Carrel's Universal Formula

※One of the weaknesses of human nature: likes to blame and complain about others

On the contrary: do not criticize, blame or complain about others

※The second weakness of human nature: not liking to appreciate others

On the contrary: sincere appreciation of others

※ The third weakness of human nature: not considering the needs of others

On the contrary: think of the needs of others first

※The fourth weakness of human nature: blindly imitate others

On the other hand: maintain your true self and do not blindly imitate

※The fifth weakness of human nature: no good working habits

On the contrary: develop good working habits

※The sixth weakness of human nature: a tired "I"

On the contrary: relax yourself and eliminate fatigue

※The seventh weakness of human nature: feel tired about things

On the contrary: don’t feel tired about things, but make them full Fun

※The eighth weakness of human nature: only see 10% of your shortcomings

On the contrary: count the happiness you have - not the troubles

※The ninth weakness of human nature: criticizing others with malice

On the contrary: ignore it, because no one will kick a dead dog

※ The tenth weakness of human nature: caring too much Criticism from others

On the contrary: do your best, hold up an umbrella, so that the rain of criticism cannot hit your neck

※Human Weakness No. 11: Not caring Others

On the contrary: sincerely caring for others

※Humanity’s twelfth weakness: lack of smile towards others

On the contrary: keep smiling

※The Thirteenth Weakness of Human Nature: Forgetting other people’s names

On the contrary: Remembering other people’s names is the sweetest and most important sound in language

※The Weaknesses of Human Nature Fourteenth: Don’t like to listen to others

On the contrary: Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves

※Human Weakness No.15: Don’t consider other people’s needs Interest

On the contrary: Talk about topics that others are interested in

※Humanity weakness No. 16: Forget the importance of others

On the contrary: Make others feel important ——And do it sincerely

※Human weakness No. 17: Like to argue with others

On the contrary: avoid debates, there is no way to win or lose if you continue to argue

※The 18th weakness of human nature: Not respecting other people’s opinions

On the contrary: showing respect for other people’s opinions, whether they are right or wrong

※The 19th weakness of human nature: Don’t dare to admit your mistakes

On the contrary: if you are wrong, admit it quickly and sincerely and correct it in time

※Human weakness number 20: lack of kindness to others

On the contrary: start in a friendly way, not that the whole world is your enemy

※Human Weakness No. 21: Let others say "no" first

On the contrary: let others say "yes, yes" first

※Humanity weakness 22: Don't let others speak

On the contrary: let the other person speak more

※Human Weakness No. 23: Imposing your opinions on others

On the contrary: Let others feel that it is their idea

※Human Weakness No. 20 Four: Don’t consider the problem from the other person’s point of view

On the contrary: sincerely try your best to see things from the other person’s point of view

※Human Weakness No. 25: Not understanding the wishes of others

On the contrary: Understand the other person’s thoughts and desires

※Humanity weakness 26: Inducing others to have bad motives

On the contrary: Inspiring others to produce a Noble motives

※Human Weakness No. 27: Express your intentions too straight forward

On the contrary: Act out your intentions

※Human Weakness No. 28: Lack of incentives and competition mechanism

On the contrary: Challenge him

※Human Weakness No. 29 : Unwilling to praise and appreciate others

On the contrary: Start with compliments and sincere appreciation

※Human weakness number 30: Criticize others directly

On the contrary: Indirectly point out other people's mistakes

※Humanity weakness 31: Like to blame others

On the contrary: before blaming others, think about your own mistakes

On the contrary: Save the face of others

※Humanity weakness No. 34: Never encourage others

On the contrary: Praise others for every progress, even if it is very Be small, be "sincere in praise, generous in praise"

※Humanity's 35th Weakness: Don't make others happy to do what you suggest

On the contrary: make the other person happy to do what you suggest Things

※The thirty-sixth weakness of human nature: Like to nag endlessly

On the contrary: Never, never chatter

※The thirty-sixth weakness of human nature Seven: Always try to transform the other person

On the contrary: Don’t transform your husband or wife

※Human weakness No. 38: Don’t care about your partner

On the contrary: Give the other person sincere appreciation and attention

※Humanity weakness 39: Not paying much attention to small things

On the other hand: Pay attention to those seemingly small things

※The forty weakness of human nature: lack of proper etiquette

On the contrary: be polite to your wife (husband)

※The fourth weakness of human nature Eleven: Not responsible for your own actions

On the contrary: You must bear the consequences of your own actions and be responsible for your actions instead of just kicking the chair

※Forty Weaknesses of Human Nature Two: Treat difficulties as insurmountable obstacles

On the contrary: Don’t care about difficulties, maybe it is a lucky beginning

※Human Weakness No. 43: Inability to escape from life misfortunes

On the contrary: learn to guide yourself out of the misfortunes in life

※Human Weakness No. 44: Lack of faith in life

On the contrary: own yourself Believe and put it into action

※Human Weakness No. 45: Ignore your own personality

On the contrary: Believe in yourself, you are unique

※ Human Weakness No. 46: Blindly obey others

On the contrary: Have your own opinion

※Human Weakness No. 47: Falling into loneliness

On the contrary: happiness does not mean having others give charity, but to win others' needs and love for you by yourself

※Human Weakness No. 48: Trying to change the inevitable fact

On the contrary: Don’t try to change those inevitable situations, but try your best to adapt to them

※Humanity’s Weakness No. 49: Unable to resolve worries

On the contrary: Use cards Riel's universal formula, become a carefree person