Advanced tricks for people in society to play tricks on others.

Advanced tricks for people in society to play tricks on others. In real life, we all need to step into society sooner or later, and in society, the most indispensable thing is advanced routines. Next, I will take you to learn more about the advanced routines used by social people to play with people. Advanced tricks for social people to play with people 1

The so-called "society", in fact, according to Marx's definition, is the sum of the relationships between people, and the so-called "social people", objectively speaking, are those who can play with each other. A person who occupies a certain high position and control in a complex relationship. Therefore, being a social person is not necessarily a derogatory term. While we despise all kinds of social people, we always hope that we or someone around us can be a social person. This is why people generally have the "worship of bad guys".

In other words, as for the "successful" people currently defined by society, all I have seen are proper social people. If you observe carefully, which so-called successful person doesn’t look like a liar? Is it difficult to do business? When you really get in touch with them, you will find that they are very good at "squeezing out", crowding out interpersonal relationships and cash flow.

This is actually a very complex issue, but I want to simplify it. Let me just talk about one point of how to "play with people", that is "crowding". Let’s just treat it as a casual chat today.

I have been very busy with moving recently, and my old waist is not working anymore. I will have to go downstairs for a jog in the future. Just take this notebook and write something casually today.

Don’t worry, let’s start with the beginning.

I am going through a big transition period here recently. In the current embarrassing situation, I have done a lot of things that may seem unreasonable to ordinary people, but they have no choice but to do it; after all, what needs to be done will have to be done sooner or later. manage. I have basically turned down recent business projects and introduced them to friend companies as much as possible. After all, things will never be settled one day, so just deal with them one by one.

In the future, I plan to rent out the place where I lived before. Once rented out, it will bring stable cash flow. I will try to collect cash as quickly as possible and put down a larger deposit to finance my new home; otherwise, the price difference will still be paid. I have to make up for it myself. If the cash flow is greater than or equal to the rent on my current new house, that's great. It's the so-called "good debt".

Now that the mobile Internet era has arrived, things like Huolala and Kuaigou are very easy to use, and they are much more reliable than the original brothers who moved. The Internet has wiped out the market and lowered profit margins; although ordinary people have benefited, it has suffered for brand owners in traditional industries. The Internet, in other words, actually exists by the neck of traditional industries.

However, it is best for Lalamove and others to see the driver’s own evaluation and status on the APP to avoid encountering an old man who has little strength.

Hey, this was the second time I met an old man who was so weak that I basically moved it myself. I really have back pain right now.

A few days ago, by chance, I chatted with a brother who I had started a business with before. It happened that a startup company where my wife worked before had an opening, so I introduced him to him; they had a good chat, I hope I hope he can get hired smoothly. During this period, I also chatted with some friends from other startup companies. Hey, it’s really hard to make money in the past two years.

I find that many people fall into the trap of urban life. Especially the older you get, the deeper you fall. Onlookers may think these are very simple problems, but only those who are in the game will feel hesitant and confused. Some people's problems lie in family and marriage, some people's problems lie in business, some people are trapped in debt; and so on. Even if he told others about such things, they would definitely not feel the same way because he himself was not a player in the situation.

Many people, many times, even if they deceive you, hurt you, or dazzle you at first, but they help you a little bit when you are in trouble, you have to thank them. he.

Sometimes, your original intention is to disgust others, but from the perspective of others, it may be that you helped them. Not only do they not feel disgusted, but they also have to thank you.

There are many such examples, and each of us is in various situations.

Okay, enough nonsense, let’s talk about the issue of “crowding”.

Whether it is business or the workplace, whether it is love, family, or friendship, it is ultimately a game between people. People with simple and strong personalities are often the losers in the game. People who are really good at this kind of game often have a characteristic, which is to "squeeze" out a little bit. Anyone who can "crowd" is a master of controlling interpersonal relationships; social people are also.

What is "crowding"?

Let me give you a few examples.

For example, if someone asks you to borrow money, you will give it to them as soon as they ask for it; experts will give you little by little, and squeeze you a little when you are in the most difficult time, then you have to thank you indefinitely. he.

For example, if you ask others to help, it will be easy for them; if the masters are embarrassed, they will go back and forth to help you, and then you will have to surrender to them indefinitely. .

For example, if you want to reveal information about your competitors, a fool will do it all in one go; the matter will be over after it is over. The masters squeeze out the ingredients bit by bit, making their opponents sick for the rest of their lives. Snowden from the Prism Gate is just stupid.

For example, if a supplier asks for money from you, a neutral person will give it to you in one fell swoop; but even if a master has money, he has to squeeze it out little by little. In the end, he will still have to pay for it. Thank you for sending you gifts during the holidays.

