1. Famous aphorisms or poems about patience
What are the famous aphorisms or poems about patience?
Patience and persistence are painful, but they are Gradually it will bring benefits to you.
Hope is the crutch of perseverance, and patience is the travel bag. Carrying them, one can board the eternal journey. Talent is long-term perseverance.
Life is just like a marathon... only the one who persists to the end can be called the winner. If you persevere, the rotten wood will not be broken; if you persevere, the metal and stone can be carved.
To see the sunrise, you must wait until dawn. "Don't be ashamed to be the last."
Even if he is slow, even if he keeps running, even if he falls behind, even if he fails, he can definitely achieve the goal he longs for. With perseverance, gold and stone can be carved.
Great works are accomplished not by strength, but by persistence. Often it is the last key that opens the door.
How can you enjoy the fragrance of plum blossoms without being chilled to the bone? Although the ax is small, it can eventually chop down the toughest oak tree after many chops.
If a person does not have perseverance in doing things, it will be difficult for him to succeed in anything. No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking steps.
Patience and persistence are painful, but it will gradually bring you benefits. See details [Success·Methods and Techniques|Will] Hope is the crutch of tenacity, and patience is the travel bag. Carrying them, people can board the eternal journey.
See details [Life·Destiny|Hope, Expectation] Talent is long-term perseverance. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Life is just like a marathon... only those who persevere to the end can be called winners.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Perseverance] If you persevere, rotten wood will not break; if you persevere, gold and stone can be carved. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] To see the sunrise, you must watch until dawn.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] "Don't be ashamed to be the last." Even if he is slow, galloping, falling behind, and failing, he can definitely achieve the goal he longs for.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Perseverance] With perseverance, gold and stone can be carved. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Great works are accomplished not by strength, but by persistence.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] It is often the last key that opens the door. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] How can you enjoy the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a chill to the bone?
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Although the ax is small, it can eventually chop down the toughest oak tree after many chops. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] If a person does not have perseverance in doing things, it will be difficult for him to succeed in anything.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking both feet. Patience and persistence are painful, but they will gradually bring you benefits.
See details [Success·Methods and Techniques|Will] Hope is the crutch of perseverance, and patience is the travel bag. Carrying them, people can board the eternal journey. See details [Life·Destiny|Hope, Expectation] Talent is long-term perseverance.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Life is just like a marathon... only those who persevere to the end can be called winners. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Perseverance] If you persevere, the rotten wood will not break; if you persevere, the gold and stone can be carved.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] To see the sunrise, you must wait until dawn. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] "Don't be ashamed to be the last."
Even if he is slow, galloping, falling behind, or failing, he can definitely achieve the goal he longs for. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] With perseverance, gold and stone can be carved.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Great works are accomplished not by strength, but by persistence. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] It is often the last key that opens the door.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without being turned to the bone? See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Although the ax is small, it can eventually chop down the toughest oak tree after many chops.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Patience and persistence are painful, but it will gradually bring you benefits. See details [Success·Methods and Techniques|Will] Hope is the crutch of tenacity, and patience is the travel bag. Carrying them, people can board the eternal journey.
See details [Life·Destiny|Hope, Expectation] Talent is long-term perseverance. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Life is just like a marathon... only those who persevere to the end can be called winners.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Perseverance] If you persevere, rotten wood will not break; if you persevere, gold and stone can be carved. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] To see the sunrise, you must watch until dawn.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] "Don't be ashamed to be the last." Even if he is slow, galloping, falling behind, and failing, he can definitely achieve the goal he longs for.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Perseverance] With perseverance, gold and stone can be carved. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Great works are accomplished not by strength, but by persistence.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] It is often the last key that opens the door. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] How can you enjoy the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a chill to the bone?
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] Although the ax is small, it can eventually chop down the toughest oak tree after many chops. See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] If a person does not have perseverance in doing things, it will be difficult for him to succeed in anything.
See details [Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence] No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking both feet.
2. Famous quotes about "tolerance"
Only by moving forward can one leave the shadow behind!
——He Donglin China
Patience is a plaster that is beneficial to all pain.
——Cervantes
The grass of patience is bitter, but it will eventually bear sweet and soft fruits.
