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Wu Zhihong once said: "People can't grow up alone. One needs sufficient relationships to develop a mature self."
Although we all came to this society naked and then left this world alone, the beginning and reincarnation of life are single people. But after living in this world for decades, each of us is not a lonely individual. We are more or less connected with some people in this society, and blood is thicker than water. Since there is a connection, there must be human relations, and there is a reward for giving.
Therefore, since we don't live alone in this world, we can't be so selfish and live only for ourselves. There is usually a saying among unmarried people that "one person is full and the whole family is not hungry". I think this is extremely irresponsible, although there is no family, no wife and children. But we still have our parents who gave birth to us. Our parents are still alive. How can we make such an irresponsible sigh? In fact, there are many people who are inextricably linked with us. Personally, I think there are three kinds of people who are the most important people in our lives and deserve our lifelong dedication.
First of all, parents
Parents gave us life, brought us into this vibrant world and became a member of the general public.
When we are ignorant and babbling, our parents take good care of us, holding us in the palm of their hands for fear of falling, holding us in their mouth for fear of melting, treating us as their "baby", eating, drinking and sleeping with them, and letting us grow up carefree.
When we reach school age, our parents will send us to a knowledge school, so that we can wander in the sea of knowledge, learn knowledge, broaden our horizons and grow into the pillars of the country.
When we reached marriageable age, they took pains to hold a wedding for us, set up a family, let us be husbands and fathers, and shoulder the heavy responsibility of the family.
My parents grew up with us, and we grew old with them. Many years ago, we were children and were cared for infinitely. Now that we have grown up, they have become "old children". We should give them equal love.
They have worked hard for most of their lives. Nowadays, they are sickly and senile. We should try our best to let them enjoy their old age, spend the rest of their lives with dignity and talk to them. The sunset at dusk will also be beautiful.
Second, the wife.
Maybe you are not as big as your family, maybe you don't have a stunning appearance, but there will always be someone who will entrust you with your life and accompany you for a lifetime. That's your wife and an important person to accompany you all your life.
Your wife entrusts herself to you, and forms a family with you to resist the ups and downs of life together. As a man and husband, shouldn't we try our best to let her live a superior life with quality?
Married, don't we want her to wear dozens of stall clothes and go out to do things to avoid being left out among girlfriends?
Married, don't we have to let her sweat with us in the wind and rain?
Married, do we still want her to sigh and drool over her favorite cosmetics because of money?
She entrusts her life to us, so we should work hard to let the beloved woman live a quality life, because she is a woman who will accompany us all our lives.
Third, children.
Children are the continuation of our love. When we bring him into this world, we should be responsible for him, let him grow up happily and carefree, strive to create a comfortable family environment for them, enjoy a quality talent education, show them around, see the noisy city and the bustling world.
We are not only in contact with parents, wives and children, but also with our brothers and sisters, uncles and aunts, and even our teachers, friends and brothers, and so on. Therefore, born as a human being, we can't just let ourselves have a material life and eat, drink and be merry in this bleak and realistic society; We should also create secular stability and beautiful years for important people around us through our own struggle.
How do you think?