Argument

Only free people can be happy.

Wealth and status do not mean happiness.

Happiness is a feeling, and everyone has a different understanding.

Happy are those who realize the value of life.

The pursuit of happiness is an arduous process and cannot be accomplished overnight.

Sharing happiness with others will make you happier.

Those who have hope are closer to happiness.

People who are easily satisfied are more likely to be happy.

Only with love can there be happiness.

Happiness is all around you, you have to experience it with your heart.

Quotes

The happiest person is the person who can connect the end point and the starting point of his life. ——Goethe

Only a revolutionary, whether he lives or dies, can bring happiness to everyone. ——Lu Xun

As long as you have one reasonable thing to do, your life will be particularly beautiful. ——Einstein

Do you want to be a happy person? I hope you learn to bear hardships first. ——Turgenev

The joy of doing good is the only reliable happiness in life. ——Leo Tolstoy

If we cannot build a happy life, we have no right to enjoy happiness. ——Bernard Shaw

A person who has lofty ideals will feel happy even in the most difficult times. ——Xu Teli

For most people, they believe that they are as happy as they are happy. —— Lincoln

If one day I can contribute to the interests of our public, I will consider myself the happiest person in the world. —— Gogol

Personal pain and joy must be integrated into the pain and joy of the times. ——Ai Qing

No matter how difficult the struggle for happiness is, it is not a pain, but a joy, not a tragedy, but a drama. —— Chernyshevsky

The true perfection of a person does not lie in what he has, but in what he is. —— Oscar Wilde

You understand that a person’s life is neither as good nor as bad as people think. —— Maupassant

The purpose of all human efforts is to obtain happiness. ——Irving

The greatest possible happiness for each person is in the greatest happiness achieved by all people. —— Zola

Working for the happiness of mankind, what a magnificent cause, how great this purpose! ——Saint Simon

Only the happiness of the entire mankind is your happiness. ——Di Cigen

The happiness of serious people does not lie in frivolous companions such as romance, entertainment and laughter, but in perseverance and perseverance. —— Cicero

When you are happy, never lose the virtues that make you happy. —— Moroa

Typical argument

The happiness of a female CIO

——Happiness is satisfaction with life

“I In fact, he is a very blessed person.” When Chen Jing, director of the Information Technology Center (CIO) of China Galaxy Securities Co., Ltd., said this calmly, it was easy to think of a happy family woman. For her, the definition of happiness is a long-lasting satisfaction with life and a happy mood that feels great joy in life and naturally hopes to last for a long time.

For Chen Jing, the words "in full swing" couldn't be more appropriate than when she first started her business. More than 170 business departments under Galaxy Securities Company run 9 different systems, which results in system inconsistency and brings a lot of inconvenience to data exchange and information sharing. In order to eliminate these obstacles, the information department must Carry out the work of replacing the system. Under the direct leadership of Chen Jing, he organized 42 large-scale system tests for all employees, most of which were conducted on weekends. In other words, Chen Jing works overtime on more than 80 days off in a year.

But she felt completely happy and satisfied. This is her job, happiness that ordinary people cannot bear.

In addition to work, Chen Jing also continues to learn, and attaches great importance to cultivating teamwork spirit and paying attention to on-the-job education. She believes that doing a good job in on-the-job training is responsible for the individual careers of technicians. So I insisted on taking a certain amount of time to train department employees on business and management knowledge. Through continuous learning, Chen Jing opened the door to information technology. At the same time, her discovered management talents allowed her to play a significant role in each project. This is her learning, a kind of happiness that is constantly harvested.

Chen Jing has a happy family, a lively and lovely daughter, and a husband who tolerates and supports her. Her family gives her the happiness of being tolerated.

Live 45 More Years

——Happiness is more important than wealth

John D. Rockefeller earned his first million dollars at the age of 33 . At the age of 43, he established the largest monopoly the world has ever seen - the huge "Standard Oil Company". But what about him at 53? Worry had taken a toll on him. Worry and a high-stress life had destroyed his health, and he "looked like a mummy."

