1. What are the poems describing communication

1. "Changganxing·Where does the Jun family live" comes from Cui Hao of the Tang Dynasty

Where does the Jun family live? I live here, and I live in Hengtang. I stopped the boat to ask for help, maybe I am a fellow countryman.

Explanation:

Brother, may I ask where your home is. My family lives in Hengtang, Jiankang.

Stop the boat and let me ask you a question. Judging from our accents, I think we are from the same hometown.

2. "Nine Days of Climbing the Mountain" is from Du Mu in the Tang Dynasty

The wild geese are flying in the autumn shadow of Jiang Han, and they are carrying pots with guests on the green Wei. It's rare to smile in this world, and I must return with my head full of chrysanthemums.

But you will be drunk to celebrate the festival, and you don’t have to come to hate the sunset. This has been the case throughout the ages, why should Niu Shan be alone in his clothes?

Explanation:

The river reflects the autumn shadow. The wild geese have just flown south. I invite friends to bring their wine bottles to the peaks and climb the green hills.

It is rare in this life that you smile when you are troubled by the world. When the chrysanthemums are in full bloom, you should go home with your head full.

You should just drink to your heart's content to celebrate the Double Ninth Festival, and don't have to worry about the setting sun.

Life is short and it has always been this way throughout the ages. Why do you have to cry like Qi Jinggong facing Niushan.

3. "Autumn Wind" comes from Liu Yuxi in the Tang Dynasty

Where does the autumn wind come? Xiaoxiao sends the wild geese off. When the morning comes to enter the garden tree, the solitary guest is the first to smell it.

Explanation:

The autumn wind blows from nowhere, sending flocks of wild geese rustling.

The autumn wind comes to the trees in the courtyard early in the morning, and the lonely traveler is the first to hear the sound of the autumn wind.

4. "Untitled · Last Night's Stars and Last Night's Wind" comes from Li Shangyin of the Tang Dynasty

Last Night's Stars and Last Night's Wind is on the west side of the painting building and east of Guitang. There is no colorful phoenix flying wings in the body, but there is a clear understanding in the heart.

Separate seats are provided with spring wine to warm them, and the partitions are covered with wax lamps. Sighing, I listened to the drum and went to answer the official's request. I walked around Malantai and turned around.

Explanation:

The stars were shining brightly last night, but there was a cool breeze in the middle of the night; our banquet was held on the west bank of the painting building and east of Guitang.

There are no colorful phoenix wings on the body, so they cannot fly together; but in the heart, they are like a consonant, and their emotions are closely connected.

Guess hooks and play with each other, drink spring wine across the seats to warm the heart; group up to make wine orders, and decide the winner by the red candlelight.

It’s a pity that when you hear the drums at the fifth watch, you should go up to the court and rush to Lantai, like basil fluttering in the wind.

5. The cold autumn comes from the poet Su Shen of the Song Dynasty

The lotus wanes and the moon fades, leaving the car behind. The cloud shadows are whirling. The geese dispersed for a while, and I was as lonely as I was. What can I say about being thousands of miles away from you? Pack a few red beans into your purse. When autumn arrives, the leaves fall, and the rhyme of Song poetry breaks. You have a little evil idea, but you have to travel far away, and your return date is unpredictable. Lord Mingyue, how can you wake up alone if you are greedy for drinking the fruit of lovesickness? In the hazy autumn wind and winter snow, we stay together and sing long songs.

Explanation:

A crescent moon gradually hangs on the willow branches, like eyebrow marks. The pale moonlight shines through the flower trees, and the hazy brilliance cuts through the early twilight. The bright new moon makes people want to reunite. The beauties in the boudoir worship the moon more deeply and pray that they can meet their sweethearts on the charming flower-scented path.

A crescent moon is like two beautiful eyebrows that have not been finished. It must be that Chang'e is still feeling parted. The most endearing thing is that in the clear sky, the crescent moon is just like the curtains on the treasure curtain, small and exquisite.

The moon is round, waning, and waxing. This has been the case for thousands of years. There is no need to ask carefully. I sigh that Wu Gang moved and sharpened his jade ax, but it is difficult to make up for this waning moon. The Taiye Pool in the old capital of Chang'an still exists, but it is desolate and deserted. Who can re-describe the beautiful lakes and mountains of the past?

