing, you will be equally engaged when doing homework." A good word can warm the winter, and a bad word can add up to half a sentence, which also reflects the role of eloquence in communication. Say this, "To say something heart-warming, I..." to ensure good communication.

2. Learn to listen and understand what the other party means. When communicating, don't rush to speak first. Speaking first does not necessarily win. We have one mouth and two ears, listen more and speak less, and listen more to what is said.

3. Learn to be honest, speak your mind, speak your mind, and speak your mind. To be honest, how can I? People hate liars and like honest people and honest language.

4. Keep up with the times, read more news, know the buzzwords, and give people a "trendy" feeling. When communicating with young people, if you can mention Sister Feng's marriage proposal, the ant tribe, etc., it will undoubtedly bring you closer to each other.

5. Do what you like, eat as you like, tailor your food to your needs, and speak in a way that suits the person. We must be familiar with astronomy, history, and geography, learn famous sayings and aphorisms, quote scriptures, and improve the gold content of our language, "turn straw into gold bars, and turn gold bars into straw."

Social Eloquence Eight Characters Three: Humor Cultivates Funny Social Communication

1. Read more, discover humorous words and phrases from the book, and use the image memory method to write them down. When encountering similar situations? Come. Describes the large number of people on the bus, "everyone is crowded into a photo". Sometimes when I take a bus and encounter a crowded scene, I think of this sentence.

2. Cleverly using metaphors, Mengniu Chairman Niu Gensheng described ice cream as its “cousin” as McDonald’s and its “cousin” as Coca-Cola, making people feel his wisdom and humor at once.

The fourth horoscope of social eloquence: Being well-organized in one sentence

1. First of all, do not talk empty words or nonsense, speak meaningfully, and say every sentence well when communicating with others. Words have a beginning and an end, and have key points. It can be said clearly in one sentence, not two.

2. Make a good draft before speaking, follow the 123 rule, the first point is, the second point is. . . . Be careful not to repeat the third point and the first point. Sometimes repeatable for emphasis. Lenin said, study, study, study again! Study, and then know your shortcomings.

3. Slow down the speaking speed. Everyone knows that diplomats generally speak very slowly in formal situations, so that they have less chance of making mistakes and can stay organized.