Think about it carefully, it seems too general, a little grandiose and extravagant. Why so many things? But calm down and break your fingers to calculate, all the days and nights of your life are nothing more than pursuing this seemingly ordinary and simple life. Every minute an ordinary person lives, it is these many factors that make up my life network. Because of this, I feel that every day is full and painful. But I still run on the road of pursuit without hesitation, not afraid of hardship, fatigue and setbacks. I am doing what I can, doing what I like, doing what I can live up to my conscience, and doing what I won't regret. The word responsibility reminds me all the time. Confusion has become an element of my happiness. I have put down my understanding and tolerance of everything, and there will be no more pain and entanglement.
When chatting with colleagues, I will be very happy to see my daily gains. If you just look at what you have lost or what you have not gained, you will have negative emotions and mentality, be unhappy, complain and contradict. That person's mentality will be negative. Willing to give your own things to others, to put it bluntly, you will be willing to give your own things to others. In essence, when you give something to others, you will get a sense of satisfaction psychologically. This is the harvest. Only by giving up can you get something, and only by paying first can you get something. This is an unchanging truth since ancient times. You are willing to consider others and have a wide audience, but you are unwilling to consider yourself. The beneficiary is yourself. Therefore, in everything, we must be properly confused in order to enjoy the mystery and endless happiness.
A table of people drinking, full of leaders of all sizes, but only one ordinary person. What is the mood at this time? Confusion is the best interpretation. Everyone is in his place, not confused, tolerant and generous, optimistic about how happy life is. Confused, not bitter, forbear the future. There are hundreds of rivers and great tolerance; People are tolerant, and things are easy. Learn from each other's strengths, take its essence and discard its dross. While making continuous progress, we are also urging others to make progress. Regardless of leaving room for others, we can win more ways to develop and get along.
Now I have learned in a daze to be a great wisdom in dealing with life relations. It's hard to confuse, and there's a little story. This sentence is a famous saying left by Zheng Banqiao, one of the Eight Eccentrics in Yangzhou. One year, Zheng Banqiao went to Yunfeng Mountain in Laizhou to observe the Gong Zheng Monument. It is elegant to spend the night at the foot of an old Confucian who claims to be a confused old man. Among the old people, there is a big inkstone with exquisite stone and exquisite carving, which was greatly appreciated by Zheng Banqiao. The old man asked Zheng Banqiao to inscribe it so that someone could engrave it on the back of the inkstone. Zheng Banqiao couldn't understand the origin of the old man, so he wrote the word "muddleheaded" and stamped his seal "Kangxi Scholar Yongzheng Juren Qianlong Jinshi". There is still a lot of spare space in the inkstone. Zheng Banqiao also asked the old man to write a postscript, but the old man didn't refuse. After writing, a square seal was stamped, which read: "College entrance examination comes first, rural college entrance examination comes second, and palace examination comes third". When Zheng Banqiao saw Zhi Zhi, he was surprised. Knowing that Zhi Zhi was a handsome retired official, he immediately admired him. Seeing that there was still a gap in the inkstone, I began to write a paragraph.
If they meet bosom friends, they will become close friends. In a sense, being confused does not mean being a fool with low IQ, but a philosophy of life that people have summed up in their long-term political and social life. Under the pressure of feudal autocracy at that time, people's most basic right to subsistence was difficult to guarantee. It is not surprising that people will be killed if they irritate others with a small word. More than two thousand years ago, Zhao Gao's insidiousness was well known. One day, he put down a deer in public. Qin Ershi said that Zhao Gao was wrong. Zhao Gao didn't agree. Others know that this is a deer, and they also know that this is Zhao Gao testing his ministers. Some honest people said it was a deer, so they killed it. Although those ministers who refer to deer as horses are not glorious enough, it is not difficult to understand their helplessness. It can be seen that there was a magic weapon of confusion more than 2,000 years ago.
Being a man, deliberately showing weakness and playing dumb can give people a relaxed and embarrassing dilemma. Always remind yourself to be cautious with your sincerity, but don't sell yourself short. Be a man, be optimistic about life and be satisfied with it. The muddleheaded outlook on life is to be optimistic about life and content with the status quo. He can see everything, so he is indifferent and happy. If you want to have philosophy, you must have a normal heart, let everything go with the flow, regardless of right and wrong, and laugh at the flowers in front of the court. Life is less than 100 years old, so why worry about being chitose? Forget the unpleasant things in life, don't force anything, isn't it chic?
As the saying goes, "there is no fish in clear water", people who haggle too much will always lose more than they gain, and disappointment is greater than hope. Melancholy, jealousy and sarcasm will seriously interfere with their mood, so how can they be happy? . The idea of tolerance, magnanimity and confusion runs through the history of China for thousands of years, which seems to be a tolerant concept with the characteristics of national consciousness. It is not easy to be confused and open to the outside world. It sometimes seems to be a word often used in a quiet place of Buddhism. But in today's society, if people are happy and confused when they are pursuing, perhaps the happiness index will be higher. People often say that "no debt is light." In addition to the real debt, the debt here can also refer to excessive ideological burden and picky luxury desire. if
One night, a group of people, a table of dishes, a glass of wine, full of words, a cavity of enthusiasm, a lifetime of career, a lifetime of friendship, years of working together, unforgettable happy time to play together, a family and things with the same topic, a burst of entertainment laughter ... This is a fragment of our happiness, because I remember all the good things, for the sake of happy and hearty laughter. Confusion does not mean stupidity, but one of the factors that I have more happiness, which runs through the past, present and future, just like when cherry blossoms are in full bloom, I see beautiful flowers and fragrant flowers.