The doctors began to save Rockefeller's life, and they set three rules for him—these are the three rules that he followed throughout his life:

1. Avoid trouble. Never worry about anything under any circumstances.

2. Relax and do more appropriate exercise outdoors.

3. Pay attention to diet and maintain a semi-hungry state at all times.

Rockefeller followed these three rules and saved his life. He retired from his career. He learned golf, did yard work, and chatted with neighbors; he played cards and sang. But he was also doing other things. Winkler said: "During those painful days and sleepless nights, Rockefeller finally had time to reflect on himself." He began to think about others. He once stopped thinking about how much money he had, and began to think about what that money could do. How much human happiness is exchanged. He donated money to the church, donated money to the University of Chicago to become a world-famous university, helped black people, and established an international foundation - the Rockefeller Foundation - dedicated to eradicating disease, illiteracy and ignorance around the world. What happened to Rockefeller himself? After donating the money, has he gained peace of mind? Yes, he finally felt satisfied.

Rockefeller was very happy. He had completely changed and no longer had any worries.

He "died" at the age of 53 - but lived until he was 98.

Turn misfortune into advantage

——Use iron will to experience happiness in misfortune

Mandela is the former president of South Africa. He had a troubled life, spending a third of it in prison under South Africa's former racist rulers.

His youngest daughter is self-reliant, studies hard, and with her unremitting efforts, she became a columnist for the famous "Beloved" magazine at the age of 17. When Mandela learned the news of his daughter's success in prison, he was so excited that he wrote to his daughter to congratulate her. The letter read: "In order to adapt to your situation today, you have to adjust yourself and try to make yourself happy. I am very excited about this. You said it very well, child, as long as you have a will of steel, you can Turn misfortunes into advantages. ”

Mandela devoted his life to fighting apartheid and was imprisoned many times. During his 27 years behind bars, he remained optimistic and positive every day. He kept reading, writing diaries, painting, growing flowers, and writing letters to encourage people in trouble. Some of his prison paintings have been auctioned in the United States, the United Kingdom, South Africa and other places, and are worth millions of pounds. Prisoner life failed to imprison his thoughts and wisdom. Instead, it made his political beliefs and struggle goals more firm, his temperament became deeper and more sophisticated, and his observation of issues became more comprehensive and objective.

In 1990, Mandela, who had been persecuted and tortured but remained unyielding, finally ended his 27 years behind bars. In May 1994, Mandela became South Africa's first black president.

Wang Guangmei and the Happiness Project

——Let all mothers in the world be equally happy

Wang Guangmei is one of the most legendary women in the 20th century. She is " Director of the Organizing Committee of "Happiness Project - Action to Help Poor Mothers". The Happiness Project is a systematic project targeting poor mothers across the country. The "Happiness Project" is Wang Guangmei's once again understanding, meditation and interpretation of human nature and maternal love in her life journey. It is also the most meaningful action in her later life and a concentrated display of her philanthropic spirit.

According to reports, every 5,000 yuan of low-interest or interest-free loans can make a poor mother rich through labor. In order to raise funds, Wang Guangmei commissioned an auction company to auction five of her own family heirloom collections. The final transaction price was 566,000 yuan. She donated all this huge sum of money to the Happiness Project, which can probably help more than 100 poor mothers and Their families were lifted out of poverty. After more than a year of operation, the Happiness Project has established 21 relief project sites in 15 provinces, municipalities, and autonomous regions across the country, assisting 2,821 poor mothers and their families (households) in 59 townships and 114 villages. ).

Wang Guangmei achieved her greatest happiness while carrying out the "Happiness Project".

"I will always work for the people"

——Only when you work for the people can you feel valuable and happy.

Ding Ling is a famous modern female writer in my country. When he was studying in his hometown in his early years, he was determined to find "a way to reform China." But before accepting the Marxist world view, although she had the ambition to save the world and save the country, she had no way to serve the country.

It wasn’t until she met early Communists such as Qu Qiubai and participated in the left-wing literary movement, and gradually accepted the Marxist worldview, that she began to step out of the small world of intellectuals and set her sights on the vast China. The bottom of society. In 1936, she went to northern Shaanxi. While living with the people in the border areas, she gained new inspiration and an inexhaustible source of creation. She used her pen to eulogize the anti-Japanese war led by the party and the raging struggle and life of the people in the border area. During the War of Liberation, she participated in the land reform movement in the Liberated Areas of Hebei, and used this as material to create outstanding works such as "The Sun Shines on the Sanggan River".

