◇Believe that you are an eagle

A man caught a young eagle in an eagle's nest on the top of a mountain. He took the young eagle home and raised it in the eagle's nest. In the chicken coop. The young eagle pecking, playing and resting with the chickens. It thinks it is a chicken. The eagle gradually grew up and its wings became full. The owner wanted to train it into a falcon, but because it hung around with chickens all day long, it became exactly like a chicken and had no desire to fly at all. The owner tried various methods, but to no avail. Finally, he took it to the top of the mountain and threw it away. The eagle fell straight down like a stone. In panic, it flapped its wings desperately, and just like that, it finally flew!

Secret 1: Hone the power to summon success.

◇Five gold coins

There was a man named Abag living on the grasslands of Inner Mongolia. Once, young Abag and his father lost their way on the grassland. Abag was tired and scared, and in the end he could hardly walk. Dad took out 5 coins from his pocket, buried one coin in the grass, put the other 4 coins in Abag's hand, and said: "There are 5 gold coins in life, childhood, youth, youth, middle age." , old age each has one. You have just used one now, the one buried in the grass. You can't throw all 5 of them in the grass. You have to use them little by little, and make a difference every time. Only in this way can our life be lived in vain. Today we must step out of the grassland, and you must step out of the grassland in the future. The world is a big place, and when you are alive, you should go to more places and see more, and don't throw away your gold coins if they are useless. "With the encouragement of his father, Abag walked out of the grassland that day. When he grew up, Abag left his hometown and became an excellent captain.

Secret 2: Cherish life and you can get out of the swamp of frustration.

◇Sweep the Sunshine

There are two brothers, no more than four or five years old. Since the bedroom windows are closed all day long, they think the room is too dark and they see the bright scenery outside. Sunshine, I feel very envious. The two brothers discussed, "We can sweep in a little sunshine from the outside together." So, the two brothers took a broom and dustpan to the balcony to sweep up the sunshine. By the time they moved the dustpan into the room, there was no sunlight inside. I scanned it again and again many times, but there was still no sunlight at all in the house. The mother who was busy in the kitchen saw their strange behavior and asked: "What are you doing?" They replied: "The room is too dark, we need to bring in some sunlight." The mother smiled: "Just open the window and let the sunlight in." It will come in naturally, why bother to sweep it? ”

Secret 3: Open the closed door of your heart, and the sunshine of success can dispel the darkness of failure.

◇A spider and three people

After the rain, a spider struggled to crawl toward the broken web on the wall. Because the wall was damp, it climbed to a certain height. It will fall off, it climbs up again and again, and falls again and again... The first person saw it, he sighed and said to himself: "Isn't my life just like this spider? Isn't it busy? Busy and unproductive." As a result, he became increasingly depressed. The second person saw it and said: This spider is really stupid. Why not climb up from a dry place next to it? I can't be as stupid as it is in the future. So he became smarter. The third person saw it, and he was immediately moved by the spider's spirit of fighting against defeat. So he became strong.

Secret 4: People with a successful mentality can find the power of success everywhere.

◇Save yourself

Someone was hiding from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by holding an umbrella. The man said: "Guanyin Bodhisattva, please save all sentient beings. How about taking me with you?" Guanyin said: "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves, you don't need me to save you." The man immediately jumped out. Standing under the eaves in the rain: "Now I am also in the rain, is it time to save me?" Guanyin said: "You are in the rain, and I am also in the rain. I am not getting wet because I have an umbrella; you are getting wet because No umbrella. So it’s not me who saves myself, but the umbrella who saves me. If you want to save me, please go find an umbrella yourself!” The next day, the man encountered difficulties and went to the temple to pray for Guanyin. When I walked into the temple, I found that there was also a man worshiping in front of the statue of Guanyin. That man looked exactly like Guanyin, no difference at all. The man asked: "Are you Guanyin?" The man replied: "I am Guanyin." The man asked again: "Then why do you still worship yourself?" Guanyin smiled and said: "I also encountered difficulties, but I You know, it’s better to seek help from others than from yourself.”

Secret 5: Successful people save themselves.

◇Making loss lovely

An old man accidentally dropped one of the new shoes he just bought from the window on a high-speed train. The people around him felt very sorry. , Unexpectedly, the old man immediately threw the second shoe out of the window. This move was even more surprising. The old man explained: "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it is of no use to me. If anyone can pick up a pair of shoes, maybe he can still wear them!"