The late night in my hometown is long and long. I hope that the moon will become clear and clear soon, shining uprightly on my door. It's a pity that the mountains and rivers in the shadow of the moon are infinite, but I am growing old in vain. The symbol of the mountains and rivers of the motherland can only be seen in the moon shadow. 2. Poems about communication

"Farewell to Li Dan"

Era: Tang Dynasty Author: Wei Yingwu

Wearing the Hui Wen Crown on the head, I am determined to win. Pianpian rode four or five times and ended up heading towards Bingzhou.

The name is in the Xianggong curtain, but the kindness of Qiushan has not been repaid. The wife is not taken care of, but the relatives and friends can stay safely.

Su Xi and Wen Han made preparations for each other. Suddenly parting letters were in vain, and we exchanged tears.

The distant county lies disabled, and the cool air fills the west building. I think of my son facing a long road, it is the autumn of Huaihai.

"Qinyuanchun · Yunhequanhong"

Era: Song Dynasty Author: Liu Zihuan

Yunhequanhong, the small one is like a cup, the big one is like a cup Poppy. The stone banquet is smooth and clear, and it tolerates a few guests. The gurgling water responds and surrounds the guests. Three streams communicate with each other, two cliffs have waterfalls, and snow and frost fall on the green screen. Where I walk, there are red grass, green grass, ancient trees and vines. Wandering but leaning against the mountain jacaranda. Laughing at the landscape entertains people as if they were sentimental. Seeing sideways and sideways, there are mountains and peaks, mountains and valleys. Looking up at the clouds, Mao Ci chickens and dogs, I suspect they are immortals coming to avoid Qin. Outside the green forest, you can see the misty haze and the faint sound of luan and sheng.

"Huang Yinger·The Master of True Nature Cultivation in the Heart"

Era: Yuan Author: Wang Zhe

The Master of True Nature Cultivation in the Heart exercises the golden elixir fluid. Exchange watering, and there will be a beautiful tree without roots.

Regular irrigation moistens the Yao branches, and the dense leaves are full of yellow orioles. Ying Ling's voice is bright and her eyes are bright, she is looking at the baby, and she is riding a tiger against Fang. Worthy of complaint. The girl crossed the green dragon, and the four of them returned together. The original essence is gained at the beginning, and it still shines in silence. The returning light makes the fetus fairy dance. He should appear in Kunlun and recover Penglai. I don't dream about clouds and clouds, Luanhe will come naturally.

"Book Sigh"

Era: Song Dynasty Author: Lu You

People in high temples travel in full attire, and the elders and elders in the Central Plains exchange tears.

Who among you can restore the power of heaven? The scattered officials are empty and worried.

It rains lightly and the fishing nunnery lifts the net in the morning, and the moon shines to plow the fields and drive the cattle at night.

When will China be restored? Looking to the north, I can see thousands of miles of autumn scenery.

"One Hundred and Four Stanzas"

Era: Song Dynasty Author: Shi Shaotan

The phoenix chariot ascended to Chacha for a week, and we communicated with each other in tears as we missed you. .

Climbing the dragon with no way out, I feel choked by the air, and I feel a little sad when I gaze at the sky. 3. Ancient poems about communicating with others

1. Relatives and friends in Luoyang are like asking each other, and a heart of ice is in a jade pot.

——From "Farewell to Xin Jian at the Furong Tower" Tang Dynasty: Wang Changling explained: My friend, if relatives and friends in Luoyang ask about me, just say that I am still a jade pot with a heart of ice and stick to my faith! 2. Don’t ask each other, because you are afraid of asking each other, and asking each other will only make you more resentful. ——From "Drunken Flowers·Xiu Xiangwen" Tang Dynasty: Mao Wenxi's explanation: Don't ask, for fear of being asked, how much resentment will be added to each other.

3. Who asks about the hotel? Han Deng is the only one who is friendly. ——From "Stone Station of the Big Night" Tang Dynasty: Dai Shulun's interpretation: Who comes to visit and express condolences in this lonely hotel, there is only a lonely lamp to accompany people.

4. Stop talking if you want to. But it was a cool day in autumn.

——From "Chou Nuer·Shubo Mountain Road Zhongbi" Song Dynasty: Xin Qiji's explanation: I want to say something but can't. I want to say it but I can’t, but I say it’s a cool autumn! 5. Many things in ancient and modern times are all made fun of.

——From "Linjiang Immortal·Rolling Waters of the Yangtze River Passing East" Ming Dynasty: Yang Shen explained: The disturbances throughout the ages have become the material for chatting over drinks. 6. A misty and dangerous pavilion, laughing and chatting alone on a thousand peaks.