For another example, if you have promised something to others, ordinary people will either break the promise or fulfill the promise. No matter what, they will not thank you, because the matter is over. You should, who made you agree? But the masters squeeze you in little by little, making it very difficult to perform. Not only can you not say that others have not fulfilled their obligations, but you also have to thank them every time you get benefits.

This is the essence of controlling people, and it applies to everything from economics to personal relationships to business relationships.

Anyone who can master this trick will not do badly.

But people generally judge such people to be liars, old fools, even scum, hooligans, etc. That's because these people don't have anything to do with them. When these people become the ones in the game, they have no choice but to kneel down and thank them.

Therefore, this is also why you should only speak a few words when meeting people, but never give up your whole heart. Because you speak too much to the point of ten, you will definitely make mistakes easily. What does it mean to talk too much? Three types:

1. Don’t persuade others easily. If you always give people advice, sooner or later you will have problems.

2. Don’t listen to other people’s secrets if you can. If you can't tell others your secrets, don't tell them.

3. No matter how deep the friendship is, you can’t speak too deeply. If you speak too deeply, sooner or later the words will come back to you like a double-edged sword.

Therefore, the so-called "squeezing" I am talking about is "skill". To put it bluntly, I leave it to you to do it.

Many people who stand and talk without back pain call this trick "cheating", "hiding deeply" and "having a stronghold". In fact, saying this is the same as not saying it, because you don’t know how to do it, how to control yourself to become such a person.

And let me tell you, as long as you "squeeze" here, you will be very social and you can control the relationship between people.

"Squeeze" is not only for For interests, but also for all friendships.

What everyone means by "cheating" actually means the same thing, but they don't clearly explain how to do it.

In fact, the biggest scam in the world is nothing more than this, and many people have been deceived. People who are deceived often live in poverty all their lives, but they still believe it as the truth.

The biggest scam is "Be honest, don't lie".

Every parent and teacher has said this, and the purpose of saying this is equivalent to raising you to be poor. But don’t blame them, because they are victims too. If you are honest, not only will you not be able to make a lot of money, you will not even be able to find a wife and husband. Of all the people who have made a lot of money, there is no one who doesn’t lie. That's the truth.

The so-called lying here has many meanings, but I tell you the most advanced skill is "squeezing".

Let me give a few more examples to make this "squeezing" an easy-to-use concept.

1. When you are rich, try to pretend you have no money and squeeze out little by little. For example, to pay off a credit card, try to change it to the lowest price, when someone asks for a debt, try to default on it, etc.

2. When you have something to say, try to hold it in for a while and slowly squeeze it out. Don’t say it all at once. Eventually everyone will listen to you and your words will start to have weight. You can try .

3. When someone asks you for help, don’t give it all at once. Try to give it to him little by little. He will thank you for a long time and surrender to you. It has miraculous effects.

4. When you help others, find reasons not to accept the other person’s one-time thank you. Let them give you little by little and repay you in the future.

5. When someone asks you to promise something, try to promise part of it and fulfill the promise bit by bit. The excess will be considered as extra.

6. When you have unlimited talent, try not to expose yourself too much, squeeze it out little by little, and reveal specific talents at specific times.

7. When you want to win over someone, don’t give too much at once, try to squeeze the benefits into him little by little.

So and so, and so on and so on.

When you know how to "squeeze", you will be surprised to find that the people around you are willing to be with you, willing to rely on you, and willing to believe in you. If you squeeze, you will be in control. In life, your margins of control expand. And isn’t the so-called happiness just control of life? If you think about it carefully, if the economy controls a certain person, a certain group, a certain enterprise, or a certain country, isn't it just a matter of squeezing them out little by little? Aren’t the current so-called business negotiations, national bidding and procurement, and even the trade war between China and the United States just squeezing each other? If you think about it carefully, controlling a certain direction of public opinion means pushing it out little by little, right?

Isn’t this just public relations communication?

To give an inappropriate example:

No matter how much money Wang Feng spends on his wedding, there will always be a star who wants to jump off the building the next day. The children were crowded.

But if he slowly squeezes out the "marriage" thing: 200 flash marriages, each time naked, and once a week. Then I believe the headlines will always be his. But naked marriage is free of charge.

Let’s give an example of “counter-squeezing”:

If you want to get acquainted with someone who is better than you but has no interaction with him, don’t be friendly as soon as he comes up. In the eyes of the other party, he is an inferior idiot. You can ask him to do you a small favor that "you don't need" to make you feel indebted to him, and deliberately let him "squeeze a little" for you. After that, you just need to keep "squeezing" it to him, and he will happily accept it. You can start a long-term mutual foundation. Advanced routines for social people to play with others 2

Social people, what you need are routines

The urban routines are deep, I want to go back to the countryside, this network is used to tease all kinds of unexpected things Unexpected scenes and phenomena. What we are discussing today is not this routine, but the steps and processes for doing things.