Secret 6: Successful people are good at giving up and seeing value in losses.

◇Please don’t open the wrong window

A little girl was lying on the window sill, watching the people outside the window burying her beloved puppy. She couldn’t help but burst into tears and was filled with grief. Seeing this, her grandfather quickly led her to another window and let her admire his rose garden. Sure enough, the little girl's mood suddenly brightened.

The old man held up his granddaughter's chin and said, "My child, you opened the wrong window."

Tip 7: Open the window next to failure, and maybe you will see hope.

◇The secret of life

Thirty years ago, a young man left his hometown and began to create his own future. His first stop was to visit the clan leader and ask for advice. The old clan leader was practicing calligraphy. He heard that a descendant of his clan had begun to embark on the journey of life, so he wrote three words: Don't be afraid. Then he raised his head, looked at the young man and said: "My child, the secret of life is only 6 words. Today I will tell you 3 for you to use for half your life." 30 years later, this former young man has reached middle age. , there have been some achievements, but also a lot of sadness. The journey back was long, and when he reached his hometown, he went to visit the patriarch again. When he arrived at the patriarch's house, he found out that the old man had passed away a few years ago. The family took out a sealed envelope and said to him: "This is what the patriarch left for you before he died. He said that you will come back one day." The wanderer who returned home then thought Get up, he heard half of the secret of life here 30 years ago, opened the envelope, and there were three big words inside: Don't regret.

Secret 8: Don’t be afraid before middle age, and don’t regret it after middle age.

◇Driver Exam

A large company is preparing to hire a car driver with a high salary. After layers of screening and examinations, only three competitors with the best skills are left. The examiner asked them: "There is a piece of gold on the edge of the cliff. If you drive your car to get it, how close do you think you can get to the cliff without falling?" "Two meters." said the first person. "Half a meter." The second person said confidently. "I'll try to stay as far away from the cliff as possible," said a third. As a result, the company admitted the third person.

Tip 9: Don’t fight temptation, but stay as far away as possible.

◇Tutoring of Lions and Antelopes

Every day, when the sun rises, the animals on the African savannah start to run. The mother lion is educating her child: "Child, you must run a little faster, a little faster. If you can't outrun the slowest antelope, you will starve to death." On another venue, the mother antelope also Teaching his children: "Child, you must run a little faster, a little faster. If you can't run faster than the fastest lion, then you will definitely be eaten by them."

Tip 10: Remember that if you run fast, others will run faster.

Four classic inspirational life philosophy stories that will make you never regret it

1. Misunderstanding:

In the early years of Alaska, a couple of young people got married. , gave birth after marriage, his wife died due to dystocia, leaving behind a child.

He was busy with life and busy with housekeeping. Since no one helped to look after the children, he trained a dog.

One day, the owner went out and asked it to take care of the children.

He went to another village and was unable to come back that day due to heavy snowfall. I rushed home the next day, and the dog immediately heard the sound and came out to greet its owner. He opened the door and saw blood everywhere. When he looked up, there was blood on the bed. The child was missing. The dog was next to him and his mouth was full of blood. When the owner found this situation, he thought the dog had a seizure and ate the child. He was furious. Then, he picked up the knife and struck the dog on the head, killing the dog.

After that, I suddenly heard the child's voice and saw him crawling out from under the bed, so he picked up the child. Although there was blood on his body, he was not injured.

He was very strange and didn’t know what was going on. He looked at the dog’s body again and saw that the meat on the legs was gone. There was a wolf next to him with the dog’s meat in his mouth. The dog saved the little boy. Master, but was accidentally killed by his master. This is really the most amazing misunderstanding in the world.

Note: Misunderstandings often occur when people do not understand, are irrational, impatient, lack thinking, fail to consider each other, reflect on themselves, and are extremely emotional.

From the beginning of the misunderstanding, one always thinks only of the other party’s numerous mistakes; therefore, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, reaching the point of being out of control. If a person misunderstands an ignorant animal puppy, it is even worse. There will be such terrible and serious consequences, and the consequences of such misunderstandings between people are even more unimaginable.

2. Nails:

There was a boy who had a very bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails; and told him that whenever he loses his temper, Just hammer a nail into the backyard fence.

On the first day, the boy hammered 37 nails. Slowly the number of nails per day decreased.

He found it easier to control his temper than to drive those nails.

Finally one day the boy no longer lost his patience and lost his temper. He told his father about this, and his father told him that from now on, whenever he can control his temper, he will Pull out a nail.