——From "Dianjianglip·Shaoxing Yimao Dengjue Pavilion" Song Dynasty: Ye Mengde's explanation: The pavilion vaguely emerges on the mountain peak that towers into the clouds. 7. Where does your family live? I live in Hengtang.

——From "Changganxing·Where does Jun's family live" Tang Dynasty: Cui Hao's explanation: Brother, where is your home? My family lives in Hengtang, Jiankang.

8. This has always been the case throughout the ages, why should Niu Shan be alone in his clothes? ——From "Nine Days Qi'an Climbs High" Tang Dynasty: Du Mu's explanation: Life is short and it has always been like this throughout the ages. Why cry like Qi Jinggong in front of Niushan.

9. It is easy to change an old person’s heart, but it is easy to change an old person’s heart. ——From "Magnolia · Ancient Juejue Ci, Cambodian Friends" Qing Dynasty: Nalan Xingde's explanation: Now it is easy to change one's heart, but you say that it is easy for lovers to change their hearts.

10. When you ask poor questions, the fishermen’s songs go deep into Pu Shen. ——From "Rewarding Zhang Shaofu" Tang Dynasty: Wang Wei's explanation: If you want to know the truth about poverty and prosperity, please listen to the sound of fishermen's songs deep in the water. 4. Famous quotes about interacting with people

The terrible thing is not loneliness and loneliness, but that you have to deal with people you don’t want to interact with.

——He Huaihong A person who never appreciates others is a person who will never be appreciated by others. ——Wang Guozhen Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate.

——Sanmao does his best for others, and in the end, he does his best for himself. ——(UK) Ruskin: People like to be strong, and I overcome them with gentleness; people use skills, and I feel them with sincerity; people use anger, and I use reason to bend them.

——Jin Ying Beautiful things are often because they are sincere. ——Roland Relationship is an inevitable companion of human beings.

(Marx) Individuals are social beings. (Marx) What is society - whatever its form - exactly? It is the product of people's interaction.

(Marx) The further we go back in history, the more individuals, and thus individuals who produce, appear to be less independent and subordinate to a larger whole: initially it is quite natural to be in the family and in the extended in families that became clans; later in the various forms of communes that arose from conflicts and fusions between clans. (Marx) Man is the most veritable political animal. He is not only a gregarious animal, but also an animal that can only be independent in society.

It is unthinkable for an isolated person to produce outside society... (Marx) Social relations actually determine the extent to which a person can develop.

(Marx) People initially reflected themselves on others. The person named Peter regarded himself as a person just because he regarded the person named Paul as the same as himself. (Marx) If you tell a friend about your happiness, you will get two happiness; and if you pour your sorrow into a friend, you will get half of the sorrow.

There must be a teacher among the three of us. Choose the good ones and follow them, and choose the bad ones and change them. (Confucius) Those who are superior should not be arrogant; those who are wise and wise should not be arrogant; those who are poor should be treated quickly; they should not compete with those who are ahead of others; they should be resolute and courageous, and should not hurt others.

Isn’t it a gentleman if a person doesn’t know something but is not embarrassed? (Confucius) Old people, I am old, and people are old; young people, I am young, and people are young. (Mencius) ·Friendship between life and death is extremely valuable - Folk Proverb ·When you have friendship with others, you cannot seek temporary intimacy. People who are easy to see happiness will also be easy to see anger, so just obey.

——Anonymous · When you interact with others, don’t seek temporary intimacy. People who are easy to see joy will also be easy to see anger. If you just pay respects according to etiquette, you won’t see any good, and you won’t be surprised by the traces. The so-called indifferent can be For a long time - Chen Dao·Cultivation of one's body and then friendship, good one's strategy and then action. ——Yang Zi ·Those who make detailed friends will not lose people; those who make extensive friends will regret it more.

——(Jin) Ge Hong ·Only by interacting with people without prejudice can you make friends. ——Roland ·Don’t be flattering when you surrender, don’t be arrogant when you surrender.

——(Chinese) Yang Xiong ·Good habits are the best clothes a person can wear in social interactions. ——Socrates·The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as wine; the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as wine.

——Zhuang Zhou·In order to make a child have self-confidence and gain a little skill in getting along with others, he sacrifices his innocence and lets him live with those uneducated and evil children——Locke·The Gentleman Friendship is as light as water, and friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine. A gentleman is as indifferent as a relative, - Anonymous · If you are not careful at the beginning of your friendship, you will become enemies later.

