Why is the love between Yoko Ono and John Lennon called myth?
-In memory of the love between John Lennon and Yoko Ono, can we talk about love for Yoko Ono and John Lennon instead of rock and roll? This may not be a very difficult thing, but it is a pity that, since Yoko Ono married John Lennon in 1969, for decades, the focus of many topics was still on John Lennon's music or his The Beatles, but the extremely important love story was kept silent or deliberately avoided. In other words, Yoko Ono is not a figure that they attach great importance to. They don't like or simply hate Yoko Ono. A very important reason is that rock and roll belongs to men, and women can only make decorations; Also, there are still people who stubbornly believe that the woman named Yoko Ono is the one who tore apart one of the greatest bands in history. But after entering a brand-new century, everything seems to have changed. After all, women's rock has resurfaced and formed a strong force, which is enough to make those who hold the "rock male chauvinism" feel powerless in their defense. At this time, Yoko Ono re-entered people's field of vision. We saw Yoko Ono, who is 71 years old, appear thin but strong at the 46th Grammy Awards Ceremony in 24. She still said in a sonorous tone: please remember Lennon, music brings us together, and you won't feel lonely with music. . . . . . However, is Yoko Ono lonely at the moment? Perhaps, she will never feel lonely again, because she has long been used to treating loneliness as her friend, since Lennon was shot by his fans in the street on December 8, 198. In fact, Yoko Ono was more famous than John Lennon to some extent before he was 4. When 24-year-old Lennon just changed the name of his band from Silver Beatles to Beatles, 32-year-old Yoko Ono had performed her classic performance art work "Cut Piece" in the famous Carnegie recitation hall-she sat cross-legged on the stage with her hair covered and her eyes clearly looking at the distance. Several randomly selected audience members were asked to cut her clothes into pieces with scissors until she was naked. At this time, Yoko Ono had been divorced once and had a child with her second husband. However, as one of the advocates of American surf art in the 196s, her influence in the art circle was not devalued because she was a woman from the East. On the contrary, her status was on the rise. Even later, Lennon commented on Yoko Ono, saying that as the most famous artist in the world, she should be widely known-although this statement was somewhat exaggerated, Lennon was really infatuated with this woman from the conservative East but her behavior was bold and vulgar. "I have the impulse to approach her, but there is no good reason or opportunity." Lennon said. However, what Lennon never expected was that after only one year, he and Yoko Ono had their first romantic encounter in an art cafe that was easy to breed ambiguous feelings. After that, he desperately fell in love, and his passionate and crazy love made everyone around him feel incredible. Because at that time, Lennon was already a husband and father. Looking at it now, the reasons seem simple: First, Lennon grew up in a family lacking love, and psychologically there was a serious hunger for maternal love, and Yoko Ono was eight years away from him. Such an age gap was enough for this big boy to feel a kind of care and warmth unique to mature women; Secondly, both of them have their own pursuits in art, and the universality of art has quickly narrowed the distance between them in age, and the mutual complement and communication in different artistic fields has further promoted their emotional closeness; Third, it is impossible for any man to refuse to have love with a woman he admires. Art and spirit have the same language, and the body can be harmoniously integrated. Such a love is bound to be interpreted in a colorful way. To express his ardent love, Lennon quickly changed his name to John Xiao Ye Lennon.