These sixteen words mean that too persistent and extreme feelings are often endless from beginning to end, and people who are too strong are bound to be insulted by ordinary people. As a gentleman, we should be gentle, calm, restrained and unobtrusive.
If you are serious and affectionate in a relationship, this person will definitely be troubled. I want each other to be immersed in love as much as myself. You love each other so much that you have given a lot. You want to share your happiness and sadness with each other. You want to meet each other as soon as you get home from work, and you want to go out to play with each other on your rest day. You have no friends, and the focus of your life is only the other person, but with such strong feelings, the other person may not be able to respond with the same strong love.
As a result, an unfair mentality has emerged, followed by quarrels and separation.
"Being strong is humiliating" means that it is best for a person not to be sharp-edged everywhere, but to keep a low profile, so that there is no threat to others. If you act in a high-profile manner, others will think you are too aggressive and will not have a good impression on you before you get to know you well. What's more, they will unite to attack.
And a modest gentleman, who doesn't show mountains and rivers, treats others gently and takes care of everyone around him gently. He has no edges and corners, but he has character and is not sharp, but he has a lot of connotation. He feels natural and graceful when he is good at himself.