Don't choose not to give.
A kind heart is the sun. Hugo
2. A kind heart is worth gold. -Shakespeare
People are good, but all virtues are not enough. -Yang Wanli
I think the virtue of benefiting people is kindness. bacon
5. A kind heart is gold. -Shakespeare
6. hoe one evil and plant ten good. -"History of Song Dynasty". Bi zhuan
7. The most wonderful music of the mind is kindness! . -romain rolland
8. People are kind, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away. Ceng Zi
9. Good behavior ennobles one's soul. -Rousseau
10. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good! -Liu Bei
1 1. Be a kind person and seek happiness for mankind. Gorky
12. Goodness is not a kind of learning, but an act. -romain rolland
13. People who do good deeds should feel happy. -romain rolland
14. Charity can alleviate the pain of others more than money. -Rousseau
15. It is unsafe and unwise to do things according to conscience. -Martin Luther
16. What is money compared with a pure conscience? -Hardy
17. Simplicity can touch my heart more than clever words. -Shakespeare
18. The kinder people are, the less they will realize the ulterior motives of others. -Miles
19. Come out, my heart, and greet it with your love. Tagore
20. A person is either a good person or imitates a good person. -democritus
2 1. Without simplicity, kindness and truth, there is no greatness. -lev tolstoy
22. People who always think about how to do good things have no time to do good things. Tagore
23. If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. -Buerwo Yishun
24. When a person's words and deeds are different, it is completely bad and will lead to hypocrisy. -Lenin
25. It is better to respect yourself than to do good for the sake of loving others. Flaubert
26. Doing good things with good people will make things better, and doing good things with bad people will make things worse. -romain rolland
27. The difference between good and evil lies in the behavior itself, not in the existence of status. -Shakespeare
28. Of all the moral qualities, a kind nature is what is most needed in the world. Bertrand Russell
29. Human nature is also a mixture of good and evil. Cultivate those who are good as good people and those who are evil as evil people. Yang Xiong
30. The source of goodness lies in the heart. If you dig it, it will come out. -Aurelius
3 1. The touching warmth of human kindness can heal physical and mental wounds. Rozov
I love you because you have a kind heart, not because of your knowledge. Davis
33. If you put black and white, good and evil in one place, you can see each other clearly by comparison. -Chaucer
34. Good people will eventually realize that there is a right way, even if they are lost in the pursuit. -"Faust"
35. If you praise beauty, even if you are in the middle of the desert, there will be an audience. -Haji Bolen
36. Kindness is a rare pearl in history, and kind people are almost superior to great people. Hugo
37. Talented people are always kind, frank and straightforward, and never reserved. -Balzac
38. Truly talented people are always kind, frank and straightforward, and never reserved. -Balzac
39. I want to prove that any kind and noble person will suffer from it. -Beethoven
40. Kind, loyal and loving people keep bringing happiness to the world. -Mark Twain
4 1. But only good character can never be too much for God or man. bacon
42. Kindness and ethics are like precious stones to metals. They complement each other and add luster. -Bernard Shaw
43. Doing good to a good person will make him better; Be kind to the wicked, and he will get worse. Michelangelo
44. Melancholy belongs to goodness; People without melancholy may be extraordinary, but they are not kind after all. -Liu
Wherever a noble person goes, there is always a strong defender around him-that is, conscience. Scott
46. The more beautiful things in life, the greater the interest in life itself. The two are in harmony and complement each other. -lev tolstoy
47. For me, the meaning of life lies in putting yourself in others' shoes, worrying about others and enjoying their happiness. -Einstein
48. Fierce humans are fiercer than the fiercest animals. Kind people in human beings are kinder than the kindest animals. -Zheng
49. The purpose of the desire for knowledge is truth; The purpose of moral desire is goodness; The purpose of the desire for beauty is beauty, truth, goodness and beauty, that is, human ideals. -Haruhiko Kuroda
50. One advantage of good behavior is that it ennobles the human soul and enables it to behave better. -Rousseau
5 1. Many good deeds may be out of severity and more out of love, but most of them are out of sober understanding and impartial justice. -Goethe
52. Kindness-the innate kindness of human beings has aroused an indestructible hope that a bright and humane life will eventually come to Su Sheng. Gorky
53. The beauty without virtue is fleeting; But because there is a beautiful soul in your beauty, your beauty will last forever. -Shakespeare
54. The root and root of goodness lies in construction, creation and the establishment of life and beauty. Good character and beauty are inextricably linked. -Suhomlinski
55. Compassion is not out of reluctance, it falls from the sky like dew; It not only gives happiness to those who accept it, but also gives happiness to those who give it. -Shakespeare
Only reason can teach us to distinguish good from evil, and make us like the good and hate the bad. Although conscience does not depend on reason, it cannot develop without reason. -Rousseau
57. Truth, goodness and beauty are very similar qualities. On the basis of the above two qualities, some rare and excellent situations are really beautiful, and kindness is also beautiful. -Diderot
Man, you should have a kind heart, a rich heart and a noble soul, so that you can be worthy of the title of master, and you can live in the world as a real person. -Zhou
59. If "goodness" has a reason, it is no longer good. If "goodness" has a result, it can't be called "goodness", and "goodness" is something that transcends causality. -Leo Toto
60. For a kind person, the idea of having to pay the price is an insult in itself. Virtue is not an ornament, but the embodiment of a beautiful mind. -Gide
6 1. Conscience is the sentry of each of us. There is a responsibility to supervise us not to do anything illegal. It's a spy embedded in an egocentric fortress. Maugham
62. Evil compresses itself every time it "defeats" kindness, because it declares its ugliness. Every time goodness is defeated by evil, it is because it has publicized its own light and once. -Wang Meng
63. Generally, good people always like to think well of people, always think better of people than they are, and always exaggerate their benefits. For such people, the disillusionment of the future is very sad, especially when they feel responsible. -Dostoevsky
Give a few examples! ! !