——Shen Juyun ·Snobbish acquaintances are difficult to keep for a long time. ——(Three Kingdoms) Zhuge Liang·The friendship between forces is difficult to establish over a long distance.

——Lu Ji · People need to have long-term friendships, but short-term accounts need to be settled. ——Anonymous Life is precious. Knowing each other is valuable, so why bother with money. ——Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty, "Gift to Friends" Poetry No. 2 Friendship is a kind of friendship Tender and composed love, guided by reason, formed by habit, born of long-term acquaintance and mutual agreement, without jealousy or fear. ——He Mai Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.

- Kahlil Gibran True friendship is like phosphorus - it shines brightest in the darkest moments around you. ——D.M. True friendship is a plant that grows slowly.

——Washington Good friends are like different bodies but the same mind. ——Aristotle The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts.

——Einstein You may forget those who have laughed with you; but you will never forget those who have cried with you. ——Kahlil Gibran Treat everyone equally, be confidant to a few people, and do not be indebted to anyone.

——Shakespeare Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness. ——Balzac Where one person may perish alone, two people together may be saved.

——Balzac The relationship between acquaintance and friendship is what flirting is to love - exciting, but not satisfying. ——Alec Waugh Friendship is a union of souls. This union can be divorced. It is a tacit contract between two sensitive and upright people.

—— Voltaire Only to friends can you confide your sorrows and joys, fears and hopes, suspicions and joys. ——Bacon There is nothing more dangerous than ignorant friends.

It is better to have smart enemies. ——La Fontaine A gentle attitude is indeed a great comfort to a despised heart.

- Romain Rolland If there is a misunderstanding between friends, they should exchange views frankly and not slander behind their backs; if they make mistakes, they should be warned face to face, and their merits should be praised behind their backs. ——Kaiyuan Yixuan Help your friends to maintain friendship; forgive your enemies to gain influence.

——Franklin People form friendships for many reasons, some out of nature, some out of contract, some out of self-interest, and some out of comradeship. —Jay Taylor Those who limit friendship to two people seem to confuse the security of wise friendship with the jealousy and folly of love.

——Adam Smith It is easy to die for a friend, but it is difficult to find a friend worth dying for. ——Mho People who make friends with you because it is profitable will also break up with you because they are unprofitable.

——Seneca Whoever has met a friendly person once in the world and experienced the state of sincerity has tasted the joy of heaven and earth. ——Romain Rolland There is only one way to understand people: don’t be impatient when judging them.

——Saint Peve Those who can speak frankly to you are your best friends. ——Boswell Visit more friends who are in crisis rather than who are popular.

——Kailun Even if everyone in the world hates you and believes you are bad, as long as you have a clear conscience, you will not be without friends. ——Charlotte Bronte Be sincere. 5. Poems about interactions between people in ancient times

Poor and humble friends: Friends made when people were humble and of low status.

Jinlan acquaintance: a friend who has a close friendship and is as close as a brother. Friend who cuts his throat to death: a friend who shares life and death and faces adversity.

Year-end acquaintance: friends of different generations and with a large age difference. Friendly friends: Friends of the opposite sex who grew up together.

Commoner acquaintances: friends who meet as civilians. Friend in times of need: a friend formed in times of adversity. So...you have talents and I am not poor.

- (Qing Dynasty) Zheng Banqiao: Knowing one's friends across the sea is as close as one's neighbor to the end of the world. - (Tang Dynasty) Wang Bo is both a fallen person from the end of the world, so why should we have known each other before.

- (Tang Dynasty) Bai Juyi, don’t worry about the future. No one in the world knows you. - (Tang Dynasty) Gao Shi The best thing in the world is to make friends, and the best thing to do with friends is to talk about it.

- (Qing Dynasty) Pu Songling The most important thing for people to know each other is knowing each other, and the most important thing for people to know each other is understanding their hearts. - (Spring and Autumn Period) Mencius The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as wine.

- (Warring States) Zhuangzi: Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to Mo are black. -(Western Jin Dynasty) Fu Xuan knows that life is precious, so why use gold and money?

- (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai keeps his word when making friends. - (Spring and Autumn Period) The friendship between Zixia and commoners should not be forgotten.

- (Tang Dynasty) Li Yanshou A gentleman and a gentleman are friends of the same way, and a villain is a friend of a villain who shares the same interests. - (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu enjoys knowing each other in life.

- (Song Dynasty) Wang Anshi It is better to dissolve enemies than to make knots. Everyone looks back and looks at the future. -(Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong is a hero in times of adversity.