—— Simrock
The taste of bitterness first and then sweetness is much more charming than the taste of sweetness first and then bitterness.
——Wang Shao Boys' High School
If you cannot avoid it, then your duty is to endure it. If you are destined to endure it, then it would be foolish to say that you can't endure it.
Patience is the basis of all intelligence.
——Plato, Ancient Greece
Don’t be eager for quick success, don’t worry about gains and losses, and unswervingly lay the foundation and create conditions, and you will have the fun of accidental success.
——Joff
Perseverance is a big factor in success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake up.
——Longfellow Beauty
Perseverance is a major factor in success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake up.
A gentleman tolerates what others cannot tolerate, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and deals with what others cannot tolerate.
——Manan Tunlan
3. Aphorisms about tolerance
(3). Advise people to be tolerant and to be open-minded in everything. 25. When you go out of the East China Sea and fall into the Western Mountains, you will be sad for a day and happy for a day; if you don't get into trouble, you will feel comfortable and your heart will feel comfortable. 26. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten.
Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Regret is a spirit-consuming emotion. Regret is a greater loss than a loss and a greater mistake than a mistake. So don’t regret it (4) Strong will \Firm determination 27. I succeed because I am determined and never hesitate. Napoleon I 28 Important signs of mature personality: tolerance, tolerance, and kindness.
- "Human Weakness" 29. What makes you tired is not the mountain in front of you, but the grain of sand in your shoe. -Anonymous 30. The three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the ambition.
- "The Analects of Confucius. Zihan" (5) About love 31. True love will drive away crazy or nearly lustful things. Plato (6) About self-cultivation 32. A gentleman’s self-cultivation involves correcting his heart internally and correcting his appearance externally.
- (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu 33. The prime years will never come again, and it is difficult to get up again in one day. It is timely to encourage yourself, and the years wait for no one. - (Jin) Tao Yuanming 34. Morality should be noble; conduct should be frank; behavior should be polite.
- (French) Montesquieu 35. Quietness is used to cultivate one's character, frugality is used to cultivate virtue. Without indifference, one cannot have a clear ambition, and without tranquility, one cannot achieve far-reaching goals. - Zhuge Liang (7) People should always reflect on themselves - know themselves. 36. The most difficult thing is to know yourself.
(Greece) 37. Self-knowledge is the most rare knowledge. (Spain) 38. If you want to know yourself, it’s best to ask others.
(Japan) 39. Only among the crowd can you know yourself. (Germany) 40. I can clearly count the stars in the sky, but I can’t see the soot on my face.
(Malaysia) 41. Those who sing praises to themselves have only one audience. (Japan) 42. Don’t laugh at others’ hunched backs, straighten your own back.
(Soviet Union) 43. The most spiritual person cannot see his own back. (Africa) 44. The more incompetent a person is, the more he likes to find fault with others.
(Ireland) 45. Everyone knows where shoes pinch your feet. (Latin America) 46. You know where your shoes are tight.
(Spain) 47. You know your own appetite.
(Soviet Union) 48. If you don’t evaluate yourself, you won’t evaluate others.
(Germany) 49. If you can’t command yourself, you can’t command others. (USA) 50. People who are afraid of you in front of you will definitely hate you behind your back.
(UK) Motto about mothers: 51. A fetus in ten months is kind to a child, but repayment in three lifetimes is light. "Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" 52. A three-inch-foot-long baby has ten and eight years of hard work.
"Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" 53. The mother calls the child to lie down when he is dry, but the mother sleeps wet when the child poops. "Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" 54. The mother is suffering and the child is not seen, and the child is tired and the mother is uneasy.
"Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" 55. My mother is one hundred years old and she often prays for her eighty-year-old son. "Song of Encouraging Filial Piety" 56. The prodigal son does not feel cold when the loving mother is in front of you.
"Song of Encouragement to Filial Piety" 57. With all the love and kindness and suffering, who knows my parents who love me? "Children's Talk" 58. The white-headed old mother covers the door and cries, and rolls up the broken sleeves of her shirt. 〖Tang〗Han Yu 59. When the mother's instrument hangs down, it shines brightly on the tube, and in Wusu, the light shines silently on the night stand.
