The first letter is from "I also warned you in the eighth letter that this kind of mental depression will happen again in the future." It can be seen that this letter from home should have been written when my son was depressed. From "you don't have to worry about it, let alone put it in your stomach and don't tell us." The anguish in my heart can't be vented in my letters at home, but where can I vent it? Children don't complain to their parents. Who do they complain to? If we don't comfort you, who will? ..... Then, after that, when you encounter pain because of memories (you will definitely come again), take out this letter and reread it several times. "It can be seen that Fu Lei wrote this letter at this time to encourage his son to cheer up, face the key setbacks in life with a peaceful attitude, meet the emotional trauma optimistically, and be a brave person.

The second letter from home was written when my son succeeded. "The highest and purest happiness in the world is to appreciate the art conveyed by your child's hands and heart." "We are very happy, because you are the glory of our motherland! And because you can make many people laugh and make many people happy with music. "

Function:

The first letter, written when my son was depressed, encouraged him to face emotional trauma and learn to accept it calmly.

The second letter, written when my son achieved great success and was surrounded by flowers and applause, encouraged him to remain humble, not afraid of loneliness and dare to climb the artistic realm.

In the first letter, he said that life must be full of emotional ups and downs, and only mediocre and detached people will not have ups and downs; In the second letter, he emphasized that "contradiction is the proof of vitality", so as to encourage his son to bravely face all kinds of contradictions, constantly improve himself in the process of constantly solving contradictions, and tend to be "perfect".

As a great scholar and a great father, Fu Lei's greatness lies in that he gave his son more artistic sharpening and showed a higher realm of life with the help of his son's success.

Two ordinary and unusual letters from home: ordinary, because this is a father's inner confession to his son in a foreign country; Unusually, these two letters from home, from the son's daily life, not only taught his son art, but also showed the lofty realm of life. Fu Lei and Fu Cong have transcended the boundaries between father and son and become bosom friends in art and thought.