- (Qing Dynasty) Wei Xi It is easy to get ten thousand taels of gold, but it is hard to find a close friend. - (Qing) Cao Xueqin changed my heart for yours, and we know each other deeply and remember each other deeply.

- (Song Dynasty) Gu Xia Zhong Ziqi died, and Boya stopped playing the piano for the rest of his life. - "Book of Han" Mountains and rivers are not important, the important thing is to meet someone you know.

-Bao Rong is a man of great character and deserves to be the hero of the world. - "The Chronicle of the Three Kingdoms. The Book of Shu. The Biography of Liu Ba" A gentleman does not criticize others when he submits them to others, and does not commit blasphemy when he submits his orders to subordinates.

- "Book of Changes" If you know that we are brothers all over the world, no matter where we meet, we will not be old friends. -Chen Gangzhong is a friend who is united by righteousness.

- (Song Dynasty) Zhu Xi's clothes are not as good as new, and his people are not as good as before. - "Han Yuefu" Concentric and harmonious, always consistent.

- (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu knows friendship through death and life. One is poor and the other is rich, which is a state of acquaintance.

One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is a matter of seeing. - "Historical Records" does not say that when the two hearts are drunk, they will no longer receive a glass of wine.

- (Jin Dynasty) Tao Yuanming There are no old or young people in life, so why should we first agree with each other when talking about friendship? - (Tang Dynasty) Du Fu had a heart-to-heart relationship with each other, but they remembered each other again from then on.

- (Tang Dynasty) Bai Juyi: Friendships in life are at the end and at the beginning, not at the middle of the ups and downs. - (Tang Dynasty) Helan Jinming is happy today, don’t forget each other after we say goodbye.

- (Three Kingdoms) Cao Zhi knew people all over the world and knew how many people he knew. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong enjoyed knowing each other when he was young, but missed his old friends in his twilight years.

- (Tang Dynasty) Han Yu saw friendship between the noble and the humble. - (Tang Dynasty) King Luo Bin knew each other in times of crisis, so what good would it do to be alone?

- (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai threw him a papaya and hugged him with a Qiong Yao. It is always good to be rewarded by a bandit.

- "The Book of Songs" The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. - "Yanmen Collection" Friends who agree with each other are always affectionate, and close friends are willing to talk to each other.

- (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong and Feng Menglong are of the same mind, and their sharpness can break through metal. - "Yi. Xici" The baby is whining, please ask for his friend's voice.

- "Book of Songs. Xiaoya" Happy new acquaintance. - (Warring States) Qu Yuan cut his throat to death.

- "Book of Han. The Biography of Zhuge Feng" is a rare friend in the world. - (Tang Dynasty) Meng Haoran has many friends.

- "The Analects of Confucius. Zilu" Reciprocity should be respected. - "Book of Rites. Qu Li" A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence.

- "The Analects of Confucius. Yan Yuan" Those who use money to make friends will lose their friendship when their wealth is exhausted; those who use sex to make friends will lose their beauty and love you. - "Warring States Policy" When the severe cold comes, frost and snow fall, you will know how luxuriant the pines and cypresses are.

- "Huainanzi" Those who unite by power will be separated when their power is exhausted. - "Historical Records" A horse's strength can be seen from a distance, and a person's heart can be seen from time to time.

- "Selected Songs of the Yuan Dynasty. Strive to repay kindness" We know each other no matter how far away we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles apart. - (Tang Dynasty) Zhang Jiuling smiled when he met, and cried when seeing each other off.

- (Tang Dynasty) Wang Wei The Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as Wang Lun’s love for me. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai's friendship becomes closer with age.

- (Tang Dynasty) Although Du Fu has brothers, they are not as good as friends. - "Baopuzi. Communication" A gentleman is as light as water, and love becomes truer with time.

Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye. 6. What are the poems related to "communication"

Where does the Jun family live? I live in Hengtang.

I stopped the boat and asked for help, maybe I am a fellow countryman.

This poem was written by Cui Hao, a poet of the Tang Dynasty.

Poetry Explanation

Where do you live? My home is in Hengtang. Stopping the boat and asking each other for a while, maybe we are still from the same hometown.

Poetry Appreciation

This poem is a poem in which a woman asks a question to a man. In just a few words, it vividly depicts the woman’s desire to get to know the other person but is afraid of being explicit. . The poet cleverly uses his tone of voice to convey the person's demeanor, and uses the woman's eagerness to announce herself to the family, conveying the woman's bold, intelligent, innocent voice and smile, which is simple, clear, and full of interest.

