Needless to say, I have become a marionette, a greenhouse plant, a remote control in my hand, a pet in the house... Sorry, I have to say more! [Slap in the face][Laugh]

What will happen to children if their parents are overprotective?

1. Children are self-centered and too self-centered

Parents are over-protective, holding them in their mouths for fear of melting, holding them in their hands for fear of falling. Parents will satisfy their children's requests, whether they are reasonable or not. Parents only have children in their hearts; children only have themselves in their hearts.

2. Children are parasites and giant babies.

In learning, he is unconscious; in life, he is not self-reliant. If you always rely on your parents for everything, you will never stand up and never grow up.

Even if you barely graduate from college, you still don’t have the courage to face the society. At the end of the day, you can only stay at home and become a shameful "old man".

3. Children are flowers in the greenhouse and cannot afford to lose.

Being overprotected by parents is like a flower in a greenhouse, unable to withstand the wind and waves of life. Any small setback or blow would be unbearable for him.

On the road of life, there are bright sunshine and miserable wind and rain; there are smooth sailing and ups and downs. Such children cannot bear the setbacks and will go to extremes.

4. The child has no self-confidence and has social phobia.

Children who are overprotected by their parents lack self-confidence in facing society and interacting with others. Either they are arrogant or they belittle themselves, and they cannot live in harmony with others.

As time goes by, except for my parents, I have no friends around me. The interpersonal circle is very small, and they are even afraid of interacting with others, closing themselves off, and developing social phobia.

5. Children do not understand gratitude and have no filial piety.

Children whose parents are overprotective have been protected by their parents under the wings of old hens since childhood. They want stars, but their parents dare not give them the moon. In terms of material life, try to be satisfied.

In the long run, everything parents do for themselves is what they should do. This is how parents should be in the world. I don’t know what gratitude means, and I have no filial piety towards my parents.

Conclusion:

Those parents who are extremely protective, I send you Gorky’s famous sayings:

“Care for your children, this is what any hen will do. However, educating children is a great national undertaking."

Children belong to your parents, but they are not your private property; she or he belongs to society and the country. Fold your wings, drive the child out of the greenhouse, and let him run bravely and thrive in the sun, wind and rain!

They will have no responsibility or responsibility, become selfish, and become seriously dependent on their parents.

Parents who over-protect their children will cause their children to become weak in character, unable to handle problems independently, and will make their children dependent. When encountering problems, they will choose to escape, or they will only seek help from their parents to solve problems. They are very dependent on their parents, have no own opinions and opinions, and lack the ability to solve problems! There will also be obstacles in social interaction, such as not being able to get along with others and dealing with interpersonal relationships. They are often selfish and indifferent and self-centered. They cannot consider problems from other people's perspective and do not know how to understand other people's feelings. This way If it goes on for a long time, no one will want to associate with it, that is, it will not be appreciated and loved by others! Children who are overprotected also have poor psychological endurance and cannot withstand failures and setbacks. If they receive a little blow, they will become self-defeating and helpless! Although parents’ original intention is to keep their children healthy and safe, they don’t know that doing so will only harm their children. Parents should understand that every child is an independent individual. We cannot deprive them of their self-growth. We should try our best to give them opportunities to try new things, give them space to develop, encourage them, and believe in them.

Don't let things go and don't be overprotective. This is the best love and protection for your children!

I am timid and afraid of getting into trouble. I have to rely on my parents when I have no idea. I have no consciousness of my own or my own ideas. I can’t do anything. I only know how to eat, drink and poop. I’m a loser!

Children will become cowardly, have no self-confidence, no sense of responsibility, and no sense of responsibility

They will be more paranoid when encountering problems, and when they cannot solve the problem, they can rarely learn from themselves. Looking for reasons will lead to shirking responsibility in most cases.

There is nothing wrong with parents caring about and protecting their children, but everything must be done in moderation. Most children will experience any pitfalls on their growth path, and some even make them again and again. Some pain must be unforgettable before it can be remembered forever. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake or fail. People grow through failures and mistakes.

Children will ask their parents for everything.