1. If you are new to work in a Haidilao hotpot restaurant, you will definitely take some steps to serve customers. From the moment the customer first comes to the store and waits until the last time they pay and go out, you are actually being served by these steps.

When you are new to a warehouse as an administrator, you have to learn the daily work process, the method of organizing the warehouse, the process of putting in and out of the warehouse, and the manual for each job, etc.

These are routines, manuals, rules, or operating procedures developed by a company or an organization for employee members, all to ensure the correctness and efficiency of doing things, and to reduce the probability of errors and ineffective work.

These are the process routines that everyone uses and can be standardized. So if some work is not so standardized and there are no unified steps for doing things, this is the time When reflecting the differences in what everyone does, some personnel have formed their own set of effective steps and processes, which will inevitably make them comfortable and comfortable in society and the workplace.

2. The leader will give you the task of receiving visitors from the cooperative unit. If it is your first time, you will be at a loss as to how to contact the other party, how to determine the specific date, how to arrange the itinerary, and how to arrange meals. , food, accommodation and transportation, how to deal with possible changes in dates and personnel, these may seem very complicated to you.

Then by consulting others and communicating with many parties many times, there were repetitions, confusions, grievances, and lessons learned. Finally, you stumbled and completed the work, and you hoped in your heart that you would not take on such a task again in the future.

In fact, every job is not easy. Having done it is experience. What you need is not to be grateful that it is finally completed, nor to expect that the future work will be easy. What you need is to summarize the work and sort out something like The general process of reception work. Maybe the boss thinks that what you are doing is okay and will give it to you next time. Then you can follow the summarized process and do things confidently. Then next time there will be some different situations and some new problems will arise. You can put these into consideration. Summarize new experiences into your process and it becomes your routine.

Having done it is experience, but experience will not jump out automatically, and I will not form it quickly. You need to sum up the routine to be more effective.

In the same position, some people have experience in one year, while others are no better than newcomers in three years. The difference lies in whether they have their own routines.

Develop your own routine for a certain job, and then become an expert and master in this job. As you do more and more work, develop more and more routines, and become a master in more and more fields, then you will be the leader of the unit.

3. The formation of personal routines is a summary of similar work practices many times, and a unique framework for doing such things is drawn out.

Personal routines must also be constantly updated and optimized. During and after each use, you must continue to patch, add, and correct your own framework, so that you can make your own routines better. More complete and effective.

After many times of practice and improvement, this personal framework routine can basically adapt to subsequent similar work. Once you do this kind of thing again, do it according to your own routine, follow the rules, take your time, be efficient and achieve results.

In society or the workplace, as you gain more experience, you will have more and more routines, more and more ways to solve problems, and your ability to do things will become stronger and stronger.

The so-called experience and the so-called masters are just routines. 3 Advanced tricks for people in society to play tricks on others

Inspirational quotes for people in society to play tricks on others

1. Close your eyes and tell yourself quietly. We cannot control what others think; we cannot force others to do what they do. The only thing you can do is to do your own thing with all your heart, follow your own path, live a good life according to your own principles. Even if someone treats you badly, time will not treat you badly, and life will never treat you badly.

2. They are all talented people, both decisive and independent. They are all capable of leaving. They leave when they feel aggrieved, and they leave when their humanity is suppressed... Happiness is the most important thing, and I won’t leave you here. You have a place to stay, and I believe you can meet happy people and things...

3. No one likes to listen to your pain. Tell your friends, and your friends will not feel comfortable. , tell the enemy, the enemy will be happier.

4. You don’t need to tell your story to everyone, because few of you really understand it; most people will stand in their own position and peek at your jokes. All you can do is hide the secret; and then become stronger and stronger step by step.

5. You will never see me when I am the loneliest, because I am the loneliest only when you are not by my side.

6. Perhaps the biggest difference between us is that I have to put down the chopsticks in my hands, my hands in the bath, and the games in progress.

7. As long as I feel at ease, I can go east, west, north, south. good. If someone has not been saved, do not run away on your own.

8. The people you trust the least in the end are the people you trust the most at first.

9. Human nature is very ugly, and the devil’s perverted psychology has a hypocritical smile on his face. ——Who would mind if pretending can please people.

10. The world is too chaotic, the society is complex, people’s hearts are fickle, and human nature is false, so as a human being, you have to be the meanest.