I collected them from various mountains and corners. Although some of them are incomplete, they are for reference!

There is a certain truth that a strict father will produce a filial son. This is the true meaning passed down from ancient times in our country. It can be said that strictness means love and spoiling, which is harmful. Often, the children of strict families are promising and filial to their parents. , and spoiled children are often worthless and prone to causing trouble in society, and most of them will not be filial to their parents.

Famous quotes about a strict father producing filial sons

A strict father producing filial sons, but a loving mother often fails

Children who over-indulge are unlikely to succeed.

A filial son emerges from under a stick. This is just a metaphor. It means that parents should strictly discipline their children, teach them the correct outlook on life, and let them know how to distinguish between right and wrong. I think a loving mother and a strict father are right for this sentence. The best explanation is not to use sticks to teach children. After all, violence cannot solve any problem.

And the so-called "nothing can be effective" refers to the method adopted in certain powerless situations. It is an extreme measure. After all, sometimes people will learn lessons only after suffering great difficulties. It does not mean beating children without any concept.

Although some educators now say that they do not advocate stick education. I personally think that the so-called stick education does not mean beating children all the time like three meals a day. It should be based on persuasion and education, and more reason should be used to reason with children and persuade others with reason. However, when children make major mistakes. , certain punishments should be given to the children to remember that the same mistakes cannot be made again because children have good memories, but they are forgetful of the mistakes they have made. However, you should also reason with him afterwards and let him know what the mistake is. What's wrong~~~~

The more unfilial children are, the more their parents will love them since childhood, while the parents of filial children will be stricter from childhood.

Why is this so? From a current psychological point of view, parents doting on their children will make their children mistakenly think that they are the boss of the family. Parents must not only obey their words, but also flatter, flatter and please them. Over time, from infancy to adulthood. As adults, after more than ten years of ups and downs, this habit, thinking and concept will gradually be finalized in the minds of their children. Even after they grow up and start a family, they will still boss around their parents. The desire to plunder and plunder parents becomes even stronger. Why is this so? Because as the age increases, the appetite for desires increases. When they are unable to satisfy themselves, children who have long been accustomed to relying on their parents will also have greater demands on their parents. It keeps increasing. Not only can parents not have a peaceful life, they will also intensify their efforts to support their grown-up children. If anything goes wrong, they will be scolded or beaten by their children. This is the so-called "habituation becomes natural and pampering". "It will bear evil consequences"! Does the root of such children's unfilial piety lie in their parents? The fact is that parents' doting on their children creates unfilial piety in their children!

Dutiful sons emerge from under the stick, and most children trained by strict parents are Filial piety. Why? Parents' strictness has taken root in children's hearts since childhood. Tall, authoritative, and not to be challenged casually have become the image of parents in children's minds. With this kind of psychological positioning, children will become aware of their superiority and inferiority. It becomes a habit for children to obey their parents carefully, figure out their parents' thoughts and cater to their parents' behavior. Such children will naturally respect and love their parents when they grow up. Thinking what their parents want and doing what their parents want will become their filial habit. .

We know that there is evil in human nature, and a very important function of education is to suppress evil and promote good, and tell them what they should do and what they should not do. If you do something you shouldn't do, you will be punished accordingly. In this way, the fear effect of punishment makes the person involved understand that there is a rule in this society that must be followed, otherwise there will be a price to pay. This awareness of rules will benefit them throughout their lives and benefit society. I think this is also the positive significance of corporal punishment in Korean education.

This is like when educating children, parents warn their children that nagging is the most unpopular thing for them. I think it would be better to let him suffer a little loss, which is much more effective than nagging. When we tell a child that candlelight burns people, he often wants to try it, and we either scold him sharply or pull him away quickly. However, often when we are not present and pay attention, children are burned, and the burns may be serious. So, I thought, when he tries to touch the candle flame, it is better to tell him that it is hot and cannot be touched. If he insists on touching it, let him try it. Of course, the responsibility of the parents is to minimize the harm.

This painful experience will definitely be remembered for the rest of his life, and he will also remember another concept - if you don't listen to your parents' warnings, you will suffer a loss! At first glance, parents seem to be cruel, but this cruelty is for their children to have a correct concept of life and for their healthy growth. This is love in the true sense!

Teacher’s punishment, including corporal punishment, is like candlelight, except that the responsibility of minimizing harm lies with the teacher. Also, under China's education system, the blind pursuit of love education may not be suitable for us, a country with a large population base and low per capita quality...love education.