A. What are the idiom stories of the way to make friends
1. Making friends in Taoyuan
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the dynasty was defeated by * * *, coupled with years of famine, people's lives were very difficult. Liu Bei intends to save the people, and Zhang Banfei and Quan Guan Yu are willing to do something with Liu Bei. The three of them hit it off, and they chose Zhangfeizhuang as a peach garden. At this time, the peach blossoms were in full bloom and the scenery was beautiful. Zhang Fei prepared a green cow and a white horse as a sacrifice, burned incense and prayed, and took the oath. Three people recognized their brothers by age. Liu Bei became the eldest brother, Guan Yu the second, and Zhang Fei the youngest. This is the famous "Peach Blossom Bride" in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
2. The best friend is the best friend.
During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about four people: Zi Si, Zi Xing, Zi Li and Zi Lai, and said, "Who can be friends with inaction, promising backbone and death as a whole, knowing that life and death are one." The four of them smiled at each other, and they felt that they were rebellious and became good friends with each other.
3. Turn to lay down one's life
It is said that Zuo Botao and Yang Jiaoai met in the Warring States Period, and they went to the State of Chu to see Chu Zhuangwang together. On the way, they met with heavy snow, but at that time, their clothes were very thin and they didn't bring enough food. Zuo Botao gave all his clothes and food to Yang Jiaoai in order to fulfill his friends, and he committed suicide by hiding in an empty tree. Later generations called the intimate friend with profound friendship "Yang Zuo".
B. Idiom story of the way to make friends
1. Taoyuan became sworn
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the DPRK was defeated, coupled with years of famine, and people's lives were very difficult. Liu Bei intends to save the people, and Zhang Fei and Guan Yu are willing to do something with Liu Bei. The three of them hit it off, and they chose Zhangfeizhuang as a peach garden. At this time, the peach blossoms were in full bloom and the scenery was beautiful. Zhang Fei prepared a green cow and a white horse as a sacrifice, burned incense and prayed, and took the oath. Three people recognized their brothers by age. Liu Bei became the eldest brother, Guan Yu the second, and Zhang Fei the youngest. This is the famous "Peach Blossom Bride" in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
2. The best friend is the best friend.
During the Warring States Period, the philosopher Zhuangzi talked about four people: Zi Si, Zi Xing, Zi Li and Zi Lai, and said, "Who can be friends with inaction, promising backbone and death as a whole, knowing that life and death are one." The four of them smiled at each other, and they felt that they were rebellious and became good friends with each other.
3. Turn to lay down one's life
It is said that during the Warring States Period, Zuo Botao and Yang Jiaoai met each other, and they went to Chu State to see Chu Zhuangwang together. On the way, they met with heavy snow, but at that time, their clothes were very thin and they didn't have enough food. Zuo Botao gave all his clothes and food to Yang Jiaoai in order to fulfill his friends, and he committed suicide by hiding in an empty tree. Later generations called the intimate friend with profound friendship "Yang Zuo".
C. The story of foreign friends.
It is famous that:
It is said that a young man thinks he has many friends and often shows off in front of his father. Later, his father said that you have so many friends that you can't compare with one and a half of my friends. The young man didn't believe it. Later, he pretended to kill himself with chicken blood to test his friends. As a result, none of the young man's friends dared to help. Later, he went to half of his father's friends, who gave the young man a lot of money to hurry up. Later, the young man went to a friend of his father's, and his father's friend helped him change his clothes and then took the rap with him. This incident made the young man feel a lot and understand what kind of new friends to make.
D. Stories about the way to make friends
The Chinese nation has a long history and left countless historical stories, which are worth reading. Stories China Historical Stories Daquan column has carefully arranged a large number of historical stories for readers to read online. Here I have compiled a historical story about Yan Zi's way of making friends for you. Please follow my footsteps to see Yan Zi's way of making friends.
Yan Zi was an important politician, thinker and diplomat in the late Spring and Autumn Period. He is witty, eloquent, compassionate, loyal to the country and deeply loved by the people. There are many things that Yan Zi deserves to learn from later generations, such as his way of making friends.
Yan Zi never makes friends indiscriminately, but if he makes a friend, he will finish what he started and will never change in his life. Of course, Yan Zi is an extremely intelligent person, and he can know people correctly, which is a key to his long-term friendship, but more importantly, he treats his friends with "long-term respect". The longer he associates, the more respectful and courteous he is to his friends, so others respect him more and more. The word "respect for a long time" is easy to say, but difficult to do, but Yan Zi insists on it all his life. Therefore, although Yan Zi doesn't make friends easily, he has many friends, all of whom are affectionate. Many people are willing to give their lives for him, and Beiguo Sao is one of them.
