Carnegie's classic famous sayings

Dale Carnegie (November 24, 1888 - November 1, 1955), the father of modern adult education in the United States, a famous American The master of interpersonal relations, the founder of modern Western interpersonal education, is known as the greatest spiritual mentor and success master of the 20th century

1. Winners and losers The biggest difference is that successful people try to benefit from failure and try other methods.

2. Have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sad bird? They have no worries because they don’t have to show off in front of their own kind.

3. If you can bravely admit your mistakes, then you will definitely benefit from this mistake. Because admitting your mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem.

4. As long as you firmly believe that what you are doing is right, don’t let anything hold you down. The great achievements in the world are all the result of fighting against the impossible. The important thing is to get the job done, no matter the difficulty.

5. We often have many opportunities, but because we are not prepared, we rarely discover these opportunities. Pay close attention to the opportunities around you.

6. Calmly analyze past mistakes, try to benefit from them, and then forget about them. This is the only way to make the past constructive.

7. Most of us are either worried about yesterday or worried about tomorrow, but we refuse to take advantage of today!

8. It is actually easy to make the world happier. Why? Just say a few words of sincere appreciation to the lonely and discouraged person. Although you may forget what you said today tomorrow, the recipient may cherish it for a lifetime.

9. Don’t harbor hatred. When encountering difficulties, don't be afraid to give in. Villains always insist on their own opinions to maintain their dignity; those who are willing to reach out to others and confess their mistakes and propose a new start are magnanimous people.

10. As long as you pretend to be interested in your work, it may generate real interest in you and reduce your burnout, tension and worry.

11. Don’t be reluctant to give your best performance just because you think something is minor. Accomplishing anything makes you stronger. If you can do small things well, big things will not be a problem.

12. Today is life? The only life you truly have. Make the most of today! Get interested in something! Shake yourself up! Pick up a hobby. Let true enthusiasm wash over you. Make today fun!

13. If we accept the worst, we have nothing to lose.

14. In addition to the habit of being cautious, a high-spirited businessman must also have the two strengths of agility and non-conformity.

15. Walking towards a certain goal is "ambition", and never stopping midway is "qi". The combination of the two is "ambition". The success or failure of all careers depends on this.

16. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others? Things that require time, physical strength, thoughtfulness, and dedication to do.

17. Private property, the law of accumulation of wealth, the law of competition, all of these are the highest results of human experience and are the soil from which society has produced the best fruits so far.

18. Show respect for other people’s opinions. Never say: ?You are wrong. ?

19. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax your mind, have a natural expression and a pleasant smile, so that others will feel fond of you. .

20. A person who does not pay attention to small things will never succeed in a big career.

21. You are young when you have faith, you are old when you are doubtful; you are young when you are confident, you are old when you are afraid; you are young when you have hope, you are old when you are desperate; time makes your skin wrinkle, but you lose it. Enthusiasm damages the soul.

22. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical tension can create shoulder pain and mental fatigue.

23. My motto is: The first is honesty, the second is diligence, and the third is to concentrate on work.

24. Today is too precious and should not be eroded by bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin up and let your thoughts shine, like jumping mountain springs under the spring sun. Seize the day and it won't come back.

25. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others? Things that require time, energy, thoughtfulness and dedication to do.

26. Real reading wakes up those who are sleepy and chooses appropriate goals for those who have not yet decided on their goals. Righteous books guide people on the right path and avoid going astray.

27. When an opportunity appears in front of you, if you can firmly grasp it, you will succeed nine times out of ten. Those who can overcome accidental events and find opportunities for themselves can win 100% of the time. .

28. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative terms. Professional skills are hard skills, while interpersonal skills that are good at handling interpersonal relationships are soft skills.

29. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others? Things that require time, energy, consideration, and dedication to do.

30. A person who does not pay attention to small things will never achieve big things.

31. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others? Things that require time, energy, consideration, and dedication to do.

32. There is a saying in the world: Time is money. Therefore, thieves who steal other people's time should of course be punished. Even those pleasant and good people should still avoid them like taboo diseases.

33. Sporadic time, if used quickly, can become complete time. As the saying goes, "the accumulation of soil makes a mountain" is true. It is easy to lose a day, and there is no way to get it back.

34. Life is like a stage. If you only describe one thing, you will not be able to impress people.

35. If you can be humble enough on the road of life, you will be able to broaden the world, eliminate all difficulties, and resolve all entanglements.

36. Maybe you understand the nature of human beings? People who do wrong will only blame others and never blame themselves.

37. When a person’s change comes from himself, he is no longer an ordinary person.

38. In addition to your main job, find a side job that you like as a psychological and spiritual remedy.

39. Use your free time to find a side job that you like besides your main job. If possible, find a few more. The more side jobs you have, the larger your circle of friends will be, and the more spiritual happiness you will have.

40. Seize the present, don’t mourn the past, let alone worry about the future.

41. The first secret of successful interpersonal communication is: ask the other person to do a favor; the second secret: sincerely praise others; the third secret: try to meet the needs of others

42. If we have accepted the worst, we will have nothing to lose.

43. In addition to the habit of being cautious, a high-spirited businessman must also have two strengths: agility and non-conformity.

44. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others? Things that require time, physical strength, thoughtfulness, and dedication to do.

45. Private property, the law of accumulation of wealth, the law of competition, all of these are the highest results of human experience and are the soil from which society has produced the best fruits so far.