1, letting go is like pulling a tooth. The moment you pull out your tooth, you will feel relieved. But the tongue will always lick into the empty tooth cavity involuntarily, several times a day. Doesn't mean you can completely ignore the pain. The vacancy left behind will always be there, and occasionally you will even miss it. It takes time to adapt, but you always have to pull out your teeth, because it hurts too much, so let go and let go.
2, if you have a heart, you will be more free and easy; If you have a normal heart, you will be more calm; If you have compassion, you will be kinder; If you have a grateful heart, you will be more satisfied; If you have a causal heart, you will be more wise; Having a tolerant heart will make you happier; If you have a detached heart, you will be more indifferent; If you have an inclusive heart, you will be more open-minded; Always look at your heart, and you will become smarter.
3, life is like water, there is agitation, there is liberation; There must be high and low; Whether gorgeous or colorful, elegant or fresh, every life must have its own charm. A person's life, there are vigorous glory, but more is plain and gentle. People need a kind of dullness, which is silent but ubiquitous.
There is no distinction between beauty and ugliness in the form and behavior of everything in the world, but different people have different views in their eyes, following their own wishes or blindly following the aesthetics of others. This is beauty, otherwise it is ugliness. Whether it is the beauty of thought, behavior, nature, art and so on. These beauties and ugliness have not existed since ancient times, nor are they immutable.
It's hard to be happy without appreciating yourself. The sense of security comes from the heart. Not by someone or something, not by external clouds, fame and fortune, not by vain people, not by self-righteous cognition. Don't base your happiness on what you will lose, but cherish what you have now.
6. Some people, not far away, can only be friends, not lovers; Some people, when they are close, can only be others, not friends; Some people don't have to pretend deliberately, but they will also remember deeply; Some people, no matter how they flash, will pass by; In life, there are always people coming and going around you; There is always someone in your heart, and for a long time, you dare not approach.
7. Diligent people seize the time; Lazy people kill time; Where there is a will, there is a way; Doing nothing wastes time; Loyal officials are punctual; Speculators wait for time; Wise men accumulate time; Fools ignore time; People who seek knowledge use time; Ignorant people waste time; The doer values time; The dissolute tramples on time; Modest people win time; Optimists praise time; Pessimists sigh for time.
Everyone wants to be as far away from their parents as possible when they are young. Unconsciously, I really walked away, separated from them by Qianshan. One day when you look back, you will find that no matter how far you go, there is always a line connecting you with them. At that time, my parents were old and their legs and feet were no longer neat. You should go back to them.
9. A glass of clear water will not be clear if you keep shaking it; A cup of turbid water will be naturally clear if it is not shaken. So is the heart. If you keep shaking, you will be in a state of confusion. Give yourself some time every day to calm down, communicate with your heart, and let your pure nature become your master again, so that your heart will be far away from fidgety, quiet and clear.
10, the annual rings are progressive, moving forward silently, and no one can refuse its footsteps. Living in the change of four seasons is becoming more and more prosperous and tired. Looking back, I always want to walk the road again, and I always want to make the deep and shallow footprints no longer tortuous. Everything is silent, gathering and dispersing, with cause and effect.