Ding Ling had a rough life. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, she suffered unfair treatment many times and was once sent to the Great Northern Wilderness. However, she never separated from the people. As she herself said, "When she was with the working people, , I feel comfortable and free, and I find more beautiful things from them.” In 1979, Ding Ling returned to the literary world and actively participated in literary creation and editing work; in March 1984, when she heard the news of the establishment of the County Federation of Literary and Art Circles in her hometown, she immediately sent a congratulatory message; in July, she contributed to the Linli County Federation of Literary and Art Circles' publication "Lilan" on her sickbed. Inscribed the title of the magazine; in October, replied to Linli No. 2 Middle School and presented a set of "Collected Works of Ding Ling". She was still writing tenaciously until her death. She always insisted that "I am the daughter of the people, and I will always work for the people."

Marx’s ambition

——Human happiness is the direction of struggle

In August 1835, Marx was about to graduate from Trier Middle School. On the eve of graduation, the classmates in the class were talking about their ideals and aspirations. Some said they wanted to be officials, some said they wanted to do business and make a fortune, some were willing to be doctors, and some fell in love with the position of priests. But Marx had his own unique ideas. He wrote in his graduation thesis: "The main criterion we should follow when choosing a career is human happiness..."

This is what Marx wrote, and this is also the case Made. Marx began writing articles for the "Rheinische Zeitung" in early 1842. In his articles, he always raised some of the most acute questions, always starting from the interests of the working people, exposing the reactionary nature of the Prussian autocratic system, and openly standing for the oppressed and oppressed. side with the exploited working people and safeguard their interests. He founded historical materialism and the theory of surplus value, turning socialism from utopia to science. He was first of all a revolutionary, and it was his lifelong mission to participate in the cause of modern proletarian liberation that overthrew capitalist society.

Marx regarded seeking happiness for mankind as his responsibility throughout his life and struggled for it throughout his life.

“I’m so happy that I can’t breathe”

——Continuous progress is also a kind of happiness

In 1925, the famous Soviet writer Furmanov’s After the novels "Chapayev" (also translated as "Chaboyang") and "Rebellion" were published, they were praised by all parties. He sent the novel to Gorky, hoping to hear Gorky's evaluation. Half a year later, he finally received a reply from Gorky. Although the two novels were also affirmed in the replies, they were more severely criticized. Gorky said: "You wrote in a hurry and hastily. You are narrating as a bystander, not describing as an artist. Neither book is written concisely, with a lot of nonsense, a lot of repetition and explanation. These explanations are a It’s an obvious sign that you don’t trust yourself or the reader’s reason.” After reading Gorky’s critical letter, Furmanov not only did not feel angry or frustrated, but was “so happy that he could hardly breathe.” , he immediately wrote back to Gorky and said: "You punched me twice conveniently, and each punch hit the right place." Soon, Furmanov spent a lot of energy based on Gorky's criticism. Both works have been carefully revised to make them even more perfect when reprinted.

Although Gorky gave mostly critical opinions, Furmanov was ecstatic. This is the basis for his works to continue to improve and progress. Only continuous progress can he feel happy. .

Love You As You Are

——Mother’s Love Gives People Happiness

Billy Jean is a songwriter who won the Grammy Award for Songwriting. Billie Jean's path to success was not an easy one. When he was little, he was teased by the kids around him because he was a little shorter than other kids. When he comes back from school or playing, he often complains that he is not good enough. He feels that if he is taller, he can do better. So he always wanted to be someone else.

However, Billie Jean’s mother always believed that her child was the most perfect. Every time Billie Jean came back and complained that he wasn't good enough, she told him: "Don't worry, it's okay, you don't have to be like everyone else because you are already perfect. Each of us is unique and different from everyone else." . You also have something wonderful to share with the world. I love you just the way you are."

These words from the mother who loved her son unconditionally appeared in Billie Jean's creation. in the song. It was his mother's selfless love that gave Billie Jean confidence in himself. He knew that he was unique and perfect, and at the same time he discovered his dream - to write the best songs for the entire world.

Lei Feng’s life

——Helping others is the happiest thing

Speaking of Lei Feng, everyone knows it. Lei Feng is a well-known model figure who emerged in our country in the early 1960s. In his short life, he changed several jobs. He just loved what he did, worked hard in every job, and worked hard in ordinary jobs. Work and strive to do good things. He completely integrated his hobbies, interests, and all his time and energy with the needs of the party.