According to historical records, Beiguo Sao was a famous person in the State of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period. He was very filial to his parents and was a famous filial son. But his family was so poor that he had no money to support his mother. So I went to Yan Zi, a famous figure at that time, hoping to get some food to support my mother. Yan Zi has heard his name for a long time. He thinks he has a good personality and is happy to make friends with him. Yan Zi not only received him warmly, but also sent him a lot of food and money before he left. Beiguo Sao declined money and accepted food, and the two became good friends from then on. Soon after, Yan Zi was suspected by Qi Jinggong and fled to other countries. When he left, he passed by Beiguo Sao's house to say goodbye. Yan Zi explained what had happened, and Beiguo Sao just said, "Please take care of yourself." Finished seeing the guests off.
After Yan Zi left, Beiguo Sao called his friend and told him, "I admire Yan Zi's morality and associate with it. Now Yan Zi has been suspected for no reason, and I will use my life to clear his wrongs." Beiguo Sao changed his clothes and asked his friends to follow him with swords and bamboo boxes. When going to the Palace to meet Jing Gong's close minister, Bei Guo Sao said passionately, "Yan Ying is a famous sage in the world, because he is here and other countries are afraid to invade. If he dies, Qi will be invaded. I don't want to see the country's lives ruined. I am willing to use my life to clear the grievances of Yan Zi. " And then commit suicide. Seeing this scene, Jing Gong regretted it very much, and personally drove to recover Yan Zi at the border.
e. Stories about how to make friends
Please take the definition of friends seriously. When you meet someone for the first time, you are regarded as friends. This is a very serious attitude. When you reduce the way of making friends to the minimum standard, it is impossible to make real friends.
The relationship between people is mutual. If you are so casual, others will not be taken seriously subconsciously, and others will not necessarily regard you as a friend.
some people are keen on socializing, and they like the feeling of dealing with others. However, if it is not the upper class in a circle, everyone is just being polite. Compliments in social situations are basically not sincere. The role of social butterfly can't win the favor of others, and people will think that you are frivolous.
F. Recommend a few short stories about "making friends"
First, Guan Ning gave up his seat, saying goodbye is not a friend
Guan Ning and Hua Xin were hoeing vegetables in the garden and saw a small piece of gold on the ground. Guan Ning kept on hoeing, just like seeing stones and tiles. Hua Xin picked up the gold piece and then threw it away. They used to sit at the same table to study, and an official sitting in a high car surrounded by obstacles passed by the door. Guan Ning studied as usual, and Hua Xin left his book to watch. Guan Ning cut off the mat and sat down separately, saying, "You are not my friend." Revelation: Like Guan Ning, we should not be tempted by the secular world, go along with the secular world, be single-minded, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and be indifferent to fame and fortune. Only in this way can we achieve great things in the future. Considering the meaning of classical Chinese, why did Guan Ning say to Hua Xin: "Zi is not my friend." A: Because Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin's way of dealing with people did not conform to his own principles of being a man, he broke up categorically.
Second, the turn of the neck
Canon: Out of Historical Records? Biography of Lian Lin Xiangru: "A pawn is happy, and it is a awkward turn."
during the warring States period, the official of the state of Zhao ordered Lin Xiangru, the servant of Yingxian, to be sent by the king of Zhao to go to Qin with rare treasures and Choi. With wisdom and courage, he returned to Zhao intact, was appreciated by the king of Zhao, and was named a doctor. Later, the king of Qin proposed to meet the king of Zhao in Mianchi, trying to force the king of Zhao to yield. General Lin Xiangru and General Lian Po urged the prince of Zhao to attend, and devised a clever plan. Lian Po put pressure on the king of Qin by being brave and good at fighting, and Lin Xiangru saved the prince of Zhao from humiliation with his golden tongue and loyalty to him, and returned to Zhao safely. In recognition of Lin Xiangru, the Prince of Zhao named him Shangqing, which was higher than that of General Lian Po. Lian Po didn't want to. He thought he was brave and good at fighting for Zhao, and he was the first hero, while Lin Xiangru was above himself with only one mouth. Lian Po was very unconvinced and determined to humiliate him. When Lin Xiangru heard the news, he avoided meeting Lian Po everywhere. On the day of the court, he said that he could not get sick. On one occasion, Lin Xiangru went out on business and met Lian Po. Lian Po ordered his men to block Lin Xiangru's road in various ways, and finally Lin Xiangru had to order him to go back to his office. Lian Po was even more proud, and went everywhere to publicize it. When people in Lin Xiangru heard about it, they offered to go home one after another. Lin Xiangru asked why, and they said, "We work for you because we admire you as a truly noble gentleman, but now you have to swallow your pride with Lian Po. Can we not stand it?" Hearing this, Lin Xiangru laughed and asked, "Do you think the king of Qin or the general of Lian Po is powerful? I'm not afraid of the king of Qin, how can I be afraid of Lian Po? Qin is afraid to invade now, but I am afraid that General Lian and I are protecting Zhao. As the right-hand man of Zhao Wang, how can I ignore the country's country because of personal grievances? " When Lian Po heard this, he was very ashamed, so he confessed to Lin Xiangru topless and carrying Vitex negundo. From then on, they became good friends through thick and thin, and Qi Xin served the country.
