Tang Zongyuan's biography of planting trees and camels. Although you love it (the newly cut tree), you are actually hurting it. This is what Guo Tuo, an expert in tree planting, said when introducing his experience in tree planting. He said that when planting trees, you should be as careful as caring for children, but after planting them, don't care too much or worry too much. Look at them in the morning, kneel down and touch them, and even check whether they are dead or alive with their hands. Look at the soil density of the roots. It seems that you care about these new trees. Actually, it hurts the seedlings. The last two sentences are now used to explain that children should not be spoiled and spoiled, which is also very appropriate.

Orphaned calves touch their breasts, and spoiled children scold their mothers.

The original intention of The Biography of Ye Fan in the Later Han Dynasty was that the only son was spoiled, which encouraged his arrogance and his parents suffered greatly. After metaphor helpless people ask for help from others.

Historians in the Southern Dynasties and the Song Dynasty

Ye Fan

The Book of the Later Han Dynasty teaches children not to spoil and dislike. Scholars in Qing dynasty

Wang Yongbin's favorite son is not arrogant, nor is his favorite son unbeaten. Scholars in Qing dynasty

Wu Chu knew nothing about his son's evil, only his seedlings. "University"

"University" indulges in pleasure and bears bitter fruit; Diligence and simplicity make talents.