In the market, there is a kind of thinking that deeply affects some people in the market and greatly restricts the hands and feet of these people.
"I am not afraid of failure in my own investment, but I am afraid of failure following my friends." This is a kind of thinking that deeply affects the market.
It sounds reasonable to say such a thing, which demonstrates the speaker's responsibility and responsibility, and also embodies a kind of virtue.
However, if you think about it carefully, there are big problems in thinking about the problem this way.
Let’s talk about investing. Blind investment is definitely not recommended and is also unwise. If a person is responsible for himself, he should do the necessary homework before participating in an investment. To participate in investment, one should have correct evaluation standards for the investment target, obtain evaluation results based on full evaluation based on the evaluation standards, and then make decisions based on the evaluation results. This is not irrational.
However, in real life, this evaluation process is often ignored by most people. It is common to make hasty decisions without evaluating the investment targets involved, simply trusting other people's introductions. The main factors in making decisions are often "high rate of return" and "can make money while sitting down". A more common phenomenon is that investment seems to be a once and for all thing. After participating, you no longer pay attention to it and entrust others to take care of it. It is also called "trusting friends".
If the first step of evaluation is not done, it is because I trust my friends. Well, after participating, this belief becomes a thing of the past.
To participate in investment, you must first be responsible for yourself.
How to be responsible for yourself? That is to spend enough time to learn relevant knowledge, improve relevant cognition, deepen understanding and comprehension in practice, and be aware of the things involved.
If through enough study, practice, thinking, and understanding, you are convinced that what you are participating in is correct, you have enough awareness of the uncertainties (risks) that exist, and you understand that it can be achieved through scientific paths Given your own goals and rewards, it is reasonable to share opportunities with friends who need them.
Doing so is both reasonable and beneficial to others.
On the contrary, after participating in an investment, you do not participate in learning, do not improve your knowledge, blindly trust others, lack awareness of risks, or even have no concept of risks, and simply dream of high returns and easy money, and If it is spread widely, it may harm both yourself and others.
Therefore, the key is to do what you should do first. No matter what the reason is, you cannot shirk your own responsibility.
Only a person who is truly responsible for himself can also be responsible for others.
Facing the vast market, if you can do yourself well first, make sure that your choice is fully reliable, and then share and promote it, you can avoid unnecessary mistakes and injuries, stay away from traps, and get closer Be successful and truly benefit others.
As a person who works hard in the market, if you are still deeply affected by the seemingly reasonable thinking of "I would rather fail than let my friends get hurt", I suggest you change your thinking and do a good job. yourself, and then benefit others. Life will definitely have another outcome.