This kind of communication between chance encounters gives people a different kind of reverie and beauty. 7. Famous quotes about "communication"

If you work modestly, others will follow you; arrogance If you are arrogant, many people will go away.

—— Ge Hong

Those who rely on the greatness of the country, are proud of the people, and want to see power over the enemy are called arrogant soldiers. —— Prime Minister Wei

If the debauchery fails, the body will be in disaster if it is full. ——Zhang Yong

He who empties himself will advance to the foundation of virtue. ——Fang Xiaoru

If you are full, what is the point of not losing anything? Be careful! Be careful! ——Zhu Shunshui

A serious illness in life is just the word "arrogance". ——Wang Yangming

Only by not being arrogant can you learn from the strengths of others and develop your own learning. ——Tan Sitong

The most foolish thing in life is when the bad things have been heard, and the most evil thing in life is when people are good at talking. —— Shen Juyun

Among the relationships between people, the most important thing for the happiness of life is truth, sincerity and integrity.

——Ben Franklin

The more sincerity you use, the less you use means.

——Yun Daiying

With sincerity, you will have an open mind. With an open mind, you will be willing to put aside yourself to understand others, and you will also be able to put aside your hypocritical self-esteem and understand yourself.

——Fu Lei

Only by interacting with others and treating them with sincerity can we gain true friendship.

—— Carnegie 8. Famous quotes for communicating with others

1. No matter what happens, you must first think about whether you have done something wrong. If you are right

(that is impossible), then stand in the other person's perspective and experience the other person's feelings.

2. Allow yourself to adapt to the environment, because the environment will never adapt to you. Even if it's a very, very painful process.

3. Be generous. If you don’t know how to be generous, learn to be generous. If being generous really makes you feel bad, then pretend to be generous.

4. Be low-key, low-key, and low-key (even lower-key than a temporary worker. In the eyes of others, you may not be as good as a temporary worker who has worked for several years).

5. Be sweet and don’t begrudge your cheers. (Know how to praise people. Good compliments will make people feel happy, but don’t overdo it to the point of being offensive.)

6. If you feel that your work has gone very smoothly in the recent period, then you should Be careful.

7. Be polite. Look the person in the eye when you say hello. Communicate with older people by calling them elders, because you are just like a kid.

8. Talk less and do more. Talking too much will lead to mistakes. Talk less when there are many people.

11. Keep time, but don’t expect others to keep time.

12. Be true to your promises, but don’t make them easily. Don't always keep other people's promises to you in mind and take them as true.

13. Don’t borrow money from colleagues. If you borrow money, you must pay it back on time.

14. Don’t lend money to colleagues. If you have to borrow money, just give it to him.

15. Don’t shirk responsibility (even if it is someone else’s responsibility. Will you die if you take it once in a while?).

16. Don’t speak ill of a colleague behind another colleague’s back. You must insist on saying good things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that the good words won't reach the ears of the person involved. If someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, smile.

17. Avoid open confrontation with colleagues (including public objections, fierce ones are even more undesirable).

18. Always help others, but don’t let the people being helped take it for granted.

19. Telling the truth will get you into trouble.

20. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things but be affectionate to people; or be a person first and work second.

21. Always check whether you are arrogant, proud, or looking down on others. (Even if you are talented, it will be in vain without the cooperation and help of others)

22. Patience is a required course in life. (You have to be patient for a lifetime. Some people will fail this lesson until they die.)

23. When you arrive in a new place, don’t rush into one of the circles. After enough time, the circle that belongs to you will automatically accept you.

24. Have a normal heart. It’s not a big deal, just think of the bad things in the best light and good things in the worst light

25. Try not to have an office romance. If it cannot be avoided, avoid any form of physical contact in the office, including eyes. (If you or the other person are married, - Congratulations, brother. You are dead!!!!)

26. Able to flatter (this is one of the important ways to communicate with your immediate boss) , but be careful not to get your hands dirty. Never use your tongue to lick flattery.

27. Qualifications are very important. Don't play tricks with the old guys, otherwise you will die very ugly.

28. Good intentions sometimes do not have good results, but you should not be discouraged by this.

29. Be respectful to those above and be generous to those below.

30. If you lead a team, when summarizing the work, you should take all the mistakes on yourself and give all the credit to your subordinates. When your boss and subordinates are present at the same time, remember to praise your subordinates promptly. When criticizing someone, you must do it when it’s just the two of you.