Lei Feng has reached a state of selflessness for the benefit of the collective and others. One Sunday, he went to see a doctor and passed a construction site on the way. He was attracted by the lively labor scene. He even forgot about the fact that his stomach hurt and threw himself into the enthusiastic work. During holidays, he often went to the station to serve passengers, serving tea, water and helping the elderly. His own salary is not much, but he donates the money he has saved to the disaster areas again and again. There are countless such good things. He wrote in his diary: "Putting the interests of the revolution first and devoting everything to the cause of the party is the happiest thing."

Comrade Lei Feng devoted his limited life to Serve the people infinitely. After his death, Mao Zedong wrote an inscription for him: "Learn from Comrade Lei Feng. Since then, Lei Feng has become synonymous with doing good deeds. March 5th every year is the anniversary, which is the Day to Learn from Lei Feng."

The Yellow Ribbon on the Old Oak Tree

——Happiness requires tolerance

On October 14, 1971, the New York Post published a very touching article The story of the novel is this:

A group of students were traveling and saw a serious-looking middle-aged man on a long-distance bus. He had been sitting silently. Perhaps the enthusiasm of the students infected him, and he finally told his story: He had just come out of prison after being sentenced to three years in prison for bankruptcy. On the eve of his release from prison, he wrote a letter to his wife in Georgia, asking her if she would still take him in. If his wife is still waiting for him to come back and is still willing to continue living with him, tie a yellow ribbon on the old oak tree at the door; if she already belongs to someone else and does not tie a yellow ribbon, he will leave silently without disturbing her. her new life.

The man’s story moved everyone, and as they got closer and closer to the place he told them, everyone became more and more uneasy. When he was about to get home, the man didn't even dare to open his eyes and begged the driver to help him see the result... Finally, the answer was revealed. He only heard the driver and all the passengers cheering in unison. He opened his eyes and saw the old man. Hundreds of yellow ribbons on the oak tree were flying in the wind, and everyone was suddenly moved to tears!

The story in the novel was later composed into a song, and the song spread throughout the world. This song is the famous "Tie A Yellow Ribbon Round the Old Oak Tree" ("Old Oak Tree") "Yellow Ribbon on the Oak"), this song stayed at the top of the US charts for four weeks in 1973. The yellow ribbon has also become a symbol of "welcoming the imprisoned to freedom" in the United States. When relatives return after a long absence, they will tie a yellow ribbon on the tree in front of their home, which has become a custom.

Andersen stayed with fairy tales all his life

——Giving up happiness for fairy tales

Andersen devoted himself to writing and devoted all his energy to the world of fairy tales.

The beautiful girl Yelena Guiccioli was attracted by Andersen's beautiful fairy tales and impressed by Andersen's extraordinary conversation and kind heart. She quietly fell in love with him. One day, Yelena Guiccioli expressed her love to Andersen and said she would love him forever. Andersen looked at this beautiful girl. Although he also liked this beautiful, smart and kind girl, the creation of fairy tales required all his time, energy, and love. His heart could only accommodate fairy tales. He couldn't find anything else, so he could only politely reject the girl's love. He said to the girl: "I'm sorry, my love is in fairy tales."

When he was dying, Andersen recalled this to his friends. He said: "For the sake of fairy tales, I gave up my own happiness."

Andersen spent his whole life writing fairy tales for children all over the world, and created works including "The Little Match Girl" and "Snow White". "" "The Daughter of the Sea" and other 156 fairy tales have brought happiness to generations of children around the world. He gave up personal happiness, but left wealth to mankind, and also to all children in the world. They bring happiness and dreams.

Marx and Yanni

——When there is love, there is happiness

Yanni was born into a noble family. She is talented, beautiful and smart. Her parents hope that She was able to get married in the upper class, but she fell in love with Marx, who was from an ordinary background but had lofty ambitions. For the sake of love, she resolutely left her comfortable family, married Marx, and lived a homeless life together. While in exile, his family lived on potatoes for weeks at a time. There was no firewood in the harsh winter, no money to pay for a doctor when sick, and too poor to pay the rent. The family's iron bed, bedding, clothes, and even my daughter's toys and children's cradle were all mortgaged. After Marx finished writing "Critique of Political Economy", he sent the manuscript to Berlin without postage. Because they cannot afford tuition fees, their children have no choice but to drop out of school. The child died of illness and had no money to buy a coffin for burial... Faced with such a poor life, Yanni never wavered in her love for Marx, did not complain or leave. On the contrary, she was full of confidence in life because there was love in her life. .

