No meaning, no will, no entity, no me. -The Analects of Confucius should not be too stubborn about its own thoughts, but should learn to be flexible and accept new knowledge; Don't force difficult tasks to be completed at once, but do what you can; Don't force others to accept their own ideas; Don't be selfish, be considerate of others. Gentleman, self-improvement. As a gentleman, we should have a strong will and never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen our self-cultivation and complete and develop our studies or careers. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibility and talent entrusted to a gentleman by the universe. ) 2. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -"Three Kingdoms" (Translation: Don't do something just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much. It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. When you meet a good man, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid I can't do it in the future. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away. 4. Bowing to others and complaining is far from complaining. The Analects of Confucius) Those who work hard and take the initiative to take the main responsibility for their mistakes are "doing their best", and forgiving others more is "blaming others less". In this case, they won't resent each other. ) 5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman always starts from a good wish or a wish that is beneficial to others, wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, and does not look at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults." ) 6. See the sage Si Qi Yan, see the sage Si Qi introspection. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in a certain respect, you should consult with an open mind, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies. 7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius (translation: what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster ...), don't impose it on others. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius (Translation: Do not hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is on the side, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence". 9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous. ) 10. if two people are United, their profits will be cut off; The difference between one thought and another. -"Zhouyi" (translation: people who work together are strong enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept. ) 1 1. The gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the opportunity. (Translation: Even if a gentleman is outstanding in talent and superb in skills, he will not show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary. ) 12. The loss is full and the income is not big. -"Shangshu" (translation: smug about what has been achieved will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it. ) 13. People don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? The Analects of Confucius) If I have achieved achievements that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor? ) 14. Keep your word and do what you want. -"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: words must be done; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly. ) 15. Nothing, nothing, nothing. -"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: tell the truth, don't guess out of thin air; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I", not self-righteous, and work hard with people around me to complete the task. ) 16. in a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. The Analects of Confucius (translation: three people together, one of whom must be worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to study, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies. If there are, I will correct them. ) 17. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. A gentleman always blames himself and finds faults and problems from himself. Villains often look at others to find their own shortcomings and deficiencies. 18. an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman is open-minded, frank and clean, and looks very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many inner desires and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often anxious, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and emotionally unstable. ) 19. Don't complain and don't be rude. The Analects of Confucius (translation: When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively, and never shift the responsibility to others, which later developed into the idiom "complaining about others". ) 20. Don't be angry or jealous. ) If you make a mistake, don't take it out on others and don't make it again. ) 2 1. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. The Analects of Confucius (translation: things that should not be done, even if you really want to do it, but insist on not doing it, this is called "forbearance." Small things can't be tolerated, and if you don't have patience, it will affect the overall situation and ruin major events. ) 22. The villain's mistakes must be written. -"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: the villain will cover it. ) 23. There are too many lives that don't change. The Analects of Confucius) If you make a mistake and don't correct it, that's the real mistake. A gentleman's business is based on truth. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman is committed to roots and roots, and "Tao" naturally arises. ) 25. A gentleman is ashamed of words but not of deeds. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman thinks that it is shameful to talk more and act less. ) 26. Look before you leap. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Do everything after repeated consideration. ) 27. many lines of injustice will be hanged. -"Zuo Zhuan" (translation: if you do too many bad things, you will eventually bring your own destruction. ) 28. No one has made mistakes, but if they do, they can be corrected. -"Zuo Zhuan" (Translation: Everyone may make mistakes and make hunting mistakes. As long as it is corrected, it is still the best person. ) 29. Don't hide your virtue with a brush. -Zuo Zhuan (Translation: When evaluating a person, you can't deny his credit just because of a little mistake. If a person can do it, he will do it. People can do it in ten ways and thousands of ways. -"The Doctrine of the Mean" (translation: people can learn it at once. If I spend hundreds of times, I will definitely learn. What others can master ten times, if I learn a thousand times, I will certainly master it. ) 3 1. Shame is almost brave. (Translation: Knowing what is shameful behavior is a good sign of courage. 32. pot calling the kettle black. -"Mencius" (translation: I think that my mistakes are smaller than others and my shortcomings are less than others. ) 33. A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others. (Mencius) The greatest strength of a gentleman is to treat others with a noble and loving heart. ) 34. Anyone can think of Yao Shun. As long as you are willing to work hard, everyone can become a great saint like Yao Shun. 35. The embankment of thousands of feet collapsed in the ant nest; A room 100 feet high was burning with sudden smoke. -"Han Feizi" (translation: Qianli levee, because ants dig holes, it may burst its banks; A 100-foot-high building may be burned down by a fire caused by sparks from a chimney gap. ) 36. The speaker is innocent, and those who smell it are enough to quit. -"preface to poetry" (translation: the person who makes the criticism is not guilty. When you hear criticism from others, you should seriously reflect on yourself, correct your mistakes and take it as advice from others. ) 37. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is helpful for action. -"Confucius's Family Language" (translation: good medicine tastes bitter and is good for the disease; Advice may sound bad, but it is good for people's behavior. A good word warms three winters, but a bad word hurts in June. -Ming dynasty proverb (translation: a kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold. ) 39. After many experiences, filial piety comes first. -"Augmenting a Scholar" (Translation: It has been said for thousands of times that you should be filial first and love your brother first. 40. People do good and evil, and they bring their own blessings. ) 4 1. It is dangerous to learn without thinking. The Analects of Confucius (translation: learning without thinking is useless, dreaming without learning is useless. )