"Collection of Proverbs" 60. A loving mother loves her son not in return. 〖Han〗Liu An 61. Love a thousand kindnesses and hardships, who knows my parents who love me? "Children's Talk" 62. The white-headed old mother covers the door and cries, and rolls up the broken sleeves of her shirt.
〖Tang〗Han Yu 63. When the mother's instrument hangs down, it glows brightly on the tube, and in Wusu, the light shines silently on the night stand. "Collection of Proverbs" 64. The thread in a loving mother's hand is like the clothes on a wanderer's body.
Before leaving, I am afraid of returning late. Whoever speaks of an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring light.
〖Tang〗Meng Jiao 65. Former Meng’s mother chose a neighbor. If you don't learn, you will lose your chance.
"Three Character Classic" 66. Mother is the first parent in the world; maternal love is the first love in the world. Zi Yan 67. The only love in the world that is not contaminated - that is maternal love.
Zi Yan 68. When you are successful, everyone is a friend. But only the mother - she is the companion in failure.
Zheng Zhenduo 69. I am sorry for my parents, who worked so hard to give birth to me. "The Book of Songs" 70. Who can be parents without a father, and who can rely on without a mother? "The Book of Songs" 71. The virtue of the father is the inheritance of the son.
The word Yan 72. Parents are of high moral character; their children are well-educated. "Motto Couplet" 73. Don't be happy if you have children, but don't lament if you don't have children.
〖Tang〗Han Yu 74. People think that boys and girls are good, but they don’t know that boys and girls make people grow old. 〖Tang〗Wang Jian 75. Parents are the best in the world; brothers are the rarest people in the world.
"Proverbs Lian Bi" 76. As a parent, the best thing in the world is; as a child, the best thing in the world is filial piety. "Proverbs Lian Bi" 77. My father gave birth to me, my mother bowed to me, caressed me, supported me, raised me, nurtured me, cared for me, and restored me.
"The Book of Songs" 78. If the father is unkind, the son will be unfilial; if the elder brother is not friendly, the younger brother will be disrespectful; if the husband is unjust, the wife will be disobedient. 〖Southern and Northern Dynasties〗Yan Zhitui 79. In life, there are no virtuous fathers and brothers, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside. However, few people can succeed.
〖Song Dynasty〗Lv Gong 80. What my parents want to do, I will continue to describe; what my parents value, I will love them. "Proverbs Lian Bi" 81. In the eyes of parents, children are always a part of themselves, and children are an opportunity for their ideal self to come back again.
--Fei Xiaotong Those who cherish time: 82 When you are young, you work hard at the right time, but when you are a boss, you are disgusting. -- Ouyang Xiu 83 "Tomorrow" is the most dangerous enemy of hard work.
-- Suhomlinsky 84 Time takes away everything, and will change your name, appearance, personality, and destiny over the years. --Plato 85 Time has three steps: the future is belated, the present flies like an arrow, and the past remains stationary forever.
--Schiller 86 Because time is fleeting and irretrievable, it is said to be the most precious wealth in the world. Abusing time is undoubtedly the most meaningless way for people to spend their time. -- Somerset Maugham 87 How tiring and terrible it is to kill time. This invisible second hand keeps spinning under the horizon all the time. You kill time drunkenly and dreamily, but in the end you have to understand that it is still going on. Turn in circles, keep turning in circles ruthlessly... --Burr 88 There is no misfortune comparable to losing time.
--Turgenev 89 A young man works hard all his life and should not waste any time and effort. - Du Xunhe 90 The most promising winners are not those with outstanding talents but those who make the best use of every opportunity to explore and develop.
--Socrates 91 Time is life. Wasting other people's time for no reason is actually tantamount to seeking wealth and killing. - Lu Xun 92 If you don't see it, the water of the Yellow River will come down from the sky and rush to the sea never to return.
If you don’t see me, the bright mirror in the high hall has sad white hair, and it looks like blue silk in the morning and turns to snow in the evening. - Li Bai 93 Between heaven and earth in life, if a white horse passes by, it will happen suddenly.