Day after day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.

The father held his hand and came to the backyard and said: You did a good job, my good boy. But look at the holes in those fences. These fences will never be the same again. The words you say when you are angry will leave scars like these nails.

If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will always be there. The pain of words is as overwhelming as the pain of reality.

Note: People often cause permanent harm because of some persistence that they cannot let go of. If we can all start from ourselves and start looking at others with tolerance, I believe you (you) will definitely receive many unexpected results... Helping others open a window means allowing yourself to see a more complete sky. ....

3. Wait a minute

Most of the colleagues are very excited because a new supervisor has been transferred to the unit. It is said that he is a capable person and was specially sent to rectify the problem. But day by day, the new supervisor has done nothing. He enters the office politely every day, then hides in and seldom goes out. Those bad elements who were originally nervous to death are now even more rampant.

"What a capable person he is! He is basically a good guy, easier to bluff than the previous supervisor!"

Four months have passed, just when I am really trying to feel disappointed with the new supervisor , but the new supervisor showed his power-the bad guys were all fired, while the capable ones were promoted. He is quick to strike and decisive, and he seems to be a completely different person from April, who behaves conservatively.

At the year-end dinner, the new supervisor spoke after three rounds of drinks: "I believe everyone must be puzzled by my performance during my new tenure and my subsequent drastic actions. Now listen to me tell a story. Everyone will understand: "I have a friend who bought a house with a courtyard. As soon as he moved in, he completely renovated the yard, cleared away all the weeds and trees, and planted new flowers that he bought. One day, the original When the owner of the house came to visit, he was shocked and asked: "Where are the most precious peonies?" My friend discovered that he had shoveled the peonies as grass.

He later bought them again. He built a house, and although the yard was even more messy, he stood still. Sure enough, the plants that he thought were miscellaneous trees in the winter bloomed with flowers in the spring; the plants that he thought were weeds in the spring turned into brocades in the summer; The trees actually turned red in autumn. It wasn’t until late autumn that they really recognized the useless plants and vigorously eradicated them, thus preserving all the precious vegetation.” At this point, the supervisor raised his glass and said, “Let me pay tribute. Everyone here, because if this office was a garden, you would all be the precious trees in it. The precious trees cannot bear fruit all year round, and they can only be recognized after long-term observation.

4. Tolerance! :

This is the story of a soldier who just returned from the Vietnam War. He called his parents from San Francisco and told them: "Mom and Dad, I'm back, but I have an unwelcome favor. I'd like to bring a friend home with me." "Of course!" they replied, "We'd be happy to meet him."

But the son continued, "But there's something I want to do first. Let me tell you, he was seriously injured in the Vietnam War and lost an arm and a foot. He is now desperate and I want to ask him to come back and live with us."

"Son, I am so sorry. But maybe we can help him find a place to live." The father continued, "Son, you don't know what you are talking about. People with disabilities like him will put a great burden on our lives. We still have ourselves. You have to live your life, and you can't let him ruin it like this. I suggest you go home and forget about him. He will find his own sky."

At this time? l hung up the phone and his parents never heard from him again.

A few days later, the parents received a call from the San Francisco Police Department, telling them that their beloved son had fallen and died. Police believe this is a simple suicide. So they heartbrokenly flew to San Francisco, where they were led to a stop by the police? time to identify his son's body. That was indeed their son, but what was surprising was that his son only had one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are just like most of us. It's easy to like people who are good-looking or funny, but it's so hard to like people who cause us inconvenience and discomfort. We would always rather keep our distance from those who are not as healthy, beautiful or smart as us.

But thank God, some people will not be so cruel to us. They love us without regrets and are always willing to accept us no matter how bad we are. Please pray to God before you go to sleep tonight? Give you the strength to accept others no matter who they are; please? Help us understand those who are different from us. There is a magical thing called "friendship" hidden in everyone's heart. You don't know how and when it happens, but you know that it will always bring us special gifts.

You will also understand that friendship is the most precious gift from God to us! Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed. They listen to our hearts and share every compliment with us. Their hearts are always open for us. Tell your friends now how much you care about them.

Just imagine: Friends, you must have deep feelings after reading this all the way. So, before making decisions and judgments about others, first of all, please think about whether this is a "misunderstanding", and then, please consider whether you must drive this "nail". If you can, please "wait a little while." Because when you are "forgiving" to others, you are being "forgiving" to yourself.