Third, Boya's unique string
Original text: Boya is good at playing the drums and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya Guqin aims at the high mountain, and Zhong Ziqi said: Good, I am like Mount Tai. Determined to run water, Zhong Ziqi said: Good, like a river. What Boya said, Zhong Ziqi will get it. When he died in his childhood, Boya was the voice of the world, but he broke the piano and never played drums for life.
Yu Boya is good at playing the piano and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. When Yu Boya played the piano, he thought of the mountain in his heart. Zhong Ziqi said, "Well, I seem to see a towering Mount Tai standing in front of my eyes!" Yu Boya thought of running water in his heart, and Zhong Ziqi said, "Well, I seem to see a rushing river!" Yu Boya thought, Zhong Ziqi will know his mind. After Zhong Ziqi's death, Yu Boya felt that there was no bosom friend in the world, so he broke the piano, broke off relations with the strings and stopped playing the piano all his life. This is the story of "Yu Boya thanked his bosom friend by playing the piano". Yu Boya missed his childhood with grief, and people used it to sigh that his bosom friend was hard to find. Since then, because of this story, people have compared "mountain running water" to a bosom friend who is hard to find or whose music is wonderful, and compared "bosom friend" to a person who understands his own mind and has the same language with himself. The word "Bo Ya Jue Xian" has gradually evolved into a meaning: because his bosom friend died, he abandoned a certain specialty or hobby to express his mourning.
Fourth, the friendship between Marx and Engels
The friendship between Marx and Engels is a model of human friendship. From the first meeting between Marx and Engels in 1842, in the past 4 years, in the great struggle of leading the international * * * proletarian movement, they fought in unity and forged sincere friendship through adversity. Because of the need of revolutionary struggle, they have lived in two places for nearly 2 years, but their relationship has not been alienated, but has become closer and closer. They correspond almost every day, talking about various political events and scientific theoretical issues, and guiding the proletarian revolutionary movements in various countries. Marx not only admired Engels' profound knowledge and noble personality, but also cared about Engels' health. At one time, Engels was ill, and Marx always hung on his mind. In his letter to Engels, he said, "I am concerned about your health, just like your own illness, maybe even worse." In order to "preserve the best thinkers", Engels financially supported poor Marx, so that he could concentrate on the research of revolutionary theory. Against his original will, Engels went to the company run by his father to engage in the "ghost business" work. When the first volume of Das Kapital went to press, Marx wrote to Engels and said, "I can only thank you for this!" Without your sacrifice for me, I could never have finished the great work of three books. I embrace you with gratitude. " Although Engels made great sacrifices, he always believed that being able to fight side by side with Marx for 4 years was the greatest happiness in his life. This lofty revolutionary friendship between Marx and Engels, as Lenin praised, "surpassed all the most touching legends about friendship of the ancients".
g. Idioms and allusions of the way to make friends
1. According to historical records, Beiguo Sao was a famous person in the State of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period. He was very filial to his parents and was a famous filial son. But his family was so poor that he had no money to support his mother. So I went to Yan Zi, a famous figure at that time, hoping to get some food to support my mother. Yan Zi has heard his name for a long time. He thinks he has a good personality and is happy to make friends with him. Yan Zi not only received him warmly, but also sent him a lot of food and money before he left. Beiguo Sao declined money and accepted food, and the two became good friends from then on. Soon after, Yan Zi was suspected by Qi Jinggong and fled to other countries. When he left, he passed by Beiguo Sao's house to say goodbye. Yan Zi explained what had happened, and Beiguo Sao just said, "Please take care of yourself." Finished seeing the guests off.
After Yan Zi left, Beiguo Sao called his friend and told him, "I admire Yan Zi's morality and associate with it. Now Yan Zi has been suspected for no reason, and I will use my life to clear his wrongs." Beiguo Sao changed his clothes and asked his friends to follow him with swords and bamboo boxes. When he went to the palace to meet Jing Gong's close minister, Bei Guo Sao said passionately, "Yan Ying is a famous sage in the world, because he is here and other countries are afraid to invade. If he dies, Qi will be invaded. I don't want to see the country's lives ruined. I am willing to use my life to clear the grievances of Yan Zi. " And then commit suicide. Seeing this scene, Jing Gong regretted it very much, and personally drove to recover Yan Zi at the border.
2. Guan Ning and Hua Xin are weeding in the garden. Seeing a piece of gold on the ground, Guan Ning still waved his hoe, as if he saw a tile stone. Hua Xin happily picked up the piece of gold, but after seeing Guan Ning's look, he threw it away. Once, they were sitting on the same mat to study. A man in a dress happened to pass by the door in a covered car. Guan Ning was still reading as before, but Hua Xin put down his book and went out to watch. Guan Ning cut off the mat and sat with Hua Xin separately, saying, "You are not my friend anymore."
Up to now, the story of "Guan Ning gave up his seat" has been spread, and people have been promoting Guan Ning as a typical person who is not greedy for glory and money. However, Guan Ning can't treat his friends in two ways, and it's too one-sided to take a break-up attitude.
Guan Ning broke up with his friends because one or two details didn't meet his own standards. He was a little demanding, but Hua Xin was greedy for vanity.