Talking about their marriage, Yanni said: "I hope Karl is happy with me, just as I hope to be happy with him." She once proudly said: "I am sitting with Karl Those days when I copied his illegible articles in my room were the happiest moments in my life. ”

Du Lang’s search for happiness

——Happiness lies in every moment of life. In a detail

American writer William Durang once described his process of searching for happiness. He first looked for happiness from knowledge, but he only got disillusionment; from travel, he got only fatigue; from wealth, he got only struggle and sorrow; from writing, he got only fatigue. Knowledge, travel, wealth and writing cannot bring pure happiness.

One day, however, he came out of the station and saw a young woman sitting in a car with a sleeping baby in her arms. A middle-aged man got off the train and walked straight to the car. He kissed his wife and then gently kissed the baby--for fear of waking him. The family then drove away. At this time, Du Lang was surprised to discover something. In fact, this is true happiness. He breathed a sigh of relief happily and understood from then on: Every normal activity in life contains some kind of happiness. Only by cherishing the present can there be true happiness.

Every detail of life actually carries some kind of happiness. That shallow kiss contained the husband's care and the father's love. This small detail presented the most beautiful emotion in the world. Can you say that the wife was not happy when she received that kiss? Can you say that that little baby didn't feel that he was being cared for? Happiness is summoned in this way. It doesn't require any magic formula, it just requires your emotional investment. Tuck a quilt into a sleeping child, pour a glass of water for a tired parent, give a tissue to a crying friend, and help a beggar on the roadside. When you do these things, you are happy.

Philosophical material

Happiness is a bowl of water

A rich man and a poor man were talking about what happiness is.

The poor man said: "Happiness is now. I feel happy living like this now."

The rich man looked at the poor man's hut and shabby clothes, and said contemptuously: "How can this be called happiness? Only people like me, who own hundreds of mansions and thousands of slaves, can we call it happiness!"

The world is unpredictable, and overnight, a fire destroyed the rich. His hundred mansions were burned to the ground, and his servants went their separate ways. The once rich and well-off people have become beggars with nothing and can only make a living by begging everywhere.

On a hot summer day, a sweaty beggar passes by a poor man's hut and asks for a drink of water. The poor man brought a bowl of cool water and asked him: "What do you think is happiness now?"

The beggar said eagerly: "Happiness is the bowl of water in your hand right now."

The poor do not feel that their poor life is unhappy, and they cherish all the happiness they have now; while the rich once had so much, but after becoming beggars, they only yearn for the happiness of having a bowl of cold water in the summer.

In fact, happiness is now. Only the happiness that is strung together now is the happiness of a lifetime.

Having maternal love is the greatest happiness in life

One day, the little rabbit said to the mother rabbit: "I want to leave home and run away!"

The mother rabbit said : "No matter where you go, I will follow you, because you are my precious little rabbit."

"If you follow me, I will become a little fish swimming in the stream Let's go!"

"Then I will become a fisherman to fish for you." Then the little rabbit will turn into a rock, a little flower, a bird, a little trapeze artist in the acrobatic troupe, and a little boy. The mother transformed into a climber, a gardener, a tree, the wind, a tightrope walker, and finally became the little boy's mother, embracing him with open arms.

"Well, then I'd better not go anywhere and be your little rabbit at home."

"Bring me a carrot." Mother Rabbit said.

No love in the world is completely unconditional, except, of course, maternal love.

No matter what the child looks like or whether he has achieved success or not, the mother will always feel that her child is the best child in the world.

This kind of selfless and unconditional love is the greatest happiness in life.

Enclosure movement

A landowner went to visit a tribal leader and wanted to get a piece of land from the tribal leader. The leader said, you go west from here and make a mark at the end. As long as you can walk back before the sun sets, the land between here and that mark will be yours.

The sun has set, but the landlord has not come back yet.

Because he had walked too far, he was exhausted on the road.

The landowner will definitely not forget the tribal leader's conditions. He must come back before the sun sets so that he can get the land he enclosed. He must have stopped traveling westward more than once and prepared to return. But at this time he may think: Take a few more steps, so that he can get more land. In this way, desire led him further and further away bit by bit. In the end, he couldn't come back...

Many people said that the landlord was too greedy. But many people cannot resist the temptation of desire bit by bit.

The landowner in the story could not resist the temptation, and eventually became a person who could not come back. How many people in life are attracted by desire to go further and further away, and the further they go, the less they can find the feeling of happiness.