--Zhuang Zhou 94 Time is a great teacher. -- Burke 95 Time is the place for the development of abilities and so on.
--Marx 96 Life is too short, there are too many things to do, I have to race against time. -- Edison 97 Don't spend a day in idleness.
--Qi Baishi 98 People who don’t know what to do tomorrow.
4. Famous sayings or sayings about tolerance
In the past, Hanshan asked Shide and said: The world slanders me, bullies me, humiliates me, laughs at me, underestimates me, despises me, hates me, Lie to me, how to deal with it? Shi Deyun: Just tolerate him, let him, let him, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years and you can see him.
Han Shanyun: Is there any other trick that can be avoided? Shi Deyun said: I once read the Maitreya Bodhisattva's stanza, please listen to me recite the stanza: Some people scold me, but I just say yes; some people beat me, and I fall asleep. If the tears are on my face and let it dry, I will save energy and he will have no worries.
This Paramita is a wonderful treasure. If you know this news, why worry about not being able to tell? People are weak in heart but not weak in heart; people are poor in Tao but not poor in Tao. They should wholeheartedly practice cultivation and always do it in Tao.
People in the world love glory, but I won’t fight for the occasion; fame and fortune are always in vain, and greed is endless. There is a mountain of gold and silver, which is hard to buy and has no limit. How many people in ancient and modern times can live for thousands?
This hero, that good man, look at his hair and hair, his face changes every year, the sun and the moon are like throwing shuttles, and the time is like shooting arrows. Soon the disease comes, and he lowers his head and sighs secretly, thinking about when he was young. If you don’t do your cultivation well, and you get sick and want to turn back, the King of Hell has no limit to turning around. Put down your hands immediately, it's not too late to look back; you don't care about right or wrong, you don't take care of the house, you don't argue with others, you don't act like a good man, you don't notice when you are scolded, you are like a dumb person when you ask questions, you don't pay attention to them, and you push them around. When I turn around, I am not afraid of people’s laughter, nor do I show any shame. I have put aside my children’s debt for several years and never see them again.
Everyone is fighting for fame and fortune, and in a blink of an eye, they are surrounded by the wilderness. I think people in the world are all bullshit.
I advise you to turn around and focus on your cultivation. Be a man and cut it in two with one knife; jump out of the red fire pit and be a cool man.
Understand the true common sense, and the sun and moon are neighbors. ".
5. Collect famous aphorisms and sayings about (patience)
Patience and persistence are painful, but it will gradually bring you benefits. [Success·Methods and Techniques |Will]
Hope is the crutch of perseverance, and patience is the travel bag. Carrying them, people can embark on the eternal journey [Life·Destiny|Hope, Expectation]
Talent is. Long-term perseverance [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
Life is just like a marathon... Only those who persevere to the end can be called winners. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
If you persevere, the dead wood will not break; if you persevere, the gold and stone will be carved. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
To see the sunrise, you must stay until dawn. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence] < /p>
“Don’t be ashamed to be the last. "Even if he is slow and unstoppable, even if he lags behind and even if he fails, he can definitely achieve the goal he yearns for. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
Perseverance can carve gold and stone. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence] ]
Great works are accomplished not by strength, but by persistence. [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
It is often the last key that opens the door. Inspiration | Persistence]
How can plum blossoms smell fragrant without being turned over to the bone? [Inspirational·Inspiration | Persistence]
Although the ax is small, it will eventually become more powerful after being chopped down many times. Can chop down the strongest oak tree [Inspirational·Inspiration|Persistence]
If a person does not have perseverance in doing things, it will be difficult for him to succeed in anything.
