2. Learn to listen. Listening is a sign of respect for others. Chatting with people shows that you are absent-minded or always let others finish, and you are eager to express your thoughts and opinions. How can the chat go on happily?
3. Don't blame others. There is a wise saying in chatting, sitting still often thinking about yourself, chatting is not for people. Remember especially when chatting with people. No matter how close you are, don't go beyond that famous saying. You don't know everything about others. You are not the judge of life. Don't judge others.
4. Understand the personality, hobbies and habits of the person you are chatting with. Respect a person, including that person's living habits, personality and hobbies. If you don't care about other people's personalities, hobbies and habits, it will send a signal that you don't want the chat to continue.
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Chatting with others 1
1. Learn to learn and learn more new knowledge and news at ordinary times. In this way, you won't feel ignorant when chatting with others, especially some new topics, so be sure not to fall behind. Only in this way can we communicate with others normally.
2. Learn to be gregarious, don't be maverick, and pay attention to being on the same channel with others when chatting. When everyone is talking about food, don't interrupt them, which is obviously unpleasant. With the progress of everyone's topic, good performance.
Pay attention to the way you speak. Don't be aggressive in the usual chat. Be sure to separate the results like a debate. It is necessary to speak calmly, and at the same time make jokes and gags appropriately, so that the topic can proceed smoothly.
4. Pay due attention to etiquette. Generally, you will be more open when chatting, but you must pay attention to moderation when talking or joking, and don't deliberately touch other people's taboos. Especially in the case of ethnic minorities, we should pay more attention to it.
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Chatting with others method 2
1. Facing strangers and acquaintances. Show up at the dinner table together, be restrained to acquaintances and ask more questions from strangers. Only by mastering the necessary basic materials can you judge whether this person is serious or informal, and the scale will be more accurate. You can't run amok just because an acquaintance is present, and eventually lose your friend's face.
2. Don't make a closed-loop answer. Most people will choose what they are good at when asking questions and throw it to him. The other person is worried, but you are happy at leisure. You just need to add some "real", "ah" and "what happened next" in the middle, and it will last a long time. It doesn't matter if you don't move. Show interest.