What is a white lie?
White lies are beautiful. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, which has magical power.
Lies out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from their hearts and make sure that there is love, trust and emotion in the world.
White lies can make people find more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow humanity with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive.
A lie from parents makes a child's face bloom like a flower; The teacher's lies make the wandering students no longer confused and grow better; The doctor's lies make the fearful patients move from destruction to rebirth ... White lies will not defile civilization, let alone distort human nature.
White lies have magical power, and encourage you to keep working hard again and again, and never give up for your dreams. Because the future road is completely illuminated by happy mood, life becomes better.
This kind of lie is not cheating, nor does it have ulterior motives. This kind of lie is understanding, respect, tolerance, magic and free from impurities.
Although lying has some disadvantages, talking is better than nothing. A lie from parents makes a child's face bloom like a flower; The teacher's lies make the wandering students no longer confused and grow better; The doctor's lies make the fearful patient move from destruction to rebirth. ...
About white lies:
1. Who can say that a white lie is cheating? Can you say that the disabled youth in Don't starve that horse lied that there was a horse at home in order to let me continue my studies?
2. Do you still want to accuse a kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest" when a poor mother leaves her only food to her children and hides the fact that she is still hungry? In fact, we can see the shadow of white lies everywhere in our lives, from the comfort with tears before our sickbed to the politeness when we politely refuse, from the dried-up sea of love to the beautiful exaggeration written by poets, but they are not so terrible that the other debater turns pale when he talks about "lies".
3. The other side's argument points out that when a person is faced with two kinds of obligations, when they are contradictory, the other side's obligations should be released. But the positive argument does not discuss that white lies and honesty are contradictory. How can we directly conclude that a white lie will definitely reduce the obligation of good faith? Please pay attention to each other's defensive friends. We have made it clear that lies should have the function of cheating, and only malicious lies are cheating. Please don't narrow down the extension of the concept of "lies".
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White lies and honesty are different categories of ethics, and there will be no contradiction, just as cars will not hit planes. Honesty: faith. In China culture, "faithfulness" and "righteousness" constitute "faithfulness", which is a humanistic spirit and a criterion for being a man. "Faith" and "sincerity" are interlinked, forming the moral standard of "sincerity", which is a product from Poland. Modern western legal sages put forward the concept of "contract society", and all kinds of relationships between people are contract relationships. In such a society, honesty is the bottom line of social morality. After the establishment of market economy in China, honesty has become the most important criterion for establishing a standardized and orderly market. Therefore, "honesty" in the modern sense is the moral principle of market operation.
White lies and all kinds of white lies are aimed at protecting each other's feelings and maintaining each other's mental health and pleasure, which is a humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, the world will be full of love and sunshine, children will grow up healthily, the elderly will enjoy their old age and patients will be full of hope.
Therefore, these are moral principles in two different fields, which will not conflict and contradict each other, and white lies will not hinder honesty. A white lie is not a "lie" (a malicious lie), just as a whale in the sea is not a fish and a mouse is not a mouse.
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People always habitually give lies derogatory meanings. This is because of the credibility crisis in today's society. In fact, lies are neutral. Even if the morality of honesty is put forward in today's society, it is not required to tell the truth in all situations and it is not allowed to lie. A white lie is not a "lie" (a malicious lie). It is not contradictory to honesty, but has its own space. If you don't like the word "lie", we can mind that linguists create new words, such as "empty talk" and "gentle words" to express white lies.
