This is also a classic saying of Xu Zhimo.

As a believer in love, I have endless imagination about feelings. When I love you, sometimes I just don’t say a word.

Whether you are happy or sad, I will be there to accompany you silently, and silence is also a person’s greatest virtue.

Love is a situation. In this charming encounter, we met all kinds of people, some brave and decisive, some gentle and elegant.

Every person we meet has something that catches our attention and makes us reluctant to leave.

The road to love is difficult and bumpy, and it is usually not as smooth sailing as imagined. Slowly, we understand development and the principle of patience.

When I was young, I always had some rust and bones. When something happened, I always liked to deal with it with a high profile. But as I grew older, I learned to be dignified. Sometimes it was better to say nothing than to speak a lot. Need to be valid.

I gradually understood that being silent is actually a kind of expensive self-explanation.

A well-educated person no longer relies on shouting to deal with problems, but through wisdom. They will also be reasonable, and they will also distance themselves appropriately to calm each other, and the other party will naturally You will feel where you went wrong.

In this way, there is no trick to win, but the key element of this trick is to be silent temporarily, and the effect is obvious.

Silentness is to resolve conflicts

Love requires tranquility but also passion. People living in the world of love are always different from others and will have worries. If there are scruples, there will still be full of love. Therefore, when two people get along with each other and have conflicts, certain methods need to be adopted.

Silence is golden, but it is not a helpless encounter, but a way to resolve disharmony.

For example, two people are chatting very well, and suddenly a conflict arises due to something. The conflict will have very serious consequences, ranging from a quarrel to serious damage to the relationship. Even the strongest love may be broken because of Cracks appear due to quarrels.

Walking in the ocean of love, I hope everything goes smoothly. When facing quarrels, I will occasionally feel a deep sense of powerlessness.

Love does not have to be noisy all the time. Sometimes, you can tolerate him acting cute like a child and you can tolerate his little willfulness, but you cannot let him go on forever.

When the relationship changes in a less favorable direction, calming down appropriately can ease the relationship. This is the effect of silence.

There is a kind of humility that means saying nothing

I think, therefore I am, I like, therefore I come. When it suddenly goes down, you are unsuspecting. It is love. It steals your love and makes you at a loss. You are as complete as a passerby. Time is worthy of your deep love.

Suddenly one day, I realized that the person who loved me deeply would no longer pester me. I was worried that the relationship had faded, and suddenly I was no longer worried.

Before, he was angry that it would make a fuss, but now that they had different opinions, what was more important was that he was silent. This silence suddenly made him feel distressed.

I originally surrounded him and called him love, but coldly called him know.

Love allows people to develop, with both pain and joy. From that child who could only scream, she grows into an intellectual and elegant woman, who can be attracted to the opposite sex and have a good sense of propriety.

Love never requires humility and blind tolerance. Sometimes it also requires methods to let love develop in emotion and improve in wisdom.

Loving her, she let him go and wanted to support him silently behind her. Even if she didn't say a word, she wanted him to experience the emergence of her own strength.

For the sake of love, sometimes you have to be humble so that he can respect you and love you more and more.