[Inspirational·Encouragement|Persistence]
No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking steps
6. About. Famous quotes about patience
? A little impatience will ruin a big plan - "The Analects of Confucius"
? Patience and time are often more effective than strength and anger - La Fontaine<. /p>
? The body is torture to the soul; it is hell, destiny, burden, strong chains, and unbearable punishment - Paradas
? Patience- ----A mixture of physical caution and moral courage - Hardy
? It is easier to endure shame than offense - Jay Taylor
? A generous man, he Love is often more than resentment. He is optimistic, cheerful, open-minded, and tolerant rather than sad, depressed, anxious, or angry; [Details] - Munir Nasuf
? Hope is a strong cane, Patience is a travel garment. With these two things, people can walk through this world and the grave and move towards eternity. - Luo Gao
? Endure the pain that others cannot endure, and eat what others cannot. Bitterness is for reaping unearned gains. - Anonymous
? Cowardice is the mother of cruelty - Montaigne
? A loving mother cannot bear to have a spoiled son. - Cabinet width
? What is not essential for a leader is patience - Pete
? I don't think anyone can tolerate himself to admit that he is despicable. Behavior? Who has not done something despicable? ——Trollope
? The virtue required by fortune is temperance, and the virtue required by adversity is perseverance. ——Fei Bacon<. /p>
? It’s hard to die because the country’s revenge has not been avenged, so I can’t help but cry goodbye.
——Liao Zhongkai
? Love is like depositing money in a bank. Appreciating the other person’s strengths is like supplementing income; tolerating the other person’s shortcomings is like controlling spending. The so-called forever. [Details] - Bacon
? Cruelty has sharp teeth - Shakespeare
? Patience - a mixture of physical caution and moral courage. ——Hardy
? Benefiting oneself at the expense of others is worthless. Being intolerant of others is selfishness. Being intolerant of others’ selfishness and condemning it is actually a kind of selfishness. ——Santayana
< p> 7. Quotes about toleranceTake a step back and the sky will be brighter.
Only by moving forward can one leave the shadow behind! ——He Donglin, China Patience is a plaster that is beneficial to all pain. ——Cervantes The grass of patience is bitter, but it will eventually bear sweet and soft fruits. ——Simrock The taste of bitterness first and then sweetness is much more charming than the taste of sweetness first and then bitterness. ——Wang Shao Men's Middle School If you can't avoid it, then your duty is to endure it. If you are destined to endure it, then it would be foolish to say that you can't endure it. Patience is the basis of all intelligence. ——Plato in Ancient Greece Don’t be eager for quick success, don’t worry about gains and losses, and unswervingly lay the foundation and create conditions, and you will have the fun of unexpected success. ——Jove Perseverance is a big factor in success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake up. ——Longfellow Beauty Perseverance is a major factor in success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake up. A gentleman tolerates what others cannot tolerate, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and deals with what others cannot tolerate. ——Manan Tunlan
8. What are the poems describing tolerance and concession
The poems describing tolerance and concession are as follows:
1. "Huainanzi"
It is large enough to accommodate the crowd, and virtuous enough to hold a long distance.
2. "A Gift to Pei Shuduangong"
A gentleman's capacity is limited, and his chest can swallow hundreds of rivers.
3. "Zeng Guangxian Wen"
Endure the calm for a while, and take a step back to open up the world.
4. "Quequatrains" by a Taoist who was good at chess in the Song Dynasty
Once you emerge from the cave, you will be invincible, and you will be able to spare others and spare others.
5. "Huainanzi"
Broad but chestnut, strict and warm
6. "Shangshu"
The sea accepts all rivers and has tolerance Naida
7. Qing Dynasty? Jin Ying's "Proverbs Lianbi"
People's minds are narrow if they have many desires, and wide if they have few desires.
8. "The Analects of Confucius. Wei Linggong"
Small impatience will mess up big plans.
9. Sima Qian's "Historical Records"
Small intolerance harms great justice.
10. "A Book with Han Jingzhou"
Who can be perfect except Yao and Shun?
9. Verses about tolerance
In ancient Greek mythology, there was a great hero named Hercules. One day he was walking on a rough mountain road and found a bag-like bag at his feet. The thing was very annoying, so Hercules stepped on it. Unexpectedly, instead of being crushed, the thing swelled and doubled in size. Hercules became so angry that he picked up a piece of wood as thick as a bowl. Hit it with a stick, and the thing grew so big that it blocked the road. At this moment, a saint came out of the mountain and said to Hercules: "Friend, don't touch it, forget it, leave it and go away! It is called the bag of hatred. If you don't offend it, it will become as small as before. Violate it, and it will swell, block your way, and be hostile to you to the end.