White lies put aside ugliness and come to a beautiful world!
White lies abandon selfishness and come to an honest world!
Please give your opponent an example. Who was hurt by a white lie? Lead to the loss of integrity?
6. White lies are beautiful. This kind of lie is either cheating or ulterior motives. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and without any impurities, they have magical power. A white lie is a lie out of good wishes, the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart, and also makes people firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world! ! ! White lies can make people find more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow human beings with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive. A white lie can save a terminally ill patient and give others a glimmer of hope.
7. White lies are out of goodwill, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in particularity and different from universality. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not a bad benefit, but is based on sincerity and kindness in the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, which only regards others as a means and does not hesitate to hurt others, with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to rhetoric, how to rack their brains to crown their malicious lies with malicious purposes. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.
Second: White lies are a way of life and a reflection of considerate quality.
Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you? ! On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell about his troop deployment. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!
The director of the judicial expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for honesty, the key is what kind of lies to use. "
8. I object to positive views. It is right to tell the truth, but many times we need white lies more. Although it is a lie, it has given others life-long help and protection. For example, a patient was found to be terminally ill. If the doctor tells the truth, the patient will be heartbroken and lose confidence. But if the truth is concealed, the patient can follow the doctor's instructions and treat the disease with peace of mind, thus prolonging the patient's life. Isn't that the advantage of white lies? Therefore, I think we need white lies in our life.
9. White lies are a kind of lies, but if you can't lie, it will definitely hinder honesty, and you should analyze specific problems.
Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, they exist because telling the truth hinders the principle of good faith.
White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!
Lies are called lies because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. Even if the person who hears a white lie knows that it is a lie, he will try to believe it, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes he will be grateful from the heart.
There is an example. In the last century, an American transport plane was caught in a sandstorm in the desert, and nine passengers and a driver made a desperate landing. The instinct of survival makes them fight for limited dry food and water. In an emergency, a passenger on a temporary flight stood up and said, "Don't panic, I'm an airplane designer. As long as everyone Qi Xin works together to listen to my command, the plane can be repaired. " It's like a shot in the arm, which has stabilized everyone's mood. They consciously save water and dry food. Everything is in good order, and everyone is United to fight against the difficulties of sandstorms. Ten days later, the plane was not repaired; However, a caravan passing through the desert saved them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all, but a primary school teacher who knew nothing about airplanes.
White lies are based on good motives and take safeguarding the interests of others as their purpose and starting point. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. Therefore, we believe that white lies are beneficial.
The mother of a soldier on a mission in the field is terminally ill and dying. How much she wants to see her son for the last time. However, her son can't come back, and she can't be a little filial to her old mother. She is very sorry and misses her son. The old mother understood her son very well and told her relatives that she could not tell her distant son after she left.
The director of the forensic department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said, "Lying is an instinct of human beings. As for honesty, the key lies in what kind of lies it tells. " A lie that, despite its hospitality, can't express itself and doesn't want to disappoint the inviter is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It can make us more comfortable in dealing with the world, unlike a hard stone with many edges, which cuts off other people's heads and leaves us scarred.
Concealing the real situation for the purpose of benefiting others is a kind of goodwill concealment, which will make feelings more harmonious and society more harmonious. Therefore, well-intentioned concealment and malicious fraud are very different from motivation to result, and cannot be confused. When a poor mother leaves her only meal to her child and conceals the fact that the child is still starving, is it necessary for you to accuse a kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"? Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability.
A transport plane was forced to land in a sandstorm in the desert, but the plane was seriously damaged and could not resume taking off. Communication equipment was also destroyed and communication with the outside world was interrupted. Nine passengers and 1 driver were in despair. The instinct of survival makes them fight for limited dry food and water.
At a critical juncture, a passenger on an airplane stepped forward temporarily and said, "Don't panic, I'm an airplane designer. As long as Qi Xin listens to my command, we can repair the plane. " This is like a shot in the arm, which has stabilized everyone's mood. They consciously save water and dry food; Everything is in order. Let's unite to fight against sandstorms. Ten days have passed and the plane has not been repaired; However, a caravan passing through the desert rescued them. A few days later, it was discovered that the temporary passenger was not an airplane designer at all. He is a primary school teacher and knows nothing about airplanes. Someone called him a liar after knowing the truth and asked him angrily: "Everyone's life is almost gone, and you still have the heart to deceive us?" The primary school teacher said, "If I hadn't lied, would everyone still be alive now?" The above story tells us that white lies are the hope of life, an oasis in the desert, and sometimes they really change the trajectory of our lives.