Happy puppy

A puppy asked its mother: "Mom, where is happiness?"

The mother dog told it: "Happiness is On your tail."

So, the puppy kept chasing, it wanted to catch its own tail to see what happiness looks like.

However, it found that it could not catch up with the happiness on its tail, so it told its mother its troubles.

The dog mother said: "Child, don't chase after you deliberately. As long as you keep moving forward, happiness will always follow you."

It turns out that happiness is so simple. There is no need to deliberately pursue it, as long as you move forward bravely, you will always have it. Because it is with each of us, right behind us. And the puppy only needs to look back to see the happiness resting on its tail.

In fact, people often keep chasing the happiness in their imagination, thinking that that is what they really deserve. But in the end, you will find that there are some things that you can never catch up with; even if you catch up, you will be disappointed to find that what you get is not what you really want. But if you stop running and no longer deliberately chase, you will gain unexpected happiness.

The Fisherman’s Story

There was once a story about a very rich man who met a fisherman who was sunbathing like him on the beach one day. He asked: "Why don't you go fishing in such a good weather?" The fisherman said: "The fish I caught yesterday is enough for me to eat today." The rich man said: "Don't you want to catch more fish?" Fish, can you make more money?" The fisherman asked him, "Why do you want so much money?" The rich man said, "I can go and bask in the sun while others are busy!" The fisherman said, "Look. , am I not basking in the sun like you now? "This story does not tell us not to strive for progress and be satisfied with the status quo, but to tell us not to be too demanding in life, so that we can enjoy life and feel happiness anytime, anywhere. .

Think about the reasons why we are unhappy? Isn’t it because we have too many demands on life? The salary is low, the girlfriend is not pretty enough, the house is not big enough... Look at the sad fate of those criminals who rob and steal, and those who take bribes. They just don’t understand the saying, “Be content with enough.” It’s the truth that you will never be humiliated throughout your life, you will always stop when you know how to stop, and you will never be ashamed throughout your life.” "Be content with what you have", happiness is actually that simple.

The shirt that gives people happiness

The king has an only son who is the apple of his eye, but the prince always sits in front of the window glumly. So the king tried his best to make his son happy.

However, it was all in vain to show him plays, hold grand balls or concerts, and the prince's face lost its former rosiness: he gradually became thinner.

Many wise scholars suggest that you find a happy person, a completely happy person, and exchange shirts with the prince. So the king sent people across the country to find happy people, but the noble priest and the supremely powerful king of the neighboring country were still unhappy. One day when the king was hunting, he suddenly heard someone singing. Following the singing, the king found a happy young man who was humming and pruning vines, but this happy man had no shirt on.

What kind of person is a completely happy person? Not a priest in a high position, not a king who has everything, but a poor boy in a vineyard in the countryside. He is satisfied with everything he has now, even if he is rich and powerful, he cannot exchange for high official and salary. But he didn't wear a shirt, because happiness is not given by others, he can only feel it by himself.

Innovation Argument

Ah Q is happy and happy

Happiness and happiness do not always exist, they should be "filtered" out. Literary master Qian Zhongshu said in his book "On Happiness": "Happiness is determined by the spirit. Turning endurance into happiness is the greatest victory of spirit over material." Qian Zhongshu believes that turning endurance into happiness is the key to success. The highest state of spirit.

Ah Q, the reason why he is always happy and happy is that when there is suppression, there is resistance, and when there are shortcomings, there is yearning for happiness. Ups and downs and pain can not only activate people's strong desire for survival and development, but also It also provides a place for you to work hard for.

Ah Q said, I am happy any day, and this is right.

We have always believed that Ah Q was an unfortunate person. Even Mr. Lu Xun said that his attitude towards Ah Q was "sorry for his misfortune and angry for his inability to fight." Later people believed that his spiritual victory method was a manifestation of escaping reality and evading responsibility. It was actually a means of self-anaesthesia, preventing him from facing up to his tragic status of being oppressed. He had no land, no house, and no wife. He was bullied until he was finally executed as a revolutionary party and lived the most miserable life. But Ah Q himself has always lived a happy life, because Wu Ma forgot the day after being beaten, touched the little nun's head, and bullied people weaker than him. His life was miserable, but mentally he was "always superior." ” is the so-called spiritual victory method. Ah Q was actually happy. He was able to accept the situation and regarded enduring pain as happiness.