In fact, we often make the same mistake as Heracles. When encountering conflicts, we are unwilling to suffer and move forward. Pressing hard, arguing with reason, insisting on losing face, thinking that tolerating means losing face and losing dignity will only make the conflict escalate and intensify in the end. In fact, tolerating does not mean losing dignity, but being mature, calm, rational and open-minded. An open-minded performance and a temporary concession can earn others' gratitude and respect and avoid deepening conflicts. Society is like a complicated network. We will inevitably have misunderstandings or frictions with others. Be kind to grudges and learn to respect your differences. For those you like, fill your bag of hatred with tolerance, so that you will have less resentment, more joy, and win more respect.
Understand the principle of taking a step back to open up the world. If we give ourselves five minutes to think calmly when we are in trouble, we will definitely have a more open mind and make wiser decisions. Everyone has their own preferences in life. You like to eat fish, and he likes to eat duck, although he has a hobby. They are all different, but fate arranges for everyone to eat at the same table, and everyone eats what they like. Why not, and why force others to eat what they like if we can admit that the quality is different. If there are differences objectively, we will be happy with each other's differences. You have your way of thinking, and I have my perspective on life. If you can learn from each other and tolerate each other, you can change your thinking and use your broad mind. To tolerate all things, take a step back and the sea and the sky are vast. At that time, you will feel that "the bright moon has decorated your windows, and you have decorated other people's dreams." There is an unexpected beauty and an unexpected miracle.
"The king of hell is easy to mess with, but the devil is difficult to deal with." In fact, the more status and high-quality people are, the easier it is to get along with them, and the easier it is to resolve conflicts. On the contrary, those brats who like to brag, talk shamelessly and show off love to bully the weak. They always try to show their own importance by knocking others down to show their loyalty to the King of Hell. Instead, they show ignorance in thought and incompetence in action. An excellent King of Hell must have the demeanor of a king, have the wisdom to control the situation, understand the importance of harmony, have a high level of self-esteem, pursue excellence in moral character, and always think twice when the situation changes. Think again, suppress those brats who are eager to show off their teeth and claws, understand that being broad-minded and humble in treating talents is broad-minded, and avoid more meaningless disputes.
Zhang Tingyu, the prime minister of the Qing Dynasty, and a waiter named Ye were both from Anhui. The two families lived side by side and wanted to build houses, so they had a dispute over land. Mrs. Zhang then wrote a book in Beijing and asked Prime Minister Zhang to intervene. After reading the letter, the prime minister immediately wrote a poem to persuade the old lady: "A thousand miles of family letters are just for the wall, what's the harm in giving up three feet more? The Great Wall is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen." Mrs. Zhang understood the letter and immediately moved the wall. Give way three feet. Seeing this, the Ye family felt deeply ashamed and immediately gave way three feet back. In this way, a six-foot-wide lane was formed between the courtyard walls of Zhang Ye's family, which became the famous "Six-foot Lane". What Zhang Tingyu lost was some of his ancestral homestead, but what he gained in exchange was neighborhood harmony and a reputation that would last forever.
Everything has its longs and shorts, yin and yang, roundness and deficiencies, advantages and disadvantages, victory and defeat, not to mention the ever-changing life! When dealing with disputes and contradictions, why not think more about it: giving way is the best way to deal with the world. Those disputes between neighbors and antagonism between relatives and friends may seem a bit ridiculous or even absurd if you calm down and think about it carefully. Are you willing to be the subject of sidelong jokes from onlookers? So, why not do it if everyone takes a step back and turns the hostility into friendship? Smart people do not blindly strive for victory. When necessary, they would rather take a step back to avoid the edge. Sometimes they can not only win the respect of bystanders, but also the respect of their opponents. You say, the real winner Who is it?
Don’t let hatred cover up your character, and don’t let quarrels damage your image. Tolerance is a virtue. Tolerating others is to be kind to yourself. Remember this sentence: "The heart is a container. When there is more and more love, hatred will be squeezed out." Let us learn to be tolerant, fill our hearts with love, be kind to resentment, take a step back, the sea and the sky will be brighter; be patient